08/13/2021
Continuing My Thoughts On Ministry & Preaching
Thought #3
Unreal Expectations
Ministry is hard.....A grind especially when you really love God and His people. You will have a tendency to put undue expectations on yourself. Remember that you are made out of the same stuff that the people in the pews are made out of. You get tired, hungry, angry, disappointed, frustrated and weak. Remember that the church already has a spouse; a husband in fact and He already died for her. Be a steward/undershepherd and not a sugar daddy or the OTHER MAN in her life. Be an example of Godly character and conduct. This includes apologizing when you are wrong and walking in humility that endears people to you.. Let everything else take care of itself.
Realize that the people in the pews will forget that you are made out of the same stuff they are. Realize it for your family and prepare them as best you can. When their kids get in trouble they will want you to talk to the judge, pray and counsel their children, but when yours get into trouble "they should have known better because of who their parent(s) are. Do your best to always show your humanity as a person while understanding that the immature may not be able to handle the fact that you may drink wine on occasion (without getting inebriated) or you like other music other than GOSPEL.
Realize that the same people who call you crying about a whole range of things have the potential to use that SAME phone and call someone to talk about you. That may be an unreal expectation, but grace is your ability to do what you wouldn't normally be able to do by the power and might of His Spirit and now your own.