08/18/2026
We poke a little fun at the way computers were supposed to make life easier and instead can seem to get in the way of living life. They can, if used improperly, become an obstacle. Some people think of Mary the same way, an obstacle to Jesus, when her role is nothing like that at all. Our reflection this week looks a little deeper at this point and our trust in Mary as our Queen Mother to get to Jesus in the best way possible.
Going to Jesus Through Mary
It was Saint Louis de Montfort who articulated well the great importance of going to Jesus through Mary. Of course, recourse to the Mother of God, Queen of Heaven, was not new. And Saint Louis' total dedication to her was not unique, but he did pave a simple way for anyone to move closer to Jesus. Countless souls have gone to Jesus this way, some canonized, and many more whose names have been lost to history.
Unfortunately, this devotion gets misconstrued and is sometimes wrongly called "worship" or "idolatry" of Mary by those outside the Church. While we do love and revere her, we do not worship her. It is a delicate and important distinction. Worship and adoration is due to God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit alone. Yes, we do hold her higher than any other saint, but never equal to or higher than God, for she is always the humble handmaid of the Lord trying to lead her children to her Son.
Mary is prefigured in Bathsheba's appeal to King David on her son Solomon's behalf. A role that changes once Solomon ascends to his throne. He immediately brings her to a throne at his side, where she intercedes for others. Solomon is the King and Bathsheba is the Queen, not his wives or even his favorite wife, but his mother.
In the apparitions of Our Lady of Guadalupe we see this in a tender way. Saint Juan Diego is sent by Mary to collect the roses that miraculously grew at Tepeyac in the middle of winter. He is to take them to the Bishop as proof of the vision. Before heading off however with this gift for God's representative on earth, Mary, with her own hands, rearranges the roses. Mary does this for us. She arranges our offerings and petitions to present them to her Son in a way we cannot do on our own.
Mary knows our sighs, mournings, and weepings in this vale of tears. She is present to them as Mother. She is present to them as she herself lived through many in her own earthly life. She knows loss and pain and grief, she is our Mother of Sorrows, but she is also Full of Grace. Mary is completely in sync with God and she takes pity on us. She tries to raise us above our miseries and navel gazing to fix our eyes on the only solution to every problem: her Son, Jesus Christ, true God and true Man, who suffered, was crucified, and was buried. On the third day, he rose again from the dead. He ascended into Heaven and is seated at the right hand of God the Father Almighty. From there he will come to judge the living and the dead. And this is Mary's function, her position as Queen, lets her lead us to him, with lamps lit to the heavenly wedding feast of the Lamb. Hail Holy Queen!