08/21/2026
Our family of five sat around the dinner table last night giving a recap of our day. Reagan & Ryland informed me they had been scaling Mount Laundry all afternoon and still hadn't reached the summit. Gibbs shared about a new kid he met at school. I gave a rundown of my day at the church preparing my message for Sunday. Kari mentioned that she had been to the church school and grocery store. Then she shared an off-the-cuff secret. "Oh, and I have a praise. I finished Revelation this morning during my devotions."
The replies: "Nice!" "Good job, Mom." "Hey, that's great." Then Kari went on to say, "Yeah, it took me a few years, but I have now walked through the study Bible dad gave me a long time ago and I have journaled through every book of the Bible."
No one knows this detail about Kari's daily life. There were no social media announcements posted of this accomplishment. ABC 6 did not end the 6:00 news congratulating a local pastor's wife for her years-long achievement. And yet, although this is never mentioned--everyone who knows Kari personally knows this secret. How? Because you cannot hide secret righteousness, just like you cannot hide secret unrighteousness. God set it up that way.
"And when you pray, you shall not be like the hypocrites. For they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly." (Matthew 6:5-6)
"Nothing in all creation is hidden from God’s sight. Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of Him to whom we must give account." (Hebrews 4:13)
Good or bad, who you are behind closed doors is going to be revealed. It usually takes time, years even, but who you are being behind the veil in private will be known in public. And the quiet, daily life you live and hammer out on the unseen anvil is going to deeply influence and impact the people around you for good or evil, blessing or cursing. Today, I praise the Lord for a godly, loving, gracious, kind, consistent, contented, courageous, faithful, fun, funny, hard-working, enjoyable, Spirit-filled, joy-filled lady named Kari Whisner. If you know her, you'll never hear her boast and blast her own horn, but it's no secret this is who she is. I commend her example to you.
(Shared by Pastor Jon Whisner)