05/31/2026
Sermon Sunday 5-31-26
1st Corinthians 13:1-12
Vs. 1-2 Love is superior to spiritual gifts in and of themselves.
“Possession of the charismata is not the sign of the Spirit; Christian love is.”
Eros- passionate, romantic, sensual love
Storge was the second word for love. It refers to family love, the kind of love there is between a parent and child, or between family members in general.
Philia is the third word for love. It speaks of a brotherly friendship and affection. It is the love of deep friendship and partnership. It might be described as the highest love of which man, without God’s help, is capable of.
Agape- It is a love that loves without changing. It is a self-giving love that gives without demanding or expecting repayment.
It is love so great that it can be given to the unlovable or unappealing. It is love that loves even when it is rejected.
Agape love gives and loves because it wants to; it does not demand or expect repayment from the love given.
It gives because it loves; it does not love in order to receive.
It can be defined as a sacrificial, giving, absorbing kind of love. The word has little to do with emotion; it has much to do with self-denial for the sake of another.
Vs.3
Many Christians believe the Christian life is all about sacrifice – sacrificing your money, your life, for the cause of Jesus Christ.
Sacrifice is important, but without love it is useless, it profits me nothing.
Vs. 4-7 Love: At the beginning, we see love is described by action words, not by lofty concepts.
Paul is not writing about how love feels, he is writing about how it can be seen in action.
True love is always demonstrated by action.
Love suffers long: Love will endure a long time. It is the heart shown in God when it is said of the Lord, The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness,
The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance. 2nd Peter 3:9
Love suffers long. If God’s love is in us, we will show long suffering to those who annoy or hurt us.
Love does not envy.
Envy is a painful or resentful emotion that occurs when you lack another person's possessions, qualities, or achievements and either desire them for yourself or wish the other person lacked them.
Love does not parade itself: Love in action can work anonymously. It does not have to have the limelight or the attention to do a good job, or to be satisfied with the result.
Love gives because it loves to give, not out of the sense of praise it can have from showing itself off.
Love… is not puffed up: To be puffed up is to be arrogant and self-focused. It speaks of someone who has a “big head.” Love doesn’t get its head swelled; it focuses on the needs of others.
Love… does not behave rudely: Where there is love, there will be kindness and good manners
Love… does not seek its own:
“Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another;”
Romans 12:10 NKJV
“Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.”
Philippians 2:4 NKJV
This is being like Jesus in a most basic way, being an others-centered person instead of a self-centered person.
Love is not provoked- We all find it easy to be provoked or to become irritated with those who are just plain annoying. But it is a sin to be provoked, and it isn’t love.
Love… thinks no evil: Literally this means “love does not store up the memory of any wrong it has received.” Love will put away the hurts of the past instead of clinging to them
Love… does not rejoice in iniquity: It is willing to want the best for others, and refuses to color things against others.