09/14/2026
GRANDPARENTS’ DAY
As you can tell from our up-coming opening text, this week I was still studying Paul’s writings to Timothy. We can read in 2nd Timothy 1:5 that while writing to Timothy, Paul writes “Timothy, I have been reminded of your sincere faith, which was first lived in your grandmother Lois and then in your mother Eunice. I am persuaded it now lives in you.”
Folks, Timothy’s mother and his mother were both Jews and believers in Jesus. Don’t you find it interesting how Timothy’s mother and grandmother were such strong believers that they were able to influence Timothy for the Lord? Doesn’t that indicate to you the Christian influence we can be to others.
Folks, that still happens today as many Christians influence others including family members to the Lord. What about you? In what direction are you influencing your family, friends, and your acquaintances?
Beloved, as you sit there pondering this part of the Lord’s message let me try to keep your interest up by telling you that in Proverbs 17:6, Solomon says. “Children’s children are a crown to the aged and parents are the pride of their children.” Folks. what about you?
Are you now conducting yourself in such a way so that your children, your grandchildren, and your great grandchildren can learn Christian values from you? Can you think of anything better than to lead them to the Lord? We should never give up.
Folks, I pray you feel that down through the years, you have grown spiritually and have matured to the point where you are now even more concerned about the salvation of others and that includes your children, your grandchildren and your great grandchildren.
Grandparents, how do you feel about being a grandparent? Did it make you feel any older when that grandchild came into your life? Did you feel a need to get wiser? Has becoming a grandparent caused you to feel a bit more responsible for the spiritual growth of your family?
YES, I sure enjoy being a grandfather. It has been a pleasure to watch our children grow up and even a greater pleasure to watch our grandchildren and great grandchildren grow up.
Folks, the truth of the matter is I enjoy watching our grandchildren and our great grandchildren grow up much more than I enjoyed watching their parents, our children grow up.
Maybe that is because, as a grandparent, I don’t feel the stress and strain, or the financial worries a child brings on. Maybe it’s because I have more time to spend with my grandchildren and great grandchildren than I had to spend with their parents.
AND, it’s because I don’t feel like I have to be as strict with our grands and greats as I was with their parents and thus I can spoil them. Being a grandparent and a great grandparent has many blessing and as our text points out many responsibilities.
Beloved, I am sure we all know that, as a Christian, we are responsible for our neighbor, but let’s never forget we have a great responsibility as a parent, a grandparent, and a great grandparent.
In today’s world, where people are so busy trying to make a living and going from place to place, let’s always remember that it won’t do any good for you to gain the entire world, if in doing it, you don’t take the time to, at least try to make sure your children and your grands are saved.
With times as hard as they are, sometimes, only grandparents have time to take the grandchildren or great grandchildren to church. Sometimes only the grandparents have time to read the Bible to their grandchildren or great grandchildren and train them up in the ways they should grow.
Sometimes it is the grandparents who introduces the child to the Lord. Folks, I don’t care who introduces someone to the Lord, as long as it gets done. We can’t just sit around and not try to do something about someone who is lost whether it is a child, an adult or one of our grands.
Beloved, there is only one place in the Bible where the title “grandmother” is used. The title “grandfather” is not used at all. When we use those titles today, we need to understand the importance of the grandparents in a child’s life including leading their grandchildren to God.
For the most part, today’s grandparents can still have a tremendous influence in their grandchildren’s life. I feel we grandparents can still lead our grandchildren to God or away from God, by the lives we live and the examples we set. We grandparents are specially blessed because we can set a Christian example for our grandchildren who look up to us.
Beloved, Paul told Timothy the faith he had, came to him, from his grandmother who had passed it to his mother, who passed it on to him. This shows us the great influence grandparents can have on their grands and many others. I am talking to all of you grandparents and you parents, all of us should be witnesses for Christ, and many times it’s through the lives of the older family members that the children learn about the Lord.
Beloved, the Bible tells us in Proverbs 22:6 that it is the parents place to raise their children in the ways of the Lord. God has placed upon parents, grandparents, and great grandparents the priestly vocation of communicating our Christian heritage to our children and our grands.
It is important we realize that there are many different types of influences our children, grands, and greats are exposed to. Parent, grandparents and great grandparents are no longer the sole role models for their children.
The many different forms of mass media like cell phones, I-Phones, plus peers, T-V’s and the schools, teach values to our children. And many times, those values are not the values our children or grands should have.
Beloved, when we measure the time children are being influence by others outside the family, it’s no wonder parents feel embattled and it is no wonder those children who just grow up with no proper Christian influence end up being lost.
Parents and grandparents should live up to their responsibility to communicate and live the values of their Christian heritage. Here a while back, more than three hundred thousand parents were interviewed in a survey concerning what they felt was the greatest threat to the family. DO YOU KNOW WHAT THEY THOUGHT THE THREAT WAS?
The number one issue was not cell phones, I phones, television, or drugs, it was not permissive s*x, divorce, or even mothers working outside the home. The vast majority of those parents said they thought the greatest threat to family life today is inattentive parents.
Kids are not being raised, they are just growing up. This is why in today’s stressful world, grandparents and great grandparents are called upon more and more to fill the ever widening, gap.
Beloved, children are great learners. Sometimes when you think the child is just playing, in all reality they are listening, watching and learning. They are learning all the time.
Children are learning what it means to be an adult, and parents and grandparents are still the primary source of this learning for children. Folks, this idea that children learn the most from their peers is wrong. If their parents or grandparents are doing their job they will learn from them.
Let me stress, this is true only if parents do not forfeit their responsibilities to be the primary source of learning and influence for their children and grands. If parents forfeit this right, them grandparent must step in and do their part in sharing a Christian influence with the youth.
Beloved, the Bible tells us, for the most part, when the day comes when the child grows up and goes his or her own way and if they happen to stray from the Christian ways of their parents, usually they will come back to their Christian values as they get older.
Beloved that is if they have been taught Christian values in the first place. Many adolescents will reject the values of their parent for a while in order to test them. They have to find out if their parents or grandparents live those values and if those values are for them. It’s painful and uncomfortable for the parents and grandparents to watch this, but usually it’s not a crisis.
Beloved, the crisis occurs when parents or grandparents forfeit or give up their responsibility to stand up for Christian VALUES and instead yield to some worldly influence to instruct their swayable children or grands.
Parent, grandparents, you can give your children and or grands an appreciation for right and wrong if you have the courage to and want to.
You can tell them what is good and true and beautiful, and you can equip your children, and or grands who look up to you, to find their own way in the world and still live as Christians. You can do this, if you have the courage, want to, and will take the time and make the effort.
Beloved, might I add, most children and grands will pay a lot of attention to their grandparents if their grandparents will only pay attention to them. Too many grandparents think once they become grandparents, they are too old to cut the mustard and be of any teachable use.
Some grandparents want to give up, sit back, and not take on any responsibilities. Sometimes it seems there are some older people who think they are the only ones who get tired.
The only thing I’ve got to say about that is, CHET IS RIGHT, when he says its better getting older than not getting older. Folks getting older is a part of the process of life. In the due course of time, old age will come to most of us. Others will never live long enough to see old age and that is too bad.
Folks, the only way to prevent old age and getting old is for you to die young. To that end statistics tell us in this past generation there are more and more young-people between the ages of 25 - 44 who are not living older.
They are not living long enough to get old. What do they have to show for their life? What do you have to show for your life?
Ladies, you can’t say I didn’t warn you so listen up and be careful. Did you hear that on November 29, 2023, a 70-year-old woman became the world’s oldest mother when she gave birth to twins? I don’t think there are many older women who want to have something like that to show for their life.
Modern day medical practices are helping some older people live older and older. Therefore, what will it be like to be old is a question many of us must face. Yet, not all of us will answer the question in the same way.
Funny isn’t it, everyone wants to live a long, long time, but nobody wants to get old. Why do we glorify the youth and think of old age more in terms of its liabilities than its assets. Isn’t just the opposite true? I believe the older you get the more you can appreciate life and the world around you.
Too many people consider old age as a time of failing powers of both the mind and the body. BUT look at the advantage of wisdom many older people have. As one of those older people, let me tell you, we should not see old age as a time of the lessening of the satisfactions and the joys of life.
We should not be afraid of the later years. A couple of the reasons for dreading old age are the feelings of being set aside and getting removed from active pursuits of life.
To a degree, age is an attitude of the mind, you are as old or young as you think you are. AND RIGHT NOW I, never mind. However, old age should not be burdensome or unhappy. Old age can have beauties and assets not attainable by the youth. Old age is a portion of life.
It is the perfection of a pattern. It is the fulfillment of what went before, the period of completion and rounding out of live. As such it need not be looked forward to with fear or dismay, rather with pleasurable anticipation.
Beloved, whether our later years of life are or will be happy or unhappy depends largely upon ourself and our care giver. Did you know the Bible contains many encouraging and uplifting perspectives concerning getting older. It shifts getting OLD away from the decay of the body and mind to highlighting old age as a time of peak fulfillment and purpose of life.
The books of Psalms, Proverbs, Isaiah, and both books of Timothy provide a lot of information on the benefits of living long enough to get old.
You will find in the Bible, reference to older people setting the example for younger ones. I encourage everyone to go home today and study these books.
You might also study the 17th verse of the 103rd Psalm which says, “But from everlasting to everlasting, the Lord’s love is with those who fear Him and His righteousness with their children’s children.”
Beloved in the 12th verse of the 132nd Psalm God says, “If your sons keep my covenant, and the statues I teach them, then their sons will sit on your throne forever and ever.
Folks, look at the promises that are ours if we remain faithful to the Lord and do all we can to teach His ways to our children and our children’s children. Look at the blessings that will be theirs if only we will do our part.
Beloved, in God’s message to us today God is telling all of us we are to go home and tell our families how much the Lord loves us and has done for us and how He has had mercy for us, and how if we will follow His plan of salvation and are faithful unto the very end we will have a home in heaven and if they will do the same, so will they. It is your decision, and it is now our time of decision