09/10/2026
Making Light of Difficulties
He manga wai kia kore e whitikia. It is a big river indeed that cannot be crossed. MAORI SAYING
It seems redundant to say that everyone is going to have difficulties. The issue is not whether or not we have difficulties in life. The issue is how we handle them. All of us have rivers to cross. We have to deal with getting or not getting promotions. We have to deal with death—of those close to us, and ultimately our own. We have to deal with money—what we do with it and what it does to us.
There’s no end to the list of what we have to deal with in this life. At least, this is one issue on which we can agree—life is dealing with life. We need to look at how we face difficulties. This old Maori saying suggests to us that we can make light of difficulties and they will disappear, or we can blow them up until they begin to reproduce. The choice is ours.
Difficulties will often evaporate if I don’t keep pumping life into them.
—Anne Wilson Schaef