09/05/2026
Walking in Grace
Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits.
—Psalm 103:2 (NIV)
My friend Kelly and I have a tradition of celebrating our birthdays together by treating each other with manicures and pedicures at a spa. We both look forward to two hours of pampering twice a year—me paying when it’s her birthday and her paying on mine.
For my birthday last September, the nail technicians we normally used were off that day, so we had two different employees. Kelly ordered the usual for us, but it was a very different experience. Instead of lots of massaging and TLC, the duo rushed us through, skipped steps, and finished our mani/pedi in half the time it usually took. Kelly paid, and we left the salon.
I could sense we both felt a little cheated, but Kelly spoke up first. I agreed that the service was subpar. The two of us complained so much that I realized when I got in my car that I’d totally forgotten to thank her. I was mortified! I’d spent time with my best friend. I had cute pink toenails and fingernails. It was my birthday gift. I dialed Kelly’s number.
“I forgot to thank you, my friend!” That’s when it hit me—all my complaining had overshadowed my feelings of gratitude.
Expressing my gratitude reminded me how blessed I really was. Not only did I receive a mani/pedi for my birthday and spend time with a beloved friend, but I also had the gift of knowing gratitude couldn’t exist when I complained.
Dear God, help me to be grateful and see the good in every situation regardless of the circumstances. Amen.
—Stephanie Thompson
Digging Deeper: Philippians 2:14; Colossians 3:13; 1 Thessalonians 5:18