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Friends of the Heart Kim, Janine and Shirley call themselves "Friends of the Heart" because their passion is to help women open their hearts and find joy in Christ.

June 14, from Ecclesiastes 9-12 (and optional, Psalm 10)Today’s Focus: "Remember him before the light of the sun, moon, ...
06/14/2026

June 14, from Ecclesiastes 9-12 (and optional, Psalm 10)

Today’s Focus: "Remember him before the light of the sun, moon, and stars is dim to your old eyes, and rain clouds continually darken your sky." (Ecclesiastes 12:2 NLT)

Ponder: These verses tell us to remember our Creator before we experience aging through legs that tremble, shoulders that stoop and teeth that stop grinding. And that is the gist of Ecclesiastes—remember Your Creator through every experience of life from youth through old age. As we noted previously, we are to fear Him (reverence Him) and this chapter concludes with the admonition to obey Him. My mother often quoted the primary purpose put forth in the Westminster Catechism: The chief end of man is "to glorify God and enjoy him forever." Solomon would agree.

Practice: Memorize "The chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever."

Pray: Dear God, Your ways are so far above our ways. We ponder why things happen and why we must experience disappointments. But You know far better than we do. Calm us with Your Spirit when we doubt that Your ways are best. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

From Shirley’s Office“QWERTY spells Perseverance"If you’ve typed a document, you recognize QWERTY. Those are the letters...
06/13/2026

From Shirley’s Office

“QWERTY spells Perseverance"

If you’ve typed a document, you recognize QWERTY. Those are the letters on the top left row of your computer. But did you know they illustrate the value of perseverance?

Christopher Sholes was a typesetter, originally from Pennsylvania. He had the tedious job of arranging metal letters on wooden blocks and inking them to print newspapers. As Sholes worked, he wondered how the job could be made easier.

He worked on a design for a typewriter for five years and then sold it to Re*****on for $12,000, so he never really profited from it. Other typewriters had been invented before his, but his used the QWERTY keyboard design. Fingers eventually danced across QUERTY on all typewriters, I-Pads, and computers.

Perseverance. Merriam Webster’s dictionary defines it as “continued effort to do or achieve something despite difficulties, failure or opposition.”

It’s the opposite of jitterbugging. More like a slow waltz around and around and around the room. Life in general requires perseverance. So how can we get it if we don’t have it?

–Keep your end goal in mind. Christopher Sholes wanted to make life easier for himself and other typesetters. An admirable goal. So he kept at it, and at it, and at it. And you can too.

For instance, maybe you want to learn to dance so you can dance at a wedding. Maybe you have a temper-tandrum child, and you want to train them to get along with playmates. Perhaps you want to do well at that tedious typesetting job so that you can seek an advancement. For whatever the reason, you need perseverance. So keep that end goal in mind.

"Those who have had to wait and work for happiness seem to enjoy it more, because they never take it for granted." Barbara Johnson

–Break a goal into small steps. Learn to slow dance before you try to tango. Ask your child to try to get through one day without losing their temper. Promise yourself a reward after you work at your tedious job for an hour or two.

–Work on building character as you persevere: “You know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything” (James 1:3-4 NIV).

--Instead of feeling irritated about your situation, notice something positive and think about that. Talk to someone else with the same type of challenge and ask how they approach the task without losing heart.

In his book WAITING ON GOD, Wayne Stiles tells the story of biblical Joseph whose brothers sold him to Ishmaelite traders. For thirteen years, he persevered through one predicament after another until he became second to Pharoah in ruling Egypt. Stiles explains how Joseph's relationship with God gave him a taproot from which he drew strength. That same taproot is available to us.

Christopher Sholes never dreamed that his keyboard would someday enable people to communicate around the world at the click of a key. And you may never dream about the rewards you’ll gain by persevering. Not to mention, others may receive great blessings from your perseverance just as they did from Sholes'.

Keep in mind: Quitting isn’t an option, and God will supply the strength you need to reach your goals.

June 13, from Ecclesiastes 5-8 (and optional, Psalm 9)Today’s Focus: "Don't make rash promises, and don't be hasty in br...
06/13/2026

June 13, from Ecclesiastes 5-8 (and optional, Psalm 9)

Today’s Focus: "Don't make rash promises, and don't be hasty in bringing matters before God. After all, God is in heaven, and you are here on earth. So let your words be few." (Ecclesiastes 5:2 NLT)

Ponder: In 31 DAYS TO HAPPINESS, David Jeremiah refers to the devastation of his California community by fire. His house was spared. But when disasters strike, it's easy to blame God. Jeremiah writes of our sorrows: "You want to lay them carefully at the altar rather than violently at His feet. That is, we need to give Him the burden, but not the blame." Good advice. We can speak gracefully about our experiences rather than blame God.

Practice: What burdens might you lay on the altar before God? How might you refer to God's grace as you speak of them to others?

Pray: Lord, help us to live our fragile lives maintaining strong faith that binds us to You. We know You are a good God, and You hold our best interests—and us—close to Your heart. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

June 12, from Ecclesiastes 1-4 (and Psalm 8, optional)Today’s Focus: "God's purpose is that people should fear him." (Ec...
06/12/2026

June 12, from Ecclesiastes 1-4 (and Psalm 8, optional)

Today’s Focus: "God's purpose is that people should fear him." (Ecclesiastes 3:14 NLT)

Ponder: Solomon, who is thought to be the writer of Proverbs, ponders the meaning of life from the perspective of his elder years. We might skim through the book thinking with Solomon "all is vanity" (meaningless). But there's much wisdom in the verses. Yes, we should fear God. Not tremble in fright, but kneel in reverent recognition of Someone so awesome. In his book 31 DAYS TO HAPPINESS, David Jeremiah likens such fear to what you feel as you ride the "Maid of the Mist" to the basin of Niagara Falls or watch a sunset painting the sky over the Rockies. You may be dumbstruck.

Practice: How do you feel at the thought of meeting God? Do you tremble in fright or kneel in reverence? If you tremble, read Scripture watching for God's traits of love, forgiveness and grace.

Pray: Dear Lord, You are too awesome to even imagine. We look forward to that day when we meet You face to face. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

June 11, from Proverbs 28-31 (and optional, Psalm 6)Today’s Focus: “Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is mor...
06/11/2026

June 11, from Proverbs 28-31 (and optional, Psalm 6)

Today’s Focus: “Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies.” (Proverbs 31:10 NLT)

Ponder: THE PASSION TRANSLATION reads “The price paid for her was greater than many jewels” (verse 10). A footnote explains that this verse refers to a virtuous wife but also provides an allegory of the bride of Christ. He paid the price for her by His sacrificial death on the cross. As part of the church, WE make up that bride of Christ.

Practice: Thank Jesus for paying the price for the forgiveness of your sins so that you can spend eternity with Him.

Pray: Jesus, it seems so inadequate to say thank You for our salvation. We want to devote our lives to serving You in whatever way You call us. In Your name we pray. Amen.

June 10, from Proverbs 25-27 (and optional, Psalm 6)Today’s Focus: “If your enemies are hungry, give them food to eat. I...
06/10/2026

June 10, from Proverbs 25-27 (and optional, Psalm 6)

Today’s Focus: “If your enemies are hungry, give them food to eat. If . . . thirsty, give them water to drink.” (Proverbs 25”21)

Ponder: While we may want to turn our backs on people who offend us (they are our "enemies"), Solomon says to be kind and gracious toward them. That surprises them, and it makes us feel less antagonistic. In fact, if we maintain that attitude, we can rebuild a relationship.

Practice: Think of someone who has insulted you or snubbed you in some way. Bless them by complimenting them. Speak of them to others with kindness and respect.

Pray: Lord, may we never tolerate abuse, but give us the grace to treat others with grace. We are imperfect people, and we ask for Your love to flow through us at all times. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Book Review: WAITING ON GOD: WHAT TO DO WHEN GOD DOES NOTHING by Wayne Stiles.Times when you feel God is not answering y...
06/09/2026

Book Review: WAITING ON GOD: WHAT TO DO WHEN GOD DOES NOTHING by Wayne Stiles.

Times when you feel God is not answering your prayers may actually be the most spiritually productive times of your life, according to author Wayne Stiles. He has had good reason to get discouraged by his own life circumstances. But with lessons from the life of Joseph, Stiles has drawn strength to face challenging times.

For instance, Stiles tells the story of how his toddler daughter loved to be tossed into the air and caught. Her sister wanted to be tossed too, but the experience terrified her, and she latched onto Stiles' body when he caught her. The first daughter trusted her father, while the second feared loss of control. According to Stiles, we need to be like the first daughter when God permits challenges.

In the book's introduction Stiles discusses how we want things to change while God wants to change us. To demonstrate that point, Stiles writes this book about Joseph in three sections: Leaving Home, Letting Go, and Coming Home. The book includes a map showing the Journeys in the story of Joseph and includes notes for further reference. Stiles draws excellent examples from each stage of Joseph's life to illustrate his main point: God is Sovereign, and while we may not understand the purposes of our sufferings, we can take courage that God is still in control.

As someone whose life has taken a route different than what was planned, this book made sense. Christians have the mind of Christ, but that doesn't mean we understand why God allows every event we experience. But we can understand and trust that God is faithful and will see us through.

Wayne Stiles (ThM, DMin, Dallas Theological Seminary) is a veteran traveler and serves as a guide to visitors of the Holy Land. Visit www.waynestiles.com. to access his videos, podcasts, online store, and schedule of tours.

June 9, from Proverbs 22-24 (and optional, Psalm 5)Today’s Focus: “Don’t gaze at the wine . . . for in the end it bites ...
06/09/2026

June 9, from Proverbs 22-24 (and optional, Psalm 5)

Today’s Focus: “Don’t gaze at the wine . . . for in the end it bites like a poisonous snake; it stings like a viper.” (Proverbs 23:31-32 NLT)

Ponder: Like so many things, wine must be drunk in moderation. We may tend to go overboard in drinking, eating, watching television, frittering away time on social media. There are consequences to overindulgence. While we enjoy the experience, we miss out on what’s best for us to maintain a healthy, balanced lifestyle.

Practice: In what area may you be overindulging? Wine? Food? A leisure activity? Social media? How can you cut down on this habit?

Pray: Lord, we want to glorify you with our lives, yet we’re drawn into excesses in one area or another. Whether it’s drinking wine, eating chips, watching soaps or some other activity—speak to our hearts. Nudge us with Your Spirit, so that we glorify You in our lifestyle. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

June 8, from Proverbs 19-21 (and optional, Psalm 4).Today’s Focus: “Get all the advice and instruction you can, so you w...
06/08/2026

June 8, from Proverbs 19-21 (and optional, Psalm 4).

Today’s Focus: “Get all the advice and instruction you can, so you will be wise the rest of your life.” (Proverbs 19:20 NLT)

Ponder: Lifelong learning contributes to our happiness and well-being. Not that we sign up for college courses, but that we take advantage of teaching available from pastors, teachers and mature Christians. It’s easy to find podcasts, books and Bible studies to keep our minds engaged.

Practice: How might you expand your knowledge on a topic of interest to you?

Pray: Lord, it takes a lifetime to begin to absorb all You want us to know about You, Your ways and Your world. Give us minds eager to plug into opportunities to learn. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

06/07/2026

June 7, from Proverbs 16-18 (and optional, Psalm 3).

Today’s Focus: “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength.” (Proverbs 17:22 NLT)

Ponder: I sometimes watch “American’s Funniest Home Videos” just to laugh after a quiet day in the apartment. According to Google, this show is the longest running primetime entertainment show on ABC. It’s good for our health to laugh. When we’re cheerful, people like to be around us, and we are blessed by them in return.

Practice: Call someone who always cheers you up, just to give yourself a boost.

Pray: Dear Lord, we know You have a sense of humor for you’ve created so many creatures that amuse us like the ostrich and snail. Thank You for giving us friends and family that boost our spirits. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

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