10/03/2026
Dr. Rudy and I spent many years pastoring, and the last few decades mentoring and counseling pastors and leaders, hearing their hearts and struggles. We see the level of love, commitment and deep sacrifice many leaders make for those in their care. So I speak to this, not just from personal experience—but from hearing the private stories of countless Shepherds after His own heart.
This is not about us, friends—but about all the faithful leaders who are presently shepherding His flocks.
Pastoring is a 24/7 gig and whether sheep move on or their shepherds are called to other fields—a shepherd’s love, care and prayers for those they led…never ends. They carry them within their hearts, wherever they go.
Yet, pastors and spiritual leaders aren’t an endless supply of hope, faith and strength. They’re humans who need our encouragement, recognition, prayers, support and help to refuel!
Barna Research reports the average pastor works 70-80 hours a week and drops out of the ministry after only 3 years—mostly due to stress, discouragement and loneliness.
The average youth pastor—after 10 months. Barna’s study went on to find 42% of Pastors have contemplated leaving go the ministry in the last year. Not to mention the impact on their family and how infrequently, if ever, they can afford vacations.
It's less like a job and more like parenting. In many circles they're also expected to function like a CEO, CFO and OM. Yet, spiritual leaders have few metrics capable of truly measuring the intangible level to which the lives of people are deeply and forever impacted.
But we can tell them.
And show them.
Pastors and leaders always hear the complaints and problems of people, but are far less informed of the positive results of their tireless leadership. It is often difficult for them to judge whether or not your actual LIFE is being (or has been) helped, strengthened or changed by their sacrificial obedience and compassion; whether they're making any real difference.
I can’t imagine where I would be without those who pastored, taught, discipled, guided, inspired, challenged, encouraged and mentored me through the years! Where would you be, friend, without those the Lord has brought into your life?
Do you have pastors who love Jesus and His people; who are humble, approachable, genuine and compassionate? Who are wise, patient leaders of integrity; who build people up, instead of tear them down; who correct and direct with wisdom and kindness? Do they encourage their flock to stretch and grow? If they preach and teach the Word of God in the fear of the Lord and tend to the lives of their flock...you are truly blessed!
Pause and consider ways to demonstrate your gratitude and recognition of their often immense, behind the scenes sacrifice.
It takes humility and character to share our sincere love, gratitude and appreciation to someone. Take a quick moment to text, email, or send them a thoughtful card of your sincere appreciation—and personal story. It will minister deeply to them.
Be the one l***r out of 10 who went back and thanked the Lord for his healing. We may never know how precious, timely and influential our simple acts of love, thoughtful words of encouragement and support are are to those who have given their very lives to deeply care for us and for our families. Sharing your genuine gratitude may be just what they need to press on with renewed faith and vision!
"Give honor to whom honor is due." Romans 13:7
"Outdo one another in showing honor." Romans 12:10
“Remember your leaders, who spoke the Word of God to you and considering the outcome of their way of life, imitate their faith.” Heb. 13:7
-Lynn Dicken-Cerullo
Healing Streams Christian Ministries🌿
