By His Side Ministries

By His Side Ministries Ministry Wives By His Side Ministries was birthed by God on September 30, 2009. Wives are an intricate part of the mandate placed on the man.

God desires that those that labor in the vineyard be whole, equipped, empowered, and anointed to win souls to the kingdom. For without her, he is incomplete. Her job is to bathe his ministry in prayer, aid him in walking in integrity, assisting him in dominion, and standing with him against the forces of darkness. For such a time as this, God has ministry wives on His mind and seeks to revive, res

tore, and renew the joy of her salvation. For without Him we can do nothing. Through Him, everything is possible.

03/29/2026

Join Me Tonight‼️

🗣March is Women’s History Month, and while we celebrate the achievements of women, many women in leadership today are al...
03/04/2026

🗣March is Women’s History Month, and while we celebrate the achievements of women, many women in leadership today are also carrying a lot. Alot😭💔

We are leading teams.
Serving our communities.
Supporting families.
Navigating uncertainty in the world around us.

Between global tension, economic pressures, and the everyday demands of leadership and marriage, many women are asking a quiet question:

“Where do I go to breathe?”

That question inspired this gathering.

On March 29 at 7:00 PM, I’m creating a space called “Enter the Group Chat.”

A reflective community conversation for women in leadership who are married and seeking rest, clarity, and wholeness. This is not another meeting where you have to perform or present.

It’s a space to:

✨ Pause and breathe
✨ Connect with like-minded women
✨ Share honestly about leadership and marriage
✨ Gain perspective and clarity
✨ Be reminded that you are not navigating this season alone

During a time when the world can feel heavy and leadership can feel isolating, community matters.

If you are a woman leading in your workplace, business, ministry, or community—and you desire a moment to reset with other thoughtful women—I would love to have you in the room.

📅 March 29, 2026 | 7:00 PM
🎟 Free Community Gathering

Scan the QR code on the flyer to reserve your seat.

Let’s create space for meaningful conversation, support, and restoration for women who lead.



08/31/2025

🗣It's that time again, check the deets⬇️⬇️⬇️

Is your marriage 80 percent of the time magnificent? Twenty percent meh? Or 100 percent of the time a hot raggedy mess?‼️

My Husband's Intercessor Challenge, is a 5-day challenge for wives who want to pray strategically, love deeply, and lead boldly.

You Need This If You Can Answer Yes :

Are you embarrassed about your marriage because you are crushing it everywhere else, but behind closed doors your marriage is crushing you?

Do you want your marriage to change, but you're prayed out, cried out, straight stressed out, and about to walk out?

Do you have a good marriage but desire a great one and are ready to transition from good to great?

✅️Women in leadership are masterminds in understanding strategies, theories, and principles.

✅️Women in leadership have to be skilled personnel managers and possess a knack for balancing relationships.

✅️As women in leadership we understand the 80/20 rule and its application in leadership, business, and career ascension. We understand why it works.
But that 80/20 rule sometimes runs us raggedy in our marriages and the interconnectedness we have with our husbands.

✅️Women in leadership typically have to learn how to effectively balance themselves and their leadership journey to be effective at the jobs and in their business.

🗣Over the last twenty years, I have worked with thousands of women and surveyed several hundred, what I found is women leaders desperately desire balance, real intimacy, and a marriage that makes them feel like their husbands' favorite girl. In their quest to find what their hearts desperately seeks, the strategy used by the majority of these women was prayer. It was not surprising to me at all.

🙏🏿Prayer often brings clarity, calmness and even a sense of purpose to daily leadership and marital chaos. These influential women kill it with strategy in leadership and business the majority of the time.
Where they struggled was how to prioritize their marriage, intimacy and fully show up in their careers and business without resenting their husbands or feeling like they can't have their marriage and make money too.

🎯Real Talk, as a woman in leadership, I know I fell flat on my face in this area more times than I want to count until I learned some fail-proof and divorce-proof strategies. Listen, you don't have to have to have a "meh" or a "hot mess" marriage while fake smiling on pictures and social media posts. Trust me it ain't fun.

You can have balance, you can lead with authenticity, and you can have that magnificent marriage that you dream about.

DON'T SETTLE

✨ My Husband's Intercessor Challenge is going to dismantle your complacency in settling for "this is as good as it gets." It will refine your vision of your husband and help you embrace Him in new ways. Lastly, you shift from "he getting on my nerves" to "my man, my man, thank you for my man💋❤️🔥.

Let me help reignite your prayer life, equip and empower you, and pour fresh oil into your marriage. Then success in the boardroom and bedroom, will be like sliding in red stilettos👠.

You can have the marriage you desire. Let me show you how‼️

📅 September 7–11, 2025 at 7PM CST

If you don't fight for your marriage, then who will?

👉 Sign up here ⬇️⬇️⬇️

https://www.equiphernow.com/my-husband-s-intercessor-five-day-challenge-2025

  May has been such a successful month. As we kick off the last week, I want to share that my daughter and I will be fea...
05/25/2025

May has been such a successful month. As we kick off the last week, I want to share that my daughter and I will be featured on the cover of Dear Black Woman.

🗣This magazine uplifts the stories of black women, help amplify the business success of black women, and to help black women dominate in media. With that said, you can watch this podcast interview conducted by Kami Redd the founder of Dear Black Woman. Bria Donice and I had a great time chatting with Kami.

👊🏾Stay Tuned for the both the digital and hard copy to drop.

https://www.youtube.com/live/nBEck0Y9hjQ?si=Ol148yAY4vlkXuUg

01/19/2025

Join us today at 5pm/CST. We Can, We Will, LIVE the life we so desire. God has given us everything that pertains to life and godliness, and that includes a successful marriage.

Let's Get into this Conversation👊🏾. It's one that is long overdue. I am a strategist by training and by implementation. Strategies work if you work them. There are only a few seats left. Grab yours now...

⬇️⬇️Click the Link ⬇️⬇️

https://www.equiphernow.com/MarriageWebinar



01/17/2025



📝When a marriage DECLINES, family DECLINES. When family DECLINES children, women, men and society itself suffers(Daily Citizen, 2024).

🗣I am sure this is not surprising🥺. In May 2024, the U.S. Census Bureau reported that married couples made up LESS than 50% percent of all U.S. households which is a huge decline from the 1970's during the birth of the GenX generation. Of course, marriages were high during the baby boomers generation because there was high regard for marriages and families.

🙆🏿‍♀️But that's not the most ALARMING FACT🤯. According to Forbes(2024), forty-three percent of married people REGRET being married... YIKES👀. What that tells me is not only are people not getting married like they used to but almost half the people married REGRET IT‼️. Let that SINK IN❤️‍🩹.

Unless you are in therapy, a support group, or have a trusted friend, you probably won't admit that your marriage is on the struggle bus. Why? It's EMBARRASSING😭. It's embarrassing for some because, there is success everywhere else in life but marriage is shredding you daily.

Since we know WOMEN are most likely to file for divorce, we have to dig deeper. Dig deeper into their breaking points, what makes them throw in the towel, lose hope in their partner and the ability for their Marriage to flourish. Sadly, some women, lose FAITH in God.

❤️There is Wisdom❤️

Until we talk, listen, heal, and then REPAIR the breach..... NOTHING WILL CHANGE.

🙏🏿Ram in the Bush🙏🏿

Join us Sunday, January 19 at 5pm/CST. We are throwing a lifeline. We plan to finish this year with a victorious marriage. There are only a few seats left. Grab yours now...

https://www.equiphernow.com/MarriageWebinar



01/13/2025

It's absolutely FREE. It's absolutely what you need right now! And you absolutely don't have to do this ALONE🔥.

Join us on Sunday, January 19 @ 5 CST. Registration is now open at https://www.equiphernow.com/MarriageWebinar.

01/12/2025

You don't have to do this alone👊🏾. Grab your seat.. the archives are opening and its going to LIT🔥

Sunday, January 19 @ 5 CST. Registration is now open at https://www.equiphernow.com/MarriageWebinar

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2170 Business Center Drive, Ste. 17
Memphis, TN
38134

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