06/18/2026
Ephesians 5:24-33
Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
For Christians, God has a higher calling for marriage than just "happiness." The apostle Paul is stressing the essential unity of husband and wife in marriage. The two actually become one in marriage just as Christ and the church are one. Mr. Caldwell in his commentary on Ephesians states, "When Paul appeals to one on the basis that the two persons are not two but one, the other should listen as well. Put simply, the wife should take to heart the principles of love and union specifically commanded of the husband and apply them to her attitudes and actions toward him. Many marriages will be saved by understanding the nature of the relationship and by a willingness to hold that relationship sacred. Both husband and wife have that responsibility."
Let us all pray about this high calling and our responsibilities in marriage.