05/31/2026
Title: God Has a Plan for the Home
Series: Christ, the Church, and the Enrichment of Family Life
Text: "Hear, 0 Israel: The Lord our God is one Lord: And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might" (Deut. 6:4-5).
Scripture Reading: Deuteronomy 6:1-9
Introduction
The home is battling for its life today. People are searching for fulfillment outside the home because their homes are unstable, lacking the foundation of principles that will guide the affairs of a family .. More than half of all marriages end in divorce, and as a result, single parents are overburdened with the tasks of raising a family and working to provide for the family. This is not God's will for the home. God has a plan for the home just as he has a plan of redemption and a plan for every person's life. Let us discover some aspects of God's plan for the home. Deuteronomy 6 is one passage that reveals God's plan for our homes.
I. A Place of Spiritual Strength
God intends for the home to be a place of spiritual strength. Deuteronomy 6:4-5 tells us that we are to found our families on love for God and a spiritual relationship to him. God loves us, and we return his love toward us obediently. This is truly the beginning place, yet many forget, reject, or ignore God in their lives and homes. A pastor recalls that one summer in England he visited the house of a lovely English couple. The husband was a pastor in the East End of London. All around their house and church was evidence of the destruction of war, but the couple themselves revealed the peace and assurance of a deep faith and devotion and love. The motto over the entrance to the house was "Lord, make my house Thine until Thine shall be mine."
In contrast, he described another house-a beautiful, modern dwelling with lovely landscaping in a fine residential section. To look at it, you would think it must surely be the dwelling place of a happy family. But he remembered that he had seen two unhappy couples live in that home, and he had watched both couples break up. What was the difference between the two homes? The family in the war-torn neighborhood had a personal relationship with the Lord that resulted in fellowship and great spiritual strength.
II. A Place for Divine Truth
All of the commandments, statutes, and judgments of the Lord are to be observed and taught to each generation. Verse 6 refers to the "words" that are so important, and verse 7 says that we are to "teach" them to our children. Not only is God to be loved and worshiped, but his words and commandments and faith are to be taught in our homes. At stake is the faith of the living God in the lives and homes of our nation. The word "teach" means to whet, to sharpen. As a man sharpens a knife to make it more effective, so teaching sharpens the minds, hearts, and character of our children with divine truth. We parents must accept this responsibility! It cannot be shifted to another without serious trouble. Someone has said, "Modern parents have become adept at the art of delegating. We send our children to a school to get their education, to the library to get their books, to the park to get their recreation, to the movies for their entertainment, and to the church for their religion. But there are some responsibilities that cannot be delegated. These belong fairly and squarely on the shoulders of the parents. The teaching of religion is one such responsibility." It is our responsibility to teach God's Word consistently for our children's spiritual awareness.
III. A Place for Christian Character
God intends for the home to be a place to develop Christian character, as seen in Ephesians 6:4, "Bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord." Character development demands training, and the home provides it from infancy to maturity. I understand now why my dad sent me to the garden regularly. It was not just to hoe potatoes; rather, it was to build in me a sense of responsibility. I fussed and fumed within myself, but I learned something of character I could have learned in no other way. Character development demands discipline. Verse 4 includes the idea of correction as well as instruction, and this is vitally important to a family. There can be no sense of direction for a child unless discipline is practiced. This is where respect for authority is learned; and this is where we learn to accept and understand one another and how to get along with one another.
God's Word is clear about the need to practice discipline. Proverbs 13:24 says, "He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." Proverbs 29:15 says, "The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame." Verse 17 says, "Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul." Children need the security that discipline gives, and parents need the fulfillment that such leadership provides.
IV. A Center of Creative Fellowship
God intends the home to be a center of creative fellowship. When we talk about fellowship and, specifically, Christian fellowship, it is best described as "family spirit." Where such exists, there is love and forgiveness and understanding. It is a place where patience and kindness and courtesy thrive. It is the place of warmth and oneness of spirit. It is the oasis of fellowship in a world that starves for someone to care.
Conclusion
If we respond to God's Word as he calls to and leads our families in the light of his love and Word, we will experience the joy of God's plan. A pair of farm parents were thrilled over their son graduating from a university.
Uneducated themselves, they had sacrificed much to keep the boy in college for four years. At commencement time they were privileged to attend. Although the parents were poorly clothed and unlettered in education, the son welcomed them gladly and proudly presented them to the faculty and his classmates. On commencement day, the son gave the class address, and his listeners were moved by his message. As the boy returned to his seat, his father wiped a tear from an eye, and leaning toward his wife, he whispered, "Ma, that's the best crop we ever raised."
God does have a plan for your home if you will let him help you find it.