09/08/2026
"God's mercies never end. They are new every morning" Lamentations 3:23
One of my all time favorite movies is "Saving Private Ryan". As a combat veteran, by the end of Saving Private Ryan, I'm in tears. The movie taps into my grief over friends lost in combat, the 16 Soldiers for whom I had "last rites" and those I've lost to death by su***de.
Grief and loss are like a fingerprint; unique to all.
My favorite scene is at the end of the movie when the old man/former Soldier, hoping he has "earned" the sacrifice of his comrades, turns and says to wife his 'Tell me I've lived a good life. Tell me I'm a good man."
My encouragement to the Soldiers I served, especially in combat, where life was reduced it its studs, and to those who I am blessed to serve at Holy Comforter Episcopal Church is always "Go home better, not bitter". Each day is a gift from God. Be quick to love and make haste to be kind.