09/14/2026
Text: Romans 14:1-12
Title: Bound to Each Other in Christ
One of the big problems in the early Church was conflict between the Jewish and Gentile Christians. Almost as soon as the Gospel began to spread among the Gentiles, some Jews took offense at it and demanded that Gentiles convert to the Jewish religion. They started demanding that men be circumcised, and observance of dietary laws, Sabbath regulations, and special festivals.
The controversy got so out of hand that the apostles held a special council at Jerusalem to address it. Paul shared of his work among the Gentile peoples; Peter talked about his experience with Cornelius and his family, the first Gentile converts. Based on this, the council decided that Gentile Christians should not be required to follow Jewish laws to be accepted into the Church.
This is why, in our Scripture reading today, Paul talks about observing holy days and dietary regulations: he is trying to maintain peace between Jewish and Gentile Christians in Rome. On one hand, he doesn’t want to condemn Jews for continuing to follow their customs, but he also doesn’t want to impose Jewish traditions on Gentiles.
So what is his solution? “Let not the one who eats despise the one who abstains, and let not the one who abstains pass judgment on the one who eats, for God has welcomed him” (v. 3). He’s encouraging Christians of different persuasions to get along, to treat each others with mutual respect, to accept each other as God has accepted them.
This wasn’t easy for the Christians of those days. It’s not easy for us in our time either. Think about it: how many different sects and subsects of Christians are there these days? You’ve got the Great Schism between the Eastern Orthodox and the Roman Catholics, between us Lutherans and Roman Catholics, Anglicans and Presbyterians, Baptists and Pentacostals. It doesn’t seem to end.
Before we go any further, let’s get this straight: truth is important. As Christians, we cannot compromise on truth; we’re not at liberty to tolerate falsehood among us.
Also, how we Christians conduct our lives is also important; if we believe in God’s truth, we’re obligated to live in ways that reflect that truth. Idolatry, immorality, wickedness, or deception are wrong. We can’t compromise the truth or tolerate evil.
This about how we treat each other as brothers and sisters in Christ. Far too often, divisions in the truth happen because we are sinners. As fallen creatures, our minds and hearts are not always right, no matter how much we might think we are.
Too often, we let our selfish desires drive us. We want thing our way, and if we can’t get our way, we try to manipulate and control others until we do get our way. Yet Christ calls us to be servants of each other; among us, there is only one Master, and he was humble enough to wash his disciples’ feet. He calls us to do the same for each other.
We have limited knowledge; we don’t know everything. Too often, we think we do. When we think we know it all, we often try to impose that on others. It’s far too easy for us to come up with some new idea and try to impose that on everybody else. We need to be careful about this; if we’re making up our own ideas, we’re probably creating heresy, and if we impose that on others, we’re misleading God’s Church.
That’s why we must always strive to understand the Scriptures. Our ideas don’t matter; God’s ideas do. What he tells us in his word needs to always be front and center in our teaching. What’s more, when we see fellow Christians falling into error, we gently but firmly correct them with the Scriptures.
So what’s the real problem? When we lose sight of the cross, our faith becomes weak. We end up not really understanding Christ’s forgiveness toward us, and fail to show that same forgiveness toward others. Instead of peace among God’s people, we create conflict and division. We become judges instead of letting God be our judge.
What we need is to look to the cross again. As Paul says, “For to this end Christ died and lived again, that he might be Lord both of the dead and of the living” (v. 9). We rebelled against our God and become his enemies; our Lord Jesus became one of us so that he could make peace with us, to demonstrate God’s perfect love toward us. He suffered crucifixion and death in order to purchase us forgiveness of sins, and rose again from the dead to grant us the promise of everlasting life. He stood beneath God’s crushing judgment, the judgment not of any sins of his own, but for ours. This is the true mercy of our God.
Because of this, we now belong to Jesus; we are his people, purchased by his precious blood. As such, we are subject to no one’s judgment except his. We are free from such restrictions and obligations, such as kosher laws and Jewish festivals. When we observe special seasons like Lent, we do so by our choice, because we want to, because we see them as beneficial to us, not because we are bound to. Christ is our judge, not man.
Therefore, as Christians, we can live in peace with each other, even those Christians we disagree with. Why? Because Christ has forgiven us, and he has called us to forgive each other the same way. As Christians, we strive to grow in faith together as the Body of Christ. We learn to love and cherish each other, the same way Christ loves and cherishes each of us.
Because we are free from obligations of food and drink, we no longer bind each other with such obligations. If you drink a b**r after a hard day’s work, I’m not going to complain; heck I’d probably join you. If you don’t drink b**r, I’ll respect that and not bring a six-pack to your house.
I’ll only ever bind you in one way, and one way only: if you turn away from the way of the cross – if you take your eyes off Jesus, and stop caring about his Word – then for your own safety, I’ll try to bring you back on track. But I’ll do so the way Jesus commanded me: gently and with the truth of His Word. And I hope that you would have the compassion and courage to do the same for me.
Remember: you belong to Jesus, the same Jesus who gave his life for you, and continues to give his life to you in this Holy Christian Church, his body he established here on earth. These are your brothers and sisters in Christ. We won’t always agree, but in all things, we should strive to be true to our Lord Jesus Christ, and true to each other, just as Jesus was true to us.