Jewish Sacred Aging

10/29/2026

Vayera (Genesis 18:1-22.24)

This week we continue the power of these portions in Genesis. In 18 we begin with proof texts for the mitzvah of “bikkur cholim”. We see the promise to Sarah of a child, the produces her laughter. We experience the challenge of God by Abraham regarding the destruction of S***m and Gomorroah. We have the stories of family dynamics between Sarah, Hagar, Ishamel and Isaac and we conclude with the famous binding of Isaac “Akedah”!...

This week we continue the power of these portions in Genesis. In 18 we begin with proof texts for the mitzvah of “bikkur cholim”. We see the promise to Sarah of a child, the produces [Read more...]

10/27/2026

A Club I Did Not Wish To Join!

Well, it is cancer. When the GI doctor delivered these few words, to say the least, I was not ready. This was in August of this year and there followed a series of tests and scans that evolved into the treatment protocell I am in now. This is a club that I had no wish to join, but here I am, and it is a learning experience....

Well, it is cancer. When the GI doctor delivered these few words, to say the least, I was not ready. This was in August of this year and there followed a series of tests and [Read more...]

10/26/2026

Looking Forward, Looking Back

Chaplain Barry Pitegoff discusses the Torah portion “L**h L**ha,” highlighting Avram's transformative journey, questioning the impact of one's presence on their origins. The concept of sacred aging emphasizes reflection on one’s legacy. Through various spiritual stories, it challenges individuals to consider how they have changed the world around them, not just their destination....

Chaplain Barry Pitegoff discusses the Torah portion “L**h L**ha,” highlighting Avram's transformative journey, questioning the impact of one's presence on their origins. The concept of sacred aging emphasizes reflection on one’s legacy. Through various spiritual stories, it challenges individu...

10/23/2026

ENCORE: Trauma and Parenting Insights from Genesis with Dr. Steven Spector – Seekers of Meaning 10/23/2026

In this encore episode of the Seekers of Meaning TV Show, Dr. Steven Spector discusses his book, "God and the First Families," which examines trauma theory and parenting dynamics in Genesis. He explores God's evolving parenting styles, offering insights into resilience and healing through biblical narratives, relevant to contemporary life....

In this episode of the Seekers of Meaning TV Show, Dr. Steven Spector discusses his book, "God and the First Families," which examines trauma theory and parenting dynamics in Genesis. He explores God's evolving parenting styles, offering insights into resilience and healing through biblical narrativ...

10/22/2026

L**h L**ha (Genesis 12: 1-17:27) Go Forth and Do It!

We come to another wonderful portion (Genesis is filled with them) this week. Avram is called to take his entourage and leave to go to his future, an unknown future. Thus begins our story. The portion evolves, we meet Lot, we sojourn to Egypt because of famine and conclude with Ishmael. The commentaries of replete with interpretations of these events, starting with the very first two words: “L**h L**ha”!...

We come to another wonderful portion (Genesis is filled with them) this week. Avram is called to take his entourage and leave to go to his future, an unknown future. Thus begins our story. The [Read more...]

10/22/2026

How do we overcome the fear of change? 🤔

I always tell my clients, "I'm here to help you!"

It’s not about knowing everything right away, but about taking that first step together. If you're committed to this journey, think of it as your new job.

This isn’t passive therapy; it’s active! We’ll discuss 2-3 strategies each week that you can implement.

The key is to work on these strategies and see where they take you. Remember, progress comes from action!

What’s one change you’re ready to tackle this week? Let’s support each other!

10/21/2026

Ever feel like your day just slips away? 🤔

You're not alone! Many of us struggle with staying focused and completing tasks.

I often ask my clients to share their daily challenges with me. This helps us pinpoint the exact areas where they need support.

Here are some common struggles:
- Starting tasks but not finishing them
- Getting easily distracted and walking away
- Forgetting where things are placed
- Overwhelmed by simple errands like grocery shopping

The goal of cognitive remediation is to tackle these issues head-on, making daily life smoother and less frustrating.

Let’s work together to find solutions that help you feel more successful in your day-to-day activities.

What’s one task you find challenging? Share below!

10/20/2026

Bereisheet — “So Good!, So Good!, So Good!”

Neil Diamond's performance of "Sweet Caroline" on the Ed Sullivan Show in 1969 marked the song’s rise as a cultural anthem, especially at Fenway Park. Rabbi Steven Bernstein, BCC, explores themes of love, loneliness, and caregiving, reflecting on the emotional struggles of spousal caregivers dealing with loss while emphasizing the importance of companionship and the challenges posed by illness....

Neil Diamond's performance of "Sweet Caroline" on the Ed Sullivan Show in 1969 marked the song’s rise as a cultural anthem, especially at Fenway Park. Rabbi Steven Bernstein, BCC, explores themes of love, loneliness, and caregiving, reflecting on the emotional struggles of spousal caregivers deali...

10/20/2026

What's the hardest part of facing your challenges? 🤔

As a therapist, I often find that insight is key to healing. But with that insight comes the pain of recognizing what’s been lost.

When I start working with clients, they usually identify a few issues. But as we dig deeper, it’s like peeling back the layers of an onion. Each layer reveals more, and sometimes it’s painful to confront the reality of their cognitive abilities and what they’ve lost along the way.

It’s a tough journey, but it’s also a path to growth and understanding.

Have you ever experienced this kind of insight? How did it feel to confront those layers? Let’s talk about it!

10/19/2026

Ever feel like you forget a step in your daily tasks? 🤔

You're not alone! Many of us struggle with keeping track of the little things, like doing laundry.

I often hear, "I forgot to put the detergent in!" and then the clothes come out dirty.

Here's a simple strategy that works wonders:

Set a specific order for your tasks. When you randomize steps, it's easy to miss one. But by sticking to a routine, you can avoid those slip-ups!

Once my clients started following a consistent process, they found they had no more trouble with laundry.

Understanding the underlying issues is key. When we know what to modify cognitively, we can practice and make it work!

Have you tried setting a routine for your daily tasks? Share your experiences below!