06/18/2026
Devotional Thursday June 18, 2026
Triple Tree Ministries
“When Father Doesn't Look Like Father”
Psalm 27:10 "For my father and my mother have forsaken me,
but the LORD will take me in."
Some people hear the words "God the Father" and immediately feel comfort.
Others feel pain.
Why?
Because many of us learned what a father was from imperfect men.
Some fathers were absent.
Some fathers were angry.
Some fathers were addicted.
Some fathers were cold and distant.
Some fathers were physically present but emotionally gone.
When those experiences become our definition of "father," it becomes hard to trust God.
We assume God must be like the men who hurt us.
But God is not a bigger version of our earthly father.
He is the perfect Father our earthly fathers were supposed to reflect.
“Imagine trying to learn what a diamond looks like by only seeing broken glass.
You might think diamonds are sharp, dangerous, and ugly.
Then one day someone places a real diamond in your hand.
Suddenly you realize the broken glass never represented the real thing.
Many people judge God based on broken glass.”
God says, "Look at Me, not the broken pieces."
Why Earthly Fathers Fail
Every earthly father is a sinner.
Even good fathers make mistakes.
Even loving fathers lose patience.
Even faithful fathers have weaknesses.
The Bible says:
Romans 3:23 "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,"
That includes fathers.
Some fathers fail because of selfishness.
Some fail because nobody showed them how to be a father.
Some carry wounds from their own childhood.
Their failures are real.
The pain is real.
But their failures do not define God.
What God Is Really Like
Listen to how God describes Himself:
Psalm 103:13 "As a father shows compassion to his children,
so the LORD shows compassion to those who fear him."
God is compassionate.
God is patient.
God is faithful.
God doesn't abandon His children.
God doesn't forget His promises.
God doesn't stop loving us on our worst days.
Jesus Shows Us the Father
Jesus came to show us exactly what God is like.
John 14:9 "Whoever has seen me has seen the Father."
When Jesus touched lepers, we saw the Father's heart.
When Jesus forgave sinners, we saw the Father's heart.
When Jesus welcomed children, we saw the Father's heart.
When Jesus died on the cross for us, we saw the Father's heart.
If you want to know what God is like, look at Jesus.
A question to consider. Please write your answer down on a piece of paper. “How has your experience with your earthly father affected the way you view God?” Keep your written answer somewhere safe and look at it every now and then. Reflect on it and think about how you would answer this question at the different times of your life.
Your earthly father may have failed you.
Your Heavenly Father never will.
Don't let a broken picture keep you from the One who loves you no matter what, unconditionally.
Pray this prayer:
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for being the perfect Father that we all need. Thank You for loving us when we are weak, carrying us when we are broken, and never abandoning us when life becomes difficult. Your Word reminds us that even when earthly fathers fail, You remain faithful. You have never left us, never forgotten us, and never stopped loving us.
Lord, today we thank You for our earthly fathers. We thank You for the sacrifices they made, for the food they provided, the clothes they purchased, the roof they put over our heads, and the ways they cared for us that we may not have fully understood at the time. We recognize that many fathers carried burdens, fears, and wounds of their own.
Father, we also bring before You the pain that many of us carry. Some of us were hurt by fathers who were absent, angry, abusive, addicted, or emotionally distant. Those wounds run deep. We ask You to heal the broken places in our hearts that only You can reach.
Help us to forgive our fathers, not because what happened was right, but because You have forgiven us and You call us to release the bitterness that has held us captive. Forgive us for the anger, resentment, and unforgiveness that have hardened our hearts and hindered our walk with You. Free us from carrying yesterday's pain into tomorrow's opportunities.
Teach us to learn from our experiences rather than be defined by them. Let the wounds of our past become lessons that help us grow in wisdom, compassion, patience, and grace. Help us become better husbands, better fathers, better mothers, better friends, and better servants because of what You have brought us through.
Give us eyes to see others who are struggling with similar hurts. Help us to extend the same compassion, mercy, and understanding that You have shown to us. May our scars become testimonies of Your healing power and our trials become tools that point others to Jesus.
Thank You for sending Your Son, Jesus Christ, to show us exactly what a perfect Father's love looks like. Through His life, His sacrifice, and His resurrection, we see Your heart clearly. Help us to trust You more each day and rest securely in Your love.
We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.
Amen.
"Men may fail and walk away,
but God remains both night and day.
When earthly fathers miss their part,
the Father's love still heals the heart." - Rev
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