Church at the Bar

05/24/2026

Today’s Church At The Bar gathering was heavy, honest, and full of hope as we dug into the moral and biblical questions around abortion, while keeping our focus on compassion over condemnation.

# # What We Talked About

We walked through what actually happens in the womb, looking at how quickly a baby develops and how many abortions happen in that 3–4 month window when there is already so much visible life forming. We also talked about the real-world pressures women face—emotional, relational, and financial—and how those factors often drive decisions more than anyone on the outside realizes.

# # The Reality Behind the Numbers

We discussed that the vast majority of abortions are not because of medical emergencies, but because of non-medical reasons tied to fear, support systems, and outside influence. Many decisions are shaped by the voices around a woman—what people are telling her to do, or not do—which shows how powerful peer pressure and cultural messaging can be.

# # Stories, Not Just Statistics

Ernie’s story reminded us that behind every statistic is a person, a family, and a future that can be changed by one life-saving conversation or act of courage. His testimony highlighted that when someone steps in with love, truth, and practical help at the right moment, an entire life story can be rewritten.

# # The Role Of The Church

One of the strongest takeaways: if we are going to call ourselves pro-life, we have to be pro-mom, pro-dad, and pro-family too—offering real help, not just opinions. That looks like listening without judgment, connecting people to resources, walking with them long-term, and making our churches safe places for women and men facing unplanned pregnancies.

# # Moving Forward Together

Today wasn’t about winning an argument; it was about learning how to love better in one of the most sensitive areas of our culture. My prayer is that our church family continues to be a place where people can wrestle with hard questions, find better information, and receive real support when the stakes feel highest.

If you were there today, what was one thing that really stuck with you or shifted how you think about this topic?

05/23/2026

This Sunday we’re tackling a hard and honest question:
“Why is abortion such a line in the sand for Christians—why can’t I be left alone to make my own choices for my own body?”

As followers of Jesus, we believe life is a sacred gift from God, from beginning to end, and that our bodies ultimately belong to Him, not just to us. At the same time, we know questions like this are often asked out of deep pain, confusion, or frustration—not just to start an argument.

That’s why we’re turning to Colossians 4:6: “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” This verse reminds us that **truth** and grace must travel together—our words should be clear and honest, but also gentle, wise, and full of compassion.

On Sunday we’ll talk about:
- How to hold a biblical conviction about life without harshness or pride.
- How to answer emotionally loaded questions in a way that is “full of grace, seasoned with salt.”
- How to point people back to God’s grace in Christ, even when we disagree about something as serious as abortion.

If you’ve wrestled with this question yourself—or you love someone who has—this conversation is for you. Come ready to listen, to think, and to grow in how you speak the truth in love and reflect Jesus in hard conversations. Sunday @ 10AM The Monkey Bar & Grille

05/10/2026

Faith into Action is more than a slogan for Church At The Bar—it’s the way we’re choosing to live in 2026, one real conversation at a time.
Today’s gathering at Church At The Bar focused on our theme, “Faith into Action 2026,” as we celebrated Mother’s Day with a special time of prayer and gratitude for moms, grandmothers, and spiritual mothers who have shaped our faith and lives. We continued our journey through The Questions Christians Hope No One Will Ask, talking honestly about the tough, common questions people have about the Bible and why it can be trusted in a skeptical world.
Around the tables, people shared personal stories of change—how hard it can be when life takes a turn we didn’t choose and how faith meets us right in the middle of that disruption. We explored Jesus as a true “new beginning,” contrasting His life and teaching with the old laws and prophets, and reflected on what it means to recognize His authority in our everyday decisions.
We wrapped up with a simple, powerful challenge: don’t miss Jesus because of church hurt, misunderstandings, or the chaos of life. If you’re curious, questioning, or just need a fresh start, you’ll fit right in at Church At The Bar—come as you are, bring your questions, and let’s walk this out together in 2026.

05/02/2026

04/26/2026

“Can you really believe in Jesus and still take evolution and modern science seriously?”
That was the honest question on the table at Church At The Bar today. We talked about how the Great Commission calls us to make disciples in a culture that is full of hard questions about faith, science, and what’s really true.
We wrestled with questions about Darwin’s theory, the mind‑blowing complexity of DNA, and even how matter came to exist in the first place. We were reminded that both science and faith involve elements of belief in things we cannot see yet, and that following the evidence honestly doesn’t have to push us away from God.

If you (or a friend) have big questions about faith and science, this is a safe place to bring them. You don’t have to check your brain at the door to follow Jesus.

04/19/2026

04/12/2026

✨ The Church Has Left the Building! ✨
This Sunday, The Church at the Bar left the building on purpose! We didn’t gather for worship inside four walls — instead, we took that time to serve a local family in need. 💪❤️
That’s what the love of Christ looks like in real life and real time — hands at work and hearts in action.
The Church at the Bar exists to give, serve, and love in ways that make faith visible, practical, and tangible. “The Church Has Left the Building” Sunday reminds us that church isn’t a place we go… it’s a people who go love others.
We’ll be back together next Sunday, April 19 at 10:00 AM at The Monkey Bar & Grille. Until then — keep being the church wherever you go! 🙌

04/07/2026

This Sunday, The Church at the Bar is leaving the building… on purpose.

We will NOT be meeting in the building this Sunday so that we can use that time to serve a family in need, showing what the love of Christ looks like in real life and real time. The Church at the Bar exists to give, serve, and love in ways that make faith visible, practical, and tangible. “The Church has left the building” Sunday is our way of reminding each other that church is not a place we go, but a people who go love others.
We will return to our regular Church at the Bar gathering on Sunday, April 19 at 10:00 AM at The Monkey Bar & Grille.
This Sunday is “The Church Has Left the Building” Sunday!!!!

04/05/2026

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Wear the story, rep the movement, and make a difference at the same time.

04/05/2026

Easter Sunday always has a way of making you pause and reflect a little deeper.
Today’s conversation walked through the resurrection story—something many of us have heard countless times—but what stood out was this: even the disciples, the ones who walked closest with Jesus, struggled to believe He had actually risen. They didn’t just “get it” right away. They wrestled with doubt, fear, and uncertainty… just like we do.
And yet, Jesus still met them there.
A powerful reminder was shared—faith isn’t just something we think about or agree with intellectually. It’s something we live. It’s active. It shows up in how we trust, how we move, and how we follow.
Because Jesus didn’t simply invite people to believe in Him—He invited them to follow Him.
That’s a much bigger ask. And a much more meaningful one.
So here’s something I’ve been thinking about: what does it actually look like to follow Jesus in everyday life—not just on Sundays, but in our decisions, our relationships, and our priorities?
If you’ve ever been curious, unsure, or even distant from faith, maybe this is your moment to take a step—not just toward belief, but toward following.
Challenge: This week, take one intentional step toward following Jesus—whether that’s prayer, reading His words, or simply asking questions—and see where it leads.

03/29/2026

How is feeling like an attendee at your church different from feeling like someone who belongs to your church? This morning’s conversation centered on the heart of church community and what it really means to belong—not just attend.
We talked about the beauty of smaller churches, where relationships run deeper and people are truly known. There’s something special about that kind of warmth and connection that’s hard to find in larger settings.
We also dug into the value of small group Bible studies, meaningful worship, and the importance of practices like baptism and communion. Hearing personal stories reminded us how powerful it is to grow together in faith, support one another, and do life side by side.