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07/06/2026

Bà Mẹ Gio Linh: “The Mother of Gio Linh” is a Vietnamese song that the French government wishes could be expunged from their history, and that’s exactly why you should learn about this musical masterpiece. So let’s learn together yet another example of how French atrocities inspired Vietnamese ingenuities–it was more than just coffee, bánh mì, and phở.

"The devastatingly haunting song vividly captures the details of a tragic historical event that occurred in 1948 in Mai Xá village of Gio Linh district. French colonialists captured and beheaded two local resistance leaders, Nguyễn Đức Kỳ and Nguyễn Văn Phi, then mounted their severed heads on stakes and displayed them in front of the public market.

"The mothers of these two men, Mommas Lê Thị Cháu and Hoàng Thị Sáng, upon hearing the news of their sons’ fates, did not make a scene nor shed a single tear–not in public anyway. Instead, in the late hours of the night, they quietly went to retrieve their sons’ heads from the market, and carried them home in woven bamboo baskets. Per some recounts, neighbors helped the families build small wooden boxes to bury their sons’ remains in dignity, as there were no coffins to fit the severed heads.

"A few months later, a young musician named Phạm Duy was traveling through the region with the resistance troupes. Upon hearing the heartbreaking story, Phạm Duy stayed up all night and composed the song “Bà Mẹ Gio Linh” (The Mother of Gio Linh). The lyrics of the song are as gut-wrenching as you would imagine. The climax of the song displays the cruel tragedy in raw, unforgiving details:

“Elderly Mother is watering the farm fields
She hears the villagers cry in terror
The enemies have captured her child
And took him to the market to behead
Choking back tears, without saying a single word
Mother brings a bundle of cloth to retrieve the head
The road back to the village was so desolate
In the distance, the sound of temple bells rang”

"At the beginning of this verse, the musical instruments start out low and somber, then gradually crescendo to merge with the intense wailing of singer’s voice–until you find yourself engulfed in the eye of the grievous, raging storm, and you yourself feel all the profound emotions that a parent would feel when they have to carry their child’s severed head home in a woven bamboo basket, while walking past the smirking faces of the executioners.

"Phạm Duy later disclosed in an interview that after finishing the song, he “wept like a child”, as though the tears that those mothers were forbidden to cry had transmuted and unleashed through him. Phạm Duy would go on to become one of the most iconic names in Vietnamese music...

"As the story goes, years later, a young journalist traveled back to the Gio Linh region to find the women who were the inspiration behind the song. To his surprise–or unsurprising expectation–no less than 100 women came forward and identified themselves as “The Mother of Gio Linh.” They were all telling the truth, because they all resonated with the descriptions.

"Because that wasn’t the ONLY time the French had terrorized Vietnamese villagers in the same fashion. They had done this again and again, trampling their ways from village to village, searching for the next victims to behead and put on public display. Their goal was simple: to instill fear and intimidation–resist and your head could be next on that stake.

"And time and time again, the “Mothers of Gio Linh,” choking back tears, without a single word, went to retrieve their children’s heads and carried them home in woven bamboo baskets.
The French pillaged their way through my family’s village in 1947. For the long time followers who are familiar with my family’s story, then you know of the defining moment when my great-grandmother calmly gathered her husband’s bones into a copper pot–two years after the French shot and killed him, then commandeered their home and forced her and her children into exile. My great-grandmother was 7-months pregnant. Thanks to a family friend who quickly buried his body in the farmland nearby, she was able to retrieve his remains later–with her bare hands, choking back tears and without saying a single word– and carried him home in a copper pot. Her head held high and her walk dignified.

My great-grandmother was a “Mother of Gio Linh.” But throughout human history, there have been “Mothers of Gio Linh” everywhere.

"I have written about my adopted Salvadorian Abuela, who survived the Salvadorian civil war. One day, while Abuela was working in the cornfield, she heard two clear shots in the distance that “cut through her heart.” Later, an 8-months pregnant Abuela would be searching through the cornfields of Perquin to gather her husband’s and brother’s dismembered remains that the enemy forces had intentionally scattered–her head held high and her walk dignified. My Abuela was a “Mother of Gio Linh.”

"But like all Vietnamese songs that mourn tragic geopolitical events, “The Mothers of Gio Linh” ended with optimistic HOPE for the future. The last verse of the song depicts “Mother” adopting and caring for an orphaned baby, symbolizing a new seed, a new generation, a new dawn, a new tomorrow. This resolution from tragedy to hope is a common theme present in other iconic songs like Trịnh Công Sơn’s “Song for the Human Corpses,” which depicts the horrific scenes of the 1968 Tết Offensive.

"Because there’s one thing you should know about Vietnamese people: we’re always hopeful for the future. We mourn our hearts out with songs on our lips, while our feet keep marching forward.
And that’s exactly what all the “Mothers of Gio Linh” would want to tell you. They wouldn’t want you to pity them. The purpose of this story is not to evoke a pity party or to bemoan the French’s or any government’s wrongdoings. My great-grandmother’s descendants are thriving and successful. Abuela’s children and grandchildren are thriving and successful. Vietnam and her people are thriving and growing our cultural footprints globally, despite all that we’ve been through.

"They would want you to remember that: behind every story of resilience, persistence, and victory, there are hundreds and thousands of “Mothers of Gio Linh,” quietly weaving and guiding the thorny roads, one brave, dignified step at a time."

The lyrics:

'The old mother tills the land to plant potatoes,
raising her son who fights the enemy day and night.
Even though her clothes are tattered and worn,
and her meals are sometimes full, sometimes empty.
Ho ơi ơi ới ho! Ho ơi ơi ới ho!

The house was burned down, but it remains .
They urge each other to take revenge this time.
The mother rejoices that her son killed many enemies,
diligently tilling and cultivating the land.
Ho ơi ơi ới ho! Ho ơi ơi ới ho!

Her son happily goes out, carrying his gun back morning and evening.
The old mother, with one patriotic son, is no less patriotic.
At night, she hears the distant sound of gunfire. She prays for her son to live a life of unwavering devotion.
The old mother waters the vegetables,
hearing the cries of the villagers:
The enemy has captured her son, taken him to the market, and beheaded him . Ho ơi ơi ới ho! Ho ơi ơi ới ho!

She chokes back tears, unable to speak a word. She carries her
bundle to retrieve his head.
The road back to the village is desolate,
but in the distance, the sound of temple bells rings.
Ho ơi ơi ới ho! Ho ơi ơi ới ho!

With hands raised, tears welling up,
Mother looks at her child's head, white hair fluttering in the wind.
"I love my child, my child, lips stained with the blood of the flag.
A naive smile, eyes gazing at me."
The old mother boils water, waiting for someone.
Night after night, guns roar,
startling the orphaned child Ho ơi ơi ới ho! Ho ơi ơi ới ho!

The soldiers have come to visit,
rekindling the lively fire in the hearth.
The old mother goes to get a pot of sweet potatoes,
carrying it up, the smoke rising faintly.
Ho ơi ơi ới ho! Ho ơi ơi ới ho!

When she sees her adopted children gathered under the hut,
Mother looks at her children, remembering her child of the past "My child, my child! Drink this full bowl of water.
One day or two, remember to come visit here." '
Correction from the author, Under The Squash Vines: "One thing to note: the illustration art used in this post is for the song “Bà Mẹ Nuôi”, which is the SEQUEL song to “Bà Mẹ Gio Linh.”
“Bà Mẹ Nuôi” means “The adopted mother.” As I mentioned in my original post, at the end of Bà Mẹ Gio Linh, “Mother” adopted an orphaned baby."

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07/05/2026

She slept nineteen minutes in two and a half days. She stopped to pet dogs. She ate mashed potato from aid stations. And she beat every man in the race.

Rachel Entrekin has become the first woman to win the Cocodona 250 outright, a two-hundred-and-fifty-three-mile crossing of Arizona with nearly thirty-nine thousand feet of climbing. She took the overall lead around mile fifty and never gave it back.

Her time of 56 hours, 9 minutes, and 48 seconds broke the overall course record by more than two hours. The first man finished over an hour behind her.

It was her third Cocodona win in a row. This time she raced a stacked field that included Courtney Dauwalter, often called the greatest ultrarunner alive, who came in second among the women.

Somewhere past mile fifty, doubting whether she belonged out front, she settled on a question and kept repeating it.

"Why not you? Why not now? Why not try?"

Two hundred miles later she had her answer, and the record books had a new kind of name at the very top.

07/05/2026

BREAKING - KELSEY PFENDLER SHATERS ALL RECORDS LANDING IN HAWAII ON JULY 4, 2026, 2:54 AM ET!!!

HONOLULU - Friends Community News Group, July 4, 2026 - Long before sunrise over the Fourth of July weekend, Kelsey Pfendler brought a 24-foot rowboat named Lily across the black water toward Oahu, ending a solo Pacific crossing that began with open ocean, sleep debt and a simple question: How far could one woman push herself with two oars and no one else aboard?

The answer came at the Ala Wai Boat Harbor in Honolulu, where Pfendler completed her row from Monterey, California, to Hawaii after 43 days and a couple of hours at sea.

The finish, reported by Hawaii News Now and tracked by ocean-rowing observers, made the 31-year-old Grand Canyon river guide one of the most accomplished solo ocean rowers in the world.

Pfendler’s crossing was more than a survival story. It was a record book rewrite. She became the first American woman known to row solo from California to Hawaii, the youngest woman to complete the solo Mid-Pacific crossing, and the fastest woman ever to do it.

Her time also beat the previous overall solo California-to-Hawaii speed mark, a 52-day record set by British rower Robert Eustace in 2014.

The women’s solo benchmark she chased was far older and far slower by comparison. British rower Lia Ditton completed the crossing in 2020 in 86 days, 10 hours and 5 minutes, a harrowing trip that included capsizes and the grinding isolation of the Pacific. Pfendler cut that standard nearly in half.

She launched May 21 from Monterey in Lily, a newer “concept” class ocean rowboat built for speed and efficiency. Fully loaded, the boat carried food, water-making equipment, navigation and communications gear, and the small comforts that matter when land disappears for weeks.

Pfendler had packed audiobooks, a real sleeping pillow, and Pop-Tarts, which she jokingly called one of endurance sport’s great foods.

The first stretch was brutal. Ocean rowers often describe the opening miles off California as the fight before the fight, when currents pull south, and winds try to shove a boat back toward the continent.

Pfendler later described fighting exhaustion, self-doubt and early sleep deprivation. At one point, according to the San Francisco Chronicle, she had slept only about seven hours over seven days while trying to punch west into the deeper Pacific.

But day after day, Pfendler kept pulling. She scraped barnacles from the hull to keep the boat moving. She filmed updates from a rolling, salt-crusted world barely larger than a bedroom. She ate, rowed, slept in fragments and then rowed again, turning one nautical mile into another until the Pacific stopped looking endless and Hawaii became real.

Pfendler was not new to big water. She has been a professional raft guide since age 18 and has spent the past eight years guiding multi-day trips on the Colorado River through the Grand Canyon. She competed on the USA Women’s Open Raft Race Team and represented the United States at the 2022 World Rafting Championships in Bosnia. In winter, she has worked as an emergency room technician in Colorado.

She had also seen this route before. In 2024, Pfendler skippered a four-woman team, Hericane Rowing, across the Pacific from California to Kauai in 40 days, 22 hours and 14 minutes. That crossing included huge waves, a capsize, equipment failures and adverse currents. Instead of curing her of ocean rowing, it pulled her deeper in.

For this attempt, Pfendler wanted the harder version: solo and unsupported, more than 2,400 miles from Monterey to Oahu. Her website said the mission was to become the first American woman and youngest woman to row the Mid-Pacific solo. By the time she reached Hawaii, she had done that and more.

The accomplishment drew national attention as Pfendler posted daily updates from sea. Her following surged, and supporters tracked her progress across the Pacific as if watching a slow-motion space mission. Even Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson and “Moana” actress Catherine Laga’aia sent public encouragement as she neared the islands.

Pfendler’s story lands somewhere between sport, expedition and old-fashioned adventure. There was no engine to save her from a bad day. No teammate to trade shifts with. No road shoulder to step onto when the miles got too heavy. There was only the Pacific, the boat, the oars and the decision to keep going.

She arrived in Hawaii just before her 32nd birthday, salt-worn and record-holding, having turned one of the world’s loneliest endurance routes into a Fourth of July triumph. In a crossing defined by suffering, speed and stubborn belief, Pfendler did not just reach land. She rowed herself into history.

By: Tom Manke

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