11/27/2025
**This Week's Thanksgiving Torah Portion**
This week we read Parashat Vayeitzei. In it, Jacob flees his home, has the iconic dream of a ladder reaching heaven with angels ascending and descending, and then spends about fourteen years working for Laban to marry his daughters. Yes, daughters. You'll need to crack open your copy of the Torah to find out why...
During this difficult chapter of his life, Jacob is faced with physical and mental adversities. He works tirelessly, is deceived by Laban, and tries to establish himself far from the comfort and familiarity of his home. Yet even in the midst of struggle, we witness him grow as a leader. He becomes the patriarch of his family (and our people) and he becomes a wiser, more confident leader. Through his story, we learn that blessings can emerge from challenges we face.
As we approach Thanksgiving, many of us feel the weight of hardship as well. We are living through economic uncertainty, political division, societal tension, and the pressures of daily life. And all of it feels overwhelmingly heavy. Families are stretched thin. Our communities are strained. The world around us feels deafeningly loud and overcomplicated. Like Jacob, the people and situations we encounter can be challenging, but ultimately they help shape us for the better.
The story of Vayeitzei offers us a reminder that when we struggle, that doesn't mean we aren't being blessed as well. Jacob’s journey teaches us that growth often happens while we are in turmoil, not in its absence. Thanksgiving invites us to notice the same truth. Gratitude does not ask us to ignore what is hard, instead, it asks us to take a closer look to see all the goodness that surrounds us. It asks us to recognize the strength we have acquired, the people who support us most, and the small but steady sources of light that help guide us forward.
May this Thanksgiving give each of us a moment to pause, breathe, and acknowledge both the trials we face and the blessings we find on our journeys. Like Jacob, may you find meaning even in seasons of doubt, and may our gratitude clear the pathway towards hope.
Wishing you and your loved ones a happy and hearty Thanksgiving.
-Rabbi Cantor Kyle Cotler