06/02/2023
My oldest, dearest friend, sent me this picture.
My then partner and I were on the crest of breaking up, at the time it was taken.
I remember how desperate he was to hold onto our relationship, and how equally desperate I was to separate.
It’s very important to pay attention to body language of the person you are emotionally involved with.
It’s usually, easily seen to the naked eye.
In the photo I am smiling but, my embrace is pulling away, while his is holding tight.
I don’t like this picture, and would have deleted it, but thought , if this helps illustrate how, it’s pointless clinging to someone, or the past, that’s moving on.
Sure, people will accommodate you with words,smiles and hugs just to make the transition easier. Look closer at what they are not saying. Pay attention to the patronizing tone of others around you, who can see what you can’t.
Most importantly, just pay attention to your needs and if they are being fulfilled. Don’t be a fool if love really don’t love you.
God’s blessings and love ❤️
