09/08/2026
Rosh Hashanah Torah Portion: Is God Listening?
There is a question that I suspect almost every person of faith has asked at one time or another:
Is God listening?
We pray for someone who is sick. We pray for someone we love who is struggling. We pray for peace. We pray for ourselves and our families.
Sometimes our prayers seem to be answered.
And sometimes they don't.
Sometimes we pray for years and hear nothing but silence.
Sarah must have understood that feeling.
For years, she and Abraham had hoped for a child. God had promised Abraham that his descendants would become a great nation, but Sarah grew older and remained childless.
Imagine how many times Sarah must have wondered: Does God hear me? Does God see what I am going through? Has God forgotten me?
And then, at the beginning of our First Day Rosh Hashanah Torah reading on Shabbat this week, we hear these remarkable words:
Va’Adonai pakad et Sarah - “And Adonai took note of Sarah.”
God remembered Sarah. God saw her. God had not forgotten her.
Sarah conceived and gave birth to Isaac in her old age.
Of course, that raises a difficult question for us.
What about all those times when our prayers don't seem to be answered?
We know that prayer is not a bargain with God. We cannot say the right words and expect that illness will disappear, a broken relationship will suddenly be repaired, or every tragedy will be prevented.
And perhaps that is why the words “God took note of Sarah” are so important.
The Torah doesn't simply tell us that Sarah had a child. It first tells us that God took note of her.
Maybe that is something different from saying that God grants every request.
Perhaps it means that even when we cannot see an answer, our prayers are not spoken into emptiness. Our pain matters. Our hopes matter. Our tears matter. We matter.
And isn't that one of the great questions we bring with us into Rosh Hashanah?
During these High Holy Days, we will say many prayers. Some will be prayers written generations ago. Others will never leave our lips. They will be the private prayers we carry silently within us—for our families, our health, our relationships, our Jewish people, our world, and for another year of life.
Will every one of those prayers be answered as we hope?
We know they will not.
But Sarah's story asks us to consider another possibility: that God is listening even when the answer is not the answer we wanted, and even when we cannot yet see an answer at all.
Sarah waited many years before her life took a turn she could never have imagined.
And perhaps that is one reason we read her story as a Jewish new year begins.
Rosh Hashanah reminds us that we do not yet know what the next chapter will bring. There are possibilities ahead of us that we cannot see today.
So as we enter 5787, may we continue to pray. May we continue to hope. May we continue to believe that our words, our tears, our gratitude, and our deepest longings are heard.
And like Sarah, may the year ahead surprise us with blessings and even with moments of unexpected laughter.
L'shanah tovah u'metukah. May 5787 be a good and sweet year for us, for those we love, for our Jewish people, and for our world.
Chag Sameach,
Rabbi Michael Asher