10/27/2026
Thoughts and a cup of coffee: Will it be a good day
Once again, the skies are dark, and the land looks like it is sleeping. I know it is not, and people are moving around getting ready for their day, but it feels asleep. Another day to use, another day to enjoy. True I have a full day ahead but that is hardly a hinderance to having a great day. In fact, it should make it easier.
Any day that starts well is usually an easy day to become a great day. True, you can turn around a day that starts poorly, and that is a great attitude to have and maintain. I mean, who actually wants to have a lousy day? We all have them, but what actually makes a day lousy?
The answer to that question is generally something going wrong. Some examples include car breaking, house repairs, stuck in traffic, family member sick or dying events like these often create a day we call lousy. A day we look at and wish it were different. But if we are honest, what makes a day lousy is not what happens during that day, but our attitude attached to that day. I am not saying that situations that we do not appreciate do not affect us; I am saying they do not have to dictate our attitude.
Yes, sadness is a very real emotion, and it arrives without our asking for it. Sadness and frustration are emotions that do not generally ask permission before hitting us. But what we do with that emotion is up to us. We can and often do permit it to affect the rest of our day, but do we have to?
Having a lousy or a great day is dependent upon what we choose to focus upon. The events surrounding us will very much influence our decision-making, making it easier or harder to choose one over the other, but the choice remains ours. Life truly is a choice-centered reality. The choices we make continually influence who we are and how we see our situations.
Am I speaking psychological nonsense or truth? You have to make that decision.
Blessings.