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S&S Pastoral Services We help individuals and families find clarity, healing, and direction through Christ-centered coaching and pastoral care. Steady guidance for real life.

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09/04/2026
Read here: - https://mailchi.mp/sspastoralservices/you_cant_fix_peopleI spent years repairing hand pumps in Africa. You ...
08/31/2026

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I spent years repairing hand pumps in Africa. You take apart something useless, replace what is worn, put it back together, and clean water comes out of the ground. The job is done and you can see it. Then I spent years trying to fix people, and learned the fixing was never up to me. Only the person can take the steps. Scripture calls that repentance.

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I went to help the people who deserved it - https://mailchi.mp/sspastoralservices/people-who-deserved-it They called him...
08/17/2026

I went to help the people who deserved it - https://mailchi.mp/sspastoralservices/people-who-deserved-it They called him Ishmael, and he was stealing our gasoline. When I found out, I picked up a pipe wrench and meant to use it. What stopped me was an old night watchman with one hand held out, palm down, and a verse I did not believe in yet.

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Nostalgia can be dangerous - https://mailchi.mp/sspastoralservices/grief-of-closing-door. I've spent the past few weeks ...
08/10/2026

Nostalgia can be dangerous - https://mailchi.mp/sspastoralservices/grief-of-closing-door. I've spent the past few weeks going through a filing cabinet that goes back to the 1980s. A training report from Ghana. A photo from Hyderabad. Case files from six years of helping men come home from prison. My day job is ending and I'm moving into full-time ministry, and I expected to feel free. Mostly I feel a door closing behind me.

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The Promise - https://mailchi.mp/sspastoralservices/the_promise Ellen felt every ounce of her son's suffering as if it w...
08/03/2026

The Promise - https://mailchi.mp/sspastoralservices/the_promise Ellen felt every ounce of her son's suffering as if it were her own, and she spent everything to spare him. She called it sacrifice. She called it faith. But the verdict came back guilty, and her miracle never arrived. God, it turns out, hadn't broken a single promise. This one is for anyone loving someone they can't save.

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 Love this. Hippies are gone.  Today a beard is more a symbol of identity. It says, “I identify as a man“. Not the ste...
06/20/2026

 Love this. Hippies are gone.  Today a beard is more a symbol of identity. It says, “I identify as a man“. Not the stereotype, macho male, but an apostolic man. A man who walks in the footsteps of Jesus. A provider, protector, and proclaimer, with mercy, integrity, generosity, and self sacrifice.

An Uncomfortable Truth: Beards in the Apostolic Church 🧔🔥 repost from Acts238.com

There was a time when if a man walked into an Apostolic church with a beard, folks didn’t just see hair on his face…they saw rebellion in his heart.

Some of you grew up hearing it preached: “Beards are worldly. They’re a sign of pride. A holy man will stay clean-shaven.”

It wasn’t just a preference. It was preached as a principle. Some were told they couldn’t get on the platform, couldn’t teach, couldn’t even serve… unless they took a razor to their face.

But here’s the thought-provoking question: Was that conviction rooted in Scripture…or in culture?

Because if you open your Bible, you’ll find David, Aaron, Ezra, and even our Lord Himself wearing beards. In fact, beards were often a mark of maturity and identity. The prophets tore their beards in grief. Priests were forbidden from shaving theirs off.

So where did the “beards are a sin” idea come from?
👉 In the 60s and 70s, beards and long hair were connected to hippie culture, rebellion, and drugs. The church wanted separation, so it preached hard against it. But let’s be honest…that was more about hippies than holiness.

Fast forward to today… things are changing. Even our own leaders like David Bernard have acknowledged this is not a heaven or hell issue. He’s written that while we should respect pastoral leadership, facial hair itself is not sin.

Think about it: a generation ago, a beard could disqualify a man from ministry. Today, some of those same pulpits are filled with godly, Spirit-filled men who wear them with dignity.

So what do we do with this?
1. We learn the difference between Scripture and tradition. Not every tradition is bad…but not every tradition is biblical.
2. We guard our hearts against pride, either way. Holiness isn’t in a razor or a beard. It’s in the heart.
3. We give grace to one another. If your pastor preaches clean-shaven, honor it. If he doesn’t, don’t judge your brother who grows a beard.

Maybe the bigger lesson is this: if we could be so strong on beards in one generation and then rethink it in the next… what other things are we holding onto that are more cultural than biblical? 🤔

That’s the uncomfortable truth.

What do you think? Did we confuse culture with conviction when it came to facial hair? Should Apostolic men embrace the beard…or stick with the razor?

Drop your thoughts below. 👇 Let's remain Christ like in our disagreement.

06/10/2026

Coaching Spotlight: Stanley Balcom ✨

For more than 25 years, Stan Balcom has dedicated his life to helping people grow, heal, and move forward with purpose.

His experience spans international development, disability services, re-entry support, pastoral counseling, ministry, and faith-based coaching. Through every season of service, Stan has carried a deep commitment to offering compassionate guidance, practical wisdom, and Christ-centered care. 🌿

As a Certified Coach with Apostolic Coaching Network, Stan specializes in relationships, marriage support, anger management, and sexual addiction recovery. His coaching approach is grounded in biblical truth, professional experience, and a sincere desire to help individuals find clarity, confidence, healing, and peace. 🙏

We are honored to celebrate Stan’s excellence in coaching and the meaningful impact he continues to make. 👏

Ready to take the next step in your growth journey?
🔗 Schedule with Stan at apostoliccoaches.com

05/26/2026

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