05/25/2026
In my younger years, my husband and I joined together with friends on Memorial Day. We'd all meet at the park, play Frisbee and volleyball, and all the kids would be running around playing their own games, and we'd feast on burgers and watermelon. It was a day of fun, sunshine and friendship, and we'd all go home with sunburnt faces and arms, tired but happy. Another year, another day of picnic & fun.
Years went by, everyone got busy with other things in their lives, but my family would still enjoy the day in our own backyard. We played catch and other games, I made potato salad and my husband cooked the burgers on our grill.
More years went by and my husband was gone, and my son joined the US Marine Corps after 9/11. He served 8 years, surviving endless training and 4 deployments in the Middle East. I think it's fair to say that we address Memorial Day very differently now. It's not a celebration of my son's service; it's a day of remembrance of the friends he lost, a day of somber acknowledgement of the countless men and women who lost their lives to preserve freedom and a way of life, a life of truth and integrity, of righteousness and honor, when we all knew what our flag truly stands for. Some of us still know what it's all about, yet others have lost sight of it. God willing, we'll ALL know that again, and feel that deep sense of pride each time we see that flag waving high on its post. Let's not forget what it stands for; let's not allow all those countless sacrifices to have bee.n in vane.
God, your Son gave His life for us, that we should all have everlasting life through your true mercy and grace. Please continue to watch over us, help us find our way again, to be better people in this troubled world, now and forever. Amen.
G. Bierschbach, respectfully