10/27/2026
This morning, I looked around my home and felt an overwhelming sense of gratitude.
A roof over our heads. Coffee in my cup. Clothes on my family. Food in our bellies.
Such ordinary things. Yet this morning, they felt extraordinary.
2026 has been one of the hardest years our family has walked through. We've shared openly about Noah's mental health struggles, but behind the scenes, we've also had to pull our youngest daughter out of school and begin homeschooling. There have been difficult decisions, painful conversations, unanswered questions, and moments when I've wanted to throw my hands up and scream, "Lord, what are You doing?"
And yet, there is so much good.
I've realized how easily our focus can become consumed by everything that's wrong. The news, social media, the suffering of others, and the struggles happening within our own walls.
None of that pain is imaginary. None of it needs to be minimized or dismissed.
But sometimes, the pain becomes the only thing we can see.
And when all we see is what's falling apart, our natural response is often to fix it. Control it. Make everyone happy. Find the solution. Make everything okay.
Before we know it, we're carrying the weight of things we were never meant to carry. And when we can't fix them, we feel inadequate, exhausted, and defeated.
But what if, for just a moment, we stopped looking at everything that's wrong and simply looked around?
Not at what could happen. Not at everything we wish were different. Not at all the things beyond our control.
But at what is right in front of our own two eyes.
God's goodness hasn't disappeared because life has become difficult. His presence hasn't changed because our circumstances have.
Gratitude doesn't erase the hard. It just reminds us that the hard isn't all there is.
Psalm 46:10 says, "Be still, and know that I am God."
I love that reminder. We are not being asked to figure everything out, hold everyone together, or understand every circumstance. We are invited to recognize Him in the middle of it all.
Two things can exist at once... We can be frustrated and grateful. Heartbroken and hopeful. Confused and still trusting.
We can cry out in anger, ask questions, grieve what we've lost, and still rest in the security of His love.
And maybe that's where our perspective begins to change. Not when our circumstances change, but when we remember Who is with us in them.
You don't have to hold everything together. You don't have to have all the answers. You don't have to fix what is beyond your control.
God loves you, He is present with you, and He isn't waiting for you to get everything right.
Wherever you find yourself, take a moment to look around. Notice the little things. Recognize the good. Allow yourself to see beyond the circumstances that may be consuming your thoughts.
When life feels like it's falling apart, God has never stopped being present.
And that is something worth being grateful for.
-Shay