05/16/2026
I was talking with one of my guys the other day about the bad calls we experience over our careers. The things we see and can’t unsee, those things we all carry, and how we deal with them.
Memories of the years of bad calls are like Legos in our minds. You don’t notice them for years, even stepping around them. Then one day, when your guard is down, barefoot, you step on one… and it’ll drop even the biggest and toughest among us. If you’ve ever had the pleasure of stepping on one in the middle of the night, just the thought will make you wince.
So, what’s the answer to all of this? The truth is, there’s no perfect answer, but there are things we can all do that can help.
We can start by “sweeping the floor from time to time,” clearing out the debris before it takes us down. That means talking with someone we trust, another peer who’s been there and gets it. It means taking quiet moments to pray and hand some of that weight to the Lord.
“Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” - Matthew 11:28
And yeah, sometimes it means gallows humor we share, the laughing at the worst calls because it keeps the darkness from getting a head start.
The important thing is that we do something, and don’t let the Legos pile up.
Sweep the floor.
Be well and take care of each other.