08/24/2026
“I have called you friends.” — John 15:15
Happy Monday, everyone.
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about human relationships. Between attending local public meetings, my own devotional reading, and just where I am in life, I keep coming back to one truth: life really is about the people we share it with.
There are plenty of material things we think we need but can easily live without. But we cannot live without each other. We need people; I know I do.
I need people who know the real, quirky, unfiltered me. People who notice when I'm bothered, even when I say "I'm fine." People who laugh with me and stick around when things get heavy. We were simply not created to go through this life alone.
This is why I’ve been so troubled by how we relate to one another lately.
We live in a time with more ways to connect than ever, yet we seem more disconnected than ever. So much happens behind a screen—WhatsApp, text, Facebook, Instagram. While these are wonderful tools, we sometimes forget there is a living, breathing person on the other side. (And yes, I see the irony of writing this on Facebook!) Someone posts something we dislike, and before we know it, we react in ways we would never dream of doing if they were sitting across a table from us. Behind every opinion is a human being. A person with a story of love, loss, worry, and celebration. Someone who wants to be valued. When we replace people with labels—we stop listening.
This is a serious topic for a Monday, but our faith demands it. Jesus didn't call us to only love people who think like us. He spent time with tax collectors, Pharisees, and Samaritans. He looked past the societal labels of his day and saw the actual person.
This week, I invite you to join me in trying something different.
Let’s be more intentional about how we communicate: Listen more, react less. Sit down with someone over coffee or a meal and just listen. When you sit across from someone, you see their face, hear their voice, and catch the nuances that a screen completely blocks out.
Maybe that’s what Jesus meant when he called us friends. He doesn’t want us to just know about him; he invites us into a real relationship where we talk, listen, trust, and spend time together. Just like our human relationships, our relationship with God needs that same time and attention.
This week, let's make intentional space for Jesus: A few quiet minutes of prayer. A walk where we're talking with God. A quiet moment to just listen.
The more time we spend with someone, the better we know them. As we notice God's presence in our own quiet moments, I suspect we will start seeing His presence in the people sitting right across the table from us, too.
How can we pray for you this week?
Please leave your prayer requests in the comments. Peace, Pastor Jen