06/01/2026
🌹🌹this is my cousin on my mother’s side… thank you RLS genealogy etc…
Thank you to all those across the country who have advised. (Greatly appreciated ♥️) literally a special stone.
Years ago, I used D-2. HOURS of work, reading, researching and time.
LOTS of water. Resting in between stages.
I live relatively close … That really helps as I have been able to work in stages. (…also D-2 continues to work)
I have always been drawn to this stone. Historical name is “Rock of Ages.
This is truely a piece of art work.
When working on and researching stones (and people) you can really appreciate the craftsmanship.
When you only have an hour or so … not how this stone was done. I continue to learn♥️.
The biological was deeply embedded. There are lots of creases and crevices . This is over 2 years worth of work … gently … carefully. Lots of different soft brushes including toothbrushes (and ladder work). Time!!!
I am pleased. I think Cousin looks good. … I shared this one on other sites😄
The art work in this Gravemarker is exquisite. The detail is absolutely amazing. There are fingernails and toenails. Artistically… it is a fine piece!!
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DANIEL M CARR
K6W6-696
BIRTH: 7 Jan 1852
DEATH: 26 Oct 1893 (aged 41)
Lafayette, Tippecanoe County, Indiana
BURIAL: Fairview Cemetery
Liberty, Clay County, Missouri
PARENTS:
Sarah Payton Irwin
Nickolas Lake Carr
SPOUSE: (married 1873)
Kate B Murray Carr
CHILDREN:
Ida Carr Henderson
Daniel Murray Carr
Kate Carr Laffoon
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This striking monument is commonly known as a "Rock of Ages" or a "Clinging to the Cross" headstone.
It was a very popular motif in Victorian funerary art during the late 19th and early 20th centuries.
The design is rich with symbolism and typically features several key elements:
Symbolism & Design
• The Cross: Represents the Christian faith and the hope of resurrection.
• The Clinging Figure: Usually a woman in classical or period-appropriate drapery, symbolizing "Faith" or the soul of the deceased. Her posture represents complete reliance on divine grace, inspired by the opening lines of Augustus Toplady’s 1763 hymn, Rock of Ages: "Nothing in my hand I bring, Simply to thy cross I cling."
• The Rugged Base: Often carved to look like a natural, unhewn rock or a stormy cliffside, representing the world's trials or the "Rock" of salvation.
• Ivy or Flora: You can see carved vines (often ivy) trailing up the cross, which traditionally symbolizes immortality, fidelity, and undying affection.
Material and Craftsmanship
Based on the texture and the way it has weathered.
The intricate folds of the dress and the "tooled" texture on the cross-arms were meant to showcase the skill of the stonecutter, making these some of the more expensive and high-status markers of that era.
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