06/22/2026
ARE YOU TOO JUDGEMENTAL OF OTHERS? ARE YOU CRITICAL OR HYPERCRITICAL OF OTHERS? DO YOU JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER? From The Word Among Us for June 22, 2026:
Why do you . . . not perceive the wooden beam in your own eye? (Matthew 7:3)
Why did Jesus use this strange metaphor about splinters and wooden beams as he warned his disciples against judging other people? He wanted to make a point. We know that even the tiniest irritant in our eye, much less a splinter, can disrupt our vision. Unfortunately, our tendency to judge other people is no mere splinter—it’s like a beam that keeps us from seeing straight!
But imagine for a moment the way that Jesus looks at you. He’s not counting up your every sin; he’s offering you mercy. He doesn’t just see your flaws and your failures; he sees all that you can become. He looks on you with great compassion and mercy. He sees in you someone made in the image of his heavenly Father.
It’s true; Jesus sees you through the eyes of his mercy and love—and not just you. This is how he looks upon everyone. Every single person is precious to him, and he longs for us to look at each other in the same way.
Do you want a little more inspiration to let Jesus change the way you look at people? In today’s Gospel, Jesus says, “The measure with which you measure will be measured out to you” (Matthew 7:2). While Jesus looks upon us with compassion and mercy, he warns against “measuring” our compassion and mercy in a stingy way. It sounds similar to the Lord’s Prayer, when we pray, “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.”
So let’s examine our hearts. Let’s uproot and bring to the Lord the ways we tend to look down on other people or find it easy to point out their faults or refuse to give them the benefit of the doubt. Let’s come to the Lord to receive his forgiveness. When we allow his mercy to lead us to repentance, the “beam” is removed from our eyes, and our hearts are changed. Then we can begin to see differently.
“Jesus, I bring to you anything that prevents me from seeing my neighbor clearly, as you see them, with eyes of mercy and compassion.”