09/29/2022
The first reason that self-esteem is not biblical is that it disregards that as Christians, we are sinners. The Bible tells us, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” (Romans 3: 23). As Christians, we understand that we are a sinner. From that point, we repent. We die to self and live by the spirit. Self-esteem elevates self, instead of repentance and faith in God.
Self-esteem is the opposite of dying to self. Self-esteem is defined as “confidence in one’s own worth or abilities; self-respect,” (Oxford Dictionary). As Christians, we must have faith in Jesus’ abilities, not our own. Jesus makes us strong, just as he made Paul strong in the Bible. The Bible says, “Therefore, I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproach, in needs, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then I am strong,” (2 Corinthians 12:10). Paul didn’t have self-esteem. He had Jesus.
The second reason that self-esteem is not Biblical is that it encourages pride. As Christians, we are called to be humble. In fact, the Bible says, “God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble,” (James 4:6). Yes, God resists the proud. Could that be why I would build my self-esteem up and then it would crash over and over again?
The third reason that self-esteem is not Biblical is that it is self-serving. If you are caught up building your own self-esteem, are you able to serve others? What is your focus? Self-esteem is self-focused. As Christians, we are called to serve others. We are the hands and feet of Jesus.
As Christians, once we do fully repent, God does build us up. He builds us up through his own power and truth. He makes us stronger than we would be by ourselves. This is because we rely on his power and not our own. Could David have defeated Goliath through his own power? David would have lost if he fought in his own power, regardless of his self-confidence level. David relied on the Lord’s power and killed the giant. As Christians, we must rely on the Lord to make us strong and powerful.