08/24/2026
Several years ago I heard an elder Sister's story about her son's journey back to God. He enjoyed going to Sunday School and services as a child but as he grew in age and size he also grew cold and indifferent toward God until finally, in his late teens, made the decision to walk away entirely. You can imagine the heartache this caused his mother. In fact, you may know this pain yourself because of the choices someone you love has made in regard to their relationship with God.
It was not just that the young man walked away from God, it was the fact of what he then walked into. Drinking, drugging, sleeping around - the life of the prodigal personified yet again. He developed anger toward his mother. She did not press him about his lifestyle, but she also would not condone it like he thought she should. Something as simple as, "I'm praying for you, son" would throw him into a rage. Finally, he just stopped communicating with his mother altogether.
Though she did not hear from him, she heard about him often. He picked up a criminal record. He became known around town and the region for all the wrong reasons. All the while, his mother was praying:
"Lord, please keep my boy safe and save him."
When this story was passed to me by the elder Sister, it was in the form of a testimony. She spoke of how she prayed this same simple prayer about her son every single day, multiple times a day, for years. Finally, the day came when the Lord had something to say about the prayer:
"Lord, please keep my boy safe and save him," she prayed.
Then, came an immediate response. The Spirit spoke to her in very clear words:
"I CAN SAVE HIM OR KEEP HIM SAFE, BUT I CANNOT DO BOTH!"
With those few words, the entire picture of what was happening developed in the mother's mind. Her prayers for protection for her son were being honored. But as God honored her desire for his protection, she was stopping some of the consequences required to get his attention and turn him back to God. Immediately, her prayer changed:
"Lord, WHATEVER IT TAKES, I just want to see my son saved."
Her son's life changed for the worse almost immediately. Every time the mother thought it couldn't possibly get worse, it did. For about a year, her son's life spiraled out of control. It was not, however, that his actions got worse. It was that he was not getting away with things anymore. Consequences on top of consequences started catching up with him. And while it broke his mother's heart, she did not waver in her prayer of, "Lord, whatever it takes."
Then came one average Sunday. There was nothing special about it. It wasn't Mother's Day or Easter. There wasn't a church dinner that day. No famous evangelist or guest speaker would fill the pulpit. It was just an average Sunday like any other, except that, on this Sunday, a weary and desperate young man would walk through the back doors of the church straight to an altar, falling on his face before God.
Consequences had run their course. A lost son came back to the Father's house. A mother's prayer was answered. God used consequences.
It is human nature to want to rescue someone we love, but it's spiritually inappropriate for us to act like we are someone's saviour. There are people who are never touched by God because we are too busy touching them ourselves. We're delivering them out of the hands of the consequences of their own actions in ways that not only do not help, but hinder their reconciliation with the Father. As much as it may hurt to take our hands off someone we love and let consequences take their course, doing so could be the only hope that person has of salvation.
Feed the hungry, yes. Clothe the naked, yes. Give water to the thirsty, yes. Acts of basic kindness and charity are not what we're addressing here. But we jump to those things as justification for our own overreach when our emotions begin to guide us rather than the heart of God. Maybe it's time you stopped trying to be Jesus the Saviour and start imitating Jesus the Intercessor. Your heart is in the right place, but God has got to be free to work.
Let your faith and confidence in Him drive your prayers toward "Lord, whatever it takes." God uses consequences, and He knows how to do it just the right way.