06/12/2026
Good morning, family and friends. The parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32) portrays a father who runs to embrace his child, restoring his sonship long before the child has a chance to prove his worth or "pay back" his mistakes.
“Many adults are still trying to earn love from parents who only rewarded performance.”
This quote highlights a struggle that many people may not immediately recognize in themselves. Freud's words suggest that when a child's achievements become the primary source of praise or affection, they can grow up believing that love must be earned through success. As adults, they may continue working harder, seeking approval, or chasing accomplishments in the hope of receiving the acceptance they felt was conditional during childhood. The quote points to the emotional weight that early experiences can carry into later stages of life.
At the same time, the statement is not simply about parents or childhood. It also reflects how deeply people can internalize messages they receive when they are young. A child who learns that good grades, awards, or achievements bring attention may eventually connect self-worth with performance. Even after becoming independent adults, they may continue measuring their value through accomplishments rather than recognizing their worth beyond what they achieve.
Pray this Prayer..
Father, thank You that Your amazing love and approval of me is not based on my performance. Thank You that I can refuse to let guilt and condemnation keep me from staying close to You. I declare that I am growing and becoming the person You created me to be. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Blessings, your brother in Christ Jesus 🙏.
Dr. Brandon L. Davis
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