04/16/2026
What a great story of what our Father is
Alright, let’s talk about the parable of the prodigal son, because this is one of those stories that sounds soft and sentimental until you actually understand what is happening, and then suddenly it is not soft at all.
You’ll find it in Luke 15, and most of us have heard it enough times that it kind of turns into background noise. Lost son, bad choices, comes home, gets a hug, everyone cries, end scene. Except no. This story starts off offensive.
The younger son walks up to his father and basically says, “I would like my inheritance now.” And we hear that and think, wow, bold move. In that culture, that was not bold, that was brutal. That was essentially saying, “I wish you were dead, but since you are not, can I just have your stuff anyway.” This is not a phase, this is not teenage rebellion, this is a full rejection of his father, his family, and his place in society.
And the father hands it over. Which should already make you stop for a second, because any respectable father in that time had every right to shut that down immediately. Discipline him, cut him off, do something. Instead, he absorbs the insult, divides up his property, and lets his son walk away with it.
So the son takes the money and leaves, and we are told he wastes it. Not made a few questionable investments, not tried his best, he wastes it. Completely. Think less budgeting app and more how quickly can I set my entire future on fire. And then famine hits, because of course it does. Because if you are going to make a series of bad decisions, life tends to follow that up with, oh and by the way, everything is about to get harder.
So now he is broke, alone, and desperate, and he ends up feeding pigs. And I need you to understand how low that is. For a Jewish man, pigs were unclean. Not just undesirable, unclean. You did not touch them, you did not work with them, you did not build your life around them. This is not I picked up a job I do not love, this is rock bottom socially, spiritually, and physically.
And it gets worse. He is so hungry he is looking at what the pigs are eating and thinking that actually looks like an option right now. That is where he is at.
So he decides to go home, and I would love to say this is a beautiful moment of deep emotional realization about everything he has done. It is not. He is starving. And he starts rehearsing a speech. Fully prepared, practiced, probably said it out loud a few times while walking. “I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Make me like one of your hired servants.” This man is not coming home expecting a hug, he is coming home hoping for a job application.
Because he knows what he deserves.
And here is where everything shifts. Before he even gets there, the father sees him. Which means the father has been looking. Watching. Waiting. This is not a coincidence, this is not oh look who showed up, this is someone who has been scanning the horizon like, is today the day.
And then the father runs. And we read that and think, oh that is sweet. No, that is shocking. Men of that status did not run. Ever. It was undignified. It meant lifting up heavy robes, exposing your legs, which in that culture was embarrassing. You did not do that if you cared at all about your reputation.
And this father does not just jog politely, he runs. Because the son is not the only one who would have seen him coming. The entire village would have seen him too. And a son who had publicly rejected his father, taken his inheritance, and blown it all did not just walk back into town like nothing happened. There was a very real expectation of public shame, rejection, being completely cut off from the community, or actually being killed. A just response, a deserved response.
And the father gets there first. He runs to his son, throws his arms around him, and this is not a polite hug. This is grabbing him, holding him, covering him before anyone else can get to him. The son starts his rehearsed speech, because of course he does, he has been practicing it the entire walk home, “I have sinned against heaven and against you, I am no longer worthy to be called your son,” and the father cuts him off.
He does not even let him finish.
He calls for the robe, the ring, the sandals. And those are not random items. The robe is status, the ring is authority, the sandals mean he is not a servant because servants went barefoot. The father is not easing him back in, he is fully restoring him on the spot. No probation period, no let’s see if you have changed, no you can sleep in the barn and earn your way back. Full restoration, immediately, publicly.
Which also means that if anyone in that village had a problem with it, if anyone wanted to shame him, punish him, remind him of what he had done, they would have had to go through the father first. Because the father is the one standing there, holding him, covering him, taking the weight of it.
The son deserved rejection. The father gave him restoration. The son came back with a plan to earn a place. The father gave him a place he never had to earn back.
And if we are being honest, this is where it gets uncomfortable. Because we love justice. We love the idea that people get what they deserve. We love a good well that is what happens when you make bad choices moment. And this story just completely wrecks that.
Because it is not about what the son deserves. It is about who the father is.
A father who absorbs the insult, waits through the rebellion, runs toward the mess, and covers the one who should have been cast out.
And if we are really honest, we all like to think we are the responsible one in this story. The one who stayed, the one who did it right. But most of us, at some point, are the one coming back with a fully rehearsed apology, hoping we can just be allowed to exist somewhere on the edge…
…only to find a Father already running toward us like dignity can wait and restoration cannot.