06/14/2026
IF YOU LOVE ME
John 14:15, If you love Me, keep My commandments.
Modern Christianity is a religion of professed love for Jesus. Both liberal and evangelistic churches emphasize how much God loves all people. To some, that love alone is salvation—people are saved and accepted by God without any action on their part—nothing is required; God just loves people into salvation. Some will teach that repentance and faith is needed to receive God’s gift of salvation. Much of modern Christianity teaches that it is virtually impossible to fall away from the love of God or to lose a saving relationship with God. It is a strong belief among evangelicals that if one has been born again and is a son of God he can never be unborn—once a son, always a son. Furthermore, even among the more conservative churches, people are led to believe, either through direct teaching or by example, that once they have been born again, Jesus requires nothing of them other than to perhaps to do their best. This is not true Christianity, and it is unlike what the early church taught, believed, and practiced.
In many of his writings, Oswald Chambers suggests that Jesus is a stern lord and master. One synonym of the word stern is uncompromising, and Jesus is just that: he does not compromise with what he saves people from. Jesus certainly is compassionate; he cares for the people he created. He is our savoir; he became a man, lived a holy life in human flesh, and made atonement for our sin through his death on the cross. Furthermore, he rose from the dead, ascended to the right hand of the Father where he constantly makes intercession for us, and he sent the Holy Spirit to live in us so that he can live his life through our lives.
2 Peter 1:10–11. “Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble; for so an entrance will be supplied to you abundantly into the everlasting kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.”
Peter shares with us some insight into the thinking of the early church—the generation in which Jesus actually lived. Be MORE DILIGENT so that you will NEVER STUMBLE. This is a significant part of the door to the kingdom of God. Notice that Peter calls Jesus not only our savior but our LORD. Greek for lord is kurios: supremacy: the supreme authority; the one who controls.
2 Peter 3:17–18. “You therefore, beloved, since you know this beforehand, beware lest you also fall from your own steadfastness, being led away with the error of the wicked; but grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.”
Again, Peter is concerned about the potential of people falling from their steadfastness and being drawn into error. To do this he says we must GROW in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. It is not sufficient to acknowledge Jesus as your savior, you must acknowledge him as you lord as well. Is Jesus the lord of your life? Is he the supreme authority in your life? Is he the one that actually controls your life—or are you in control and only paying pious lip service to Jesus?
It is true that many Christians sincerely think that Jesus is the lord of their lives but yet they are the ones in control of their lives. How can this be? They haven’t been taught what it means for Christ to be the lord of their lives. They have not been taught how to recognize the difference between the lordship of Jesus and their own sincerity. It is sad to say that among the church of God and holiness churches in general that this distinction has not been clearly taught. It is not giving blind obedience to the pastor; neither is it adhering to a set of outward standards. It is something that can only be learned and lived in the deepest recesses of our spirit and our will.
Jesus, himself, put it this way: “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” Most Christians look at holiness people and criticize us for our belief in holy living as if we are trying to earn our salvation. Perhaps there are those among us that are doing just that; but the truth is that we understand that holy living is the natural and logical outcome of the experience of salvation. If we have been saved and cleansed from sin, we should not sin. If we have consecrated our self and our will to Christ, then we should be following his will in all things and not our own will. Yes, we are liable to failure, just as any person is, but our failures should be few and far between. If we are consecrated to Christ, the consistent practice of our lives will be to grow in the grace and knowledge of Jesus Christ—that is the practical definition of entire sanctification.
What else did Jesus say about this? John 14:21, “He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he who loves Me. And he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and manifest Myself to him.” It is not enough to know the commandments of Christ; we have to keep them. To love Christ is to keep his commandments. Not to keep his commandments is not to love Christ. It is this key, our love and obedience to the commands of Christ, that makes God’s love for us real and effectual in our lives. There is no substitute!
John 15:9–10. “As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love.”
Jesus uses his own love and obedience as the STANDARD for our love and obedience. Someone might object saying that it is not fair—after all, he is Jesus, how can we be expected to be like him in these things? You will have to ask him because he is the one who gave us this standard. If you want to abide in the love of Christ, you must keep his commandments—if you do not keep his commandments, you are not living in the love of Christ.
So, Jesus tells us that he views our love in terms of our obedience to his commandments. We can then understand that if we do not keep his commandments, we do not love Christ. What is the consequence of this? 1 Corinthians 16:22, “If anyone does not love the Lord Jesus Christ, let him be accursed.” How many will reach Judgment professing to love Christ but have disregarded His commandments? What will eternity be for them?
I was challenged by something I heard on the radio a few months ago: a pastor had attended a conference at which the presenter asked the attendees if they know and teach the commands of Christ. Only one pastor raised his hand. My mind was set to thinking on the question of what are the commands of Christ? It seemed to me not an unreasonable thing for a shepherd over God’s flock to teach them the commands of Christ. You can see by what we have just studied that these commandments are very important. We cannot love Christ unless we keep his commandments.
How many commandments must we keep and how many can we break or disregard and still love Christ? He said, “Keep my commandments.” That seems to say keep them all, don’t pick and choose what is convenient or what you like. How many commandments did Christ give us? 142! I read all four gospels making a record of the commandments I found. I did not duplicate commandments: if a command is recorded in Matthew, Mark, and Luke, I counted that as one command. I did not count commands that appear in parables as those were parts of stories; those commands are repeated in other commands of Jesus. Some commands contain more than one commandment that are related or dependent on each other—I counted those as one command. Some commands have more than one part that I felt should be treated as separate commands. So, some people could come up with different number of commands, but the actual number is irrelevant, what is relevant is do you know these commands and are you keeping them?
I cannot be a good pastor to you and ignore the commandments of Christ. Over time we will work our way through these 142 commands of Christ and find out if we actually love him as we say we do. I will confess that this will not be easy preaching as some of it gets very close—you will find out that Jesus is, in fact, stern! Pray for me as I will have to stress issues you will not like. I assure you it will not be me abusing pastoral authority—it will be the commands of Christ, and you will have to deal with him, not me.
I do ask that, if you are challenged or convicted by any of these commands, that you commit yourself to obeying them. If it takes your coming to the prayer bench consecrating yourself, or repenting over disobedience or lack of obedience, please be humble and honest enough to do this. A person’s public acknowledgment of Christ’s lordship helps him to place a milestone in his life that will always be there to keep him from going back. And, your obedience can encourage others to obedience to the lordship of Jesus Christ.
We say we are a holiness church; let’s be a holiness church; let’s show our love for Christ through our obedience to his commandments.