02/01/2025
Contentment Not Complacency
by Wayne Greeson
If there was ever a man who faced trouble and adversity in his life, it was Paul. Paul gave us a small glimpse into some of the circumstances he lived through.
“From the Jews five times I received forty stripes minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods; once I was stoned; three times I was shipwrecked; a night and a day I have been in the deep; in journeys often, in perils of waters, in perils of robbers, in perils of my own countrymen, in perils of the Gentiles, in perils in the city, in perils in the wilderness, in perils in the sea, in perils among false brethren; in weariness and toil, in sleeplessness often, in hunger and thirst, in fastings often, in cold and nakedness” (II Corinthians 11:24-27).
What kind of man and what kind attitude would you expect if you met a man who had undergone such hardships? Discontented, hardened, hateful, unhappy, bitter? Despite these horrors and dangers Paul had a much different attitude.
“Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:11-13).
Who among us has undergone the trials Paul endured? Most of us could not say that we have faced even the smallest fraction of what Paul faced and endured. How could a man go through all those things listed above and yet be full of joy, hope, and contentment?
John Fowles, a British novelist, once said, “‘Content’ is a word unknown to life; it is also a word unknown to man.” Shakespeare placed the line in the mouth of Richard the Third, “Now is the winter of our discontent.”
Many people seem to believe that the only people who know contentment are babies sleeping in their mother’s arms and those laid out peacefully for their final rest in the funeral home. Yet, Paul was a man quite familiar with both hardship and contentment. That is certainly something worthy of spending time to understand and find out how we can “learn the secret of being content in any and every situation.”
Paul says his contentment was learned. “Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content” (Philippians 4:11). Paul used an interesting word here. In the Greek it means “I have been initiated, I have been instructed, I have been let in on the secret.”
The secret I have been let in on, is the secret of being content in every circumstance that you can imagine. Hungry? I am content. Full? I am content. Poverty? It is all right. Rich? It is OK. It doesn’t matter. I have been let in on the secret. I have been initiated into the greatest secret of the Christian life, how to remain stable all the way through.
Not everybody, not even every Christian knows this secret. It wouldn’t be a secret if everybody knew it. You wouldn’t have to be initiated. Paul said, “I have been let in on a secret. I have come to an understanding of one of the mysteries of life. You don’t have to be always up and down. You don’t have to be subject to discontentment. You don’t have to always be wanting something that you don’t have or have to have things the way they aren’t.”
The secret is that I can grasp hold of life, I can live my life with fulfillment and joy, no matter where I am, what I have or don’t have and I can be content. Not wanting something else, not wistful for what I did have once or what I might have or where I might be, but happy, peaceful and content.
The word “content” is a very strong word. Some translators suggest the word “self-sufficient.” Another synonym is “able.” Paul was saying “I have learned to be able, strong and self-sufficient in all circumstances and all situations, to take what comes without flinching.” Even if today I lost everything, well, I can continue, I can go on and live my life with joy. I won’t dissolve or collapse in a heap in the corner. A contented man is one who enjoys the scenery along the detours.
Most people spend their life in a fantasy world. Discontented people fantasize that they are someone else, that they have something else, that they are somewhere else. Discontentment thrives on the presumption that someone else, something else, somewhere else has to be better than my current circumstances and situation.
“What makes us discontented with our condition is the absurdly exaggerated idea we have of the happiness of others” (French Proverb). It seems to be the American way, the premise for all advertising and many movies and television shows.
The contented person doesn’t fantasize or complain about his or her circumstances. He doesn’t envy things to be other or envy things to be different. He is not a prisoner of the circumstances, he walks triumphantly through them. He is content. He is able. He is sufficient.
The Christian should be the true realist. He is content. He can accept life as it is, not as he wishes it could be, but as it is. He dares to look at life as it really is and embrace it, celebrating his humanity.
A Christian should never be squashed under the circumstances, as if the circumstances were a prison he has gotten into. He is always rejoicing in them. Rejoicing, not meaning happiness, rejoicing is seeing through the happenings to the God of the happenings.
The Bible teaches contentment, not complacency. There is a big difference! Contentment is self-sufficiency regardless of circumstances. Complacency is self-satisfaction without regard to one’s deficiencies. Paul was content in whatever circumstances he found himself, he was never complacent with his spiritual condition or work.
This is evident in the same book of Philippians, just one chapter before, where Paul wrote, “Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me. Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:12-14).
Be content with what you have, but never complacent with what you are. Always be content, always reaching forward to the goal.
From: The page of the Connersville Church of Christ, Connersville, IN; November 16, 2024