09/08/2026
Romans 12:2 NLT
"Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think."
Most of us can recognize somebody trying to change our mind. We're much less likely to notice something slowly teaching us what is normal. There's a difference.
An argument makes itself known.
Formation usually doesn't.
It's the voices you hear every day.
The jokes that stop sounding strange.
The anger you repeatedly consume.
The assumptions nobody bothers explaining anymore.
The things everybody around you simply seems to know.
Stay around something long enough... and eventually you can stop asking whether it's true. It just becomes the furniture in the room. Paul understood that. That's why he doesn't simply tell the Christians in Rome to behave differently. He tells them to let God change the way they think, because Jesus isn't only interested in changing what you do.
He wants to transform the place inside you that decides what seems reasonable...
what seems desirable...
what seems frightening...
what seems important...
and even what seems normal.
That's deeper work, and it means discipleship involves paying attention to what is discipling us.
Your phone can disciple you.
Your favorite news source can disciple you.
Your friends can disciple you.
Fear can disciple you.
Success can disciple you.
Your childhood can disciple you.
Even the version of yourself you've spent years trying to protect can disciple you. Anything you repeatedly allow to interpret life for you can begin shaping the way you see it. And here's the uncomfortable part:
You don't have to consciously agree with something for it to begin forming you.
You just have to live around it long enough without examining it.
That's why Paul gives us something better than:
"Try harder not to be influenced."
He says:
Be transformed.
Let God renovate your thinking.
Let Scripture spend enough time inside you that God's ways begin becoming familiar.
Let prayer become more than asking God for things.
Stay near Jesus long enough that His voice becomes recognizable...
and some of the other voices begin sounding strange again.
That's formation.
Not merely knowing the right answers.
Becoming the kind of person whose instincts are increasingly being shaped by Jesus.
So today, pay attention to what enters your mind repeatedly.
Not with fear.
With curiosity.
Ask:
What is teaching me what is normal?
What gets the first word in my morning?
What gets hours of my attention?
Whose approval affects me most?
Which voices consistently make me angrier?
More afraid?
More suspicious?
More self-centered?
And which ones make me more like Jesus?
Then invite the Holy Spirit into that space:
Jesus, retrain my instincts.
Teach me to recognize what sounds like You...
and what doesn't.
Change the way I think until Your Kingdom doesn't feel strange to me anymore.
Until mercy feels normal.
Holiness feels normal.
Generosity feels normal.
Forgiveness feels normal.
Courage feels normal.
Loving my enemies feels normal.
Obedience feels normal.
And following You...
doesn't feel like an interruption to my life.
It becomes the way I live it.