10/28/2026
Some Goodbyes Stay With Us
Some goodbyes are never quite finished.
We carry them with us in the memories that make us smile, the songs that take us back, and the moments when we instinctively wish we could pick up the phone and hear a familiar voice one more time.
Sometimes, grief arrives quietly. Sometimes, it catches us completely off guard. A photograph, a familiar scent, a favorite song and suddenly, we're missing someone all over again.
And that's okay.
The people we love leave pieces of themselves in our lives. They shape our stories, teach us lessons, make us laugh, and help make us who we are. Their absence changes our lives, but it doesn't erase what they gave us.
Our faith doesn't mean we never feel the pain of losing someone. Even Jesus wept at the death of His friend Lazarus. Love and sorrow can exist together, and there is no shame in either.
Ecclesiastes reminds us that there is “a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance.” (Ecclesiastes 3:4)
There is room for all of it: the tears, the laughter, the stories we tell again and again, and the hope we hold onto when goodbye feels too heavy.
So today, let's remember the people who helped shape our lives. Say their names. Share a favorite story. Listen to the song that reminds you of them. Let yourself feel whatever today brings.
Because remembering isn't a failure to move forward. Sometimes, it's one of the ways we continue to love.
🖤 Some goodbyes change our lives. They never have to erase the love.