09/14/2026
Who has hurt you?
That was the deeply personal question at the heart of Fr Mark's sermon.
It may have happened 20 minutes ago or 20 years ago. A family member. A friend. Someone at work. Someone whose actions still come back to mind—and whose hurt we may still be carrying.
In Matthew 18, Peter asks Jesus how many times he must forgive someone who has wronged him. Seven times?
Jesus answers, “seventy times seven.”
The point is not mathematics. It is freedom.
Peter wants to know when he has done enough. Jesus tells him: whatever it takes, keep letting the burden go.
Fr Mark shared a story from his own life. Years ago, he loaned a family member $1,000. The money was never repaid.
Months passed. Then a year.
The unpaid debt began to affect the relationship—not because the other person was consumed by it, but because Fr Mark was. He was angry. He replayed it in his mind.
Eventually came the realization that changed everything:
The only person we can change is ourselves.
So he called his family member and released him from the debt.
The debt had become more than $1,000. It had become a weight—a sack carried on his shoulders.
And that is often what unforgiveness becomes.
Forgiveness does not mean that what happened was acceptable. It does not erase the hurt or pretend that wrong is right.
Forgiveness means placing the person, the wound, and the debt into God's hands and saying:
“I cannot carry this anymore. You take it.”
That is grace.
It is the supernatural entering the natural circumstances of our lives. We put the burden down, and God picks it up. Christ has already carried it to the cross.
Sunday also gave us a beautiful picture of that grace as Good Shepherd celebrated Paul's years of faithful service. His servant heart reminds us that God's grace changes how we live, love, forgive, and serve.
So the invitation remains:
Bring to mind the person who has hurt you.
Can you change them?
Perhaps not.
But you can decide whether to keep carrying what they did.
Jesus went to the cross so that we might live fully and freely in the grace of God.
Put the burden down. Give it to God. Let it go.
God has got it.