09/03/2026
Friendship = A Strong Cord in Our Lives
September 3, 2026
Chaplain LaVina “Viny” Burns
It was exciting to know I was getting ready to speak at a Friendship Luncheon. To make an impact, I wanted to physically demonstrate friendship. My plan was to contact a very good friend and sister in the Lord in hopes of inviting her to come to Buckeye, AZ and attend the function. After talking with her, she called shortly thereafter and informed me a plane ticket had been purchased. I was ecstatic! This is a friend that is like my sister.
With that taken care of, I began to work on the booklet (I always provide the women a booklet with note pages, etc) for the luncheon. Upon completion of it, I contacted the Director of Women’s Ministries at the church and we went to breakfast. As we discussed the event, she looked at the booklet and then asked, “You do know the event is on the 14th of April – right?”. I just about died there in front of her. “No, I didn’t”, I replied. “I thought it was on Saturday the 7th. Problem!! My friend had just booked her ticket for April 5th, to be with us on the 7th. A Viny Moment!
We drove to Sky Harbor International Airport and picked up Kathy Link. What a woman! We met years ago at church in Kentucky. She is true through and through! Oh my lands, her support, her laughter, her prayers, her just being her! The seed of friendship was planted, the phone calls watered it and the conversations began to blossom as an opening rose. We found unity in Christ and leaned on each other when needed.
I watched diligently, at the airport, for this beautiful woman of God, so not to drive past her and there she was! American Airlines had delivered her safely to us! Time for laughter, sharing, prayer, and just plain friendship!
There are so many great friendships in the Bible that we read about in the Word of God. David and Jonathan; Ruth and Naomi; Paul and Barnabas…: Let’s look at Paul and his traveling companion.
Acts 11:22-26
22) “Then news of these things came to the ears of the church in Jerusalem, and they sent out Barnabas to go as far as Antioch. 23) When he came and had seen the grace of God, he was glad, and encouraged them all that with purpose of heart they should continue with the Lord. 24) For he was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and of faith. And a great many people were added to the Lord. 25) Then Barnabas departed for Tarsus to seek Saul. 26) And when he had found him, he brought him to Antioch. So it was that for a whole year they assembled with the church and taught a great many people. And the disciples were first called Christians in Antioch.”
It is believed that Paul and Barnabas began with a strong relationship, however, whether it was immaturity on Barnabas’ part or impatience on Paul’s part, the two had to separate. Yet, God still was at work in both of the men’s lives. Friendship does not mean we always have to agree, but, but possibly agreeing to disagree and still get busy for the Lord! With grateful hearts, let us thank the Lord for the awesome friendships in our lives and work diligently for Jesus, side by side!
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, 12, “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor.
10) For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls,
For he has no one to help him up…12) Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
Has God placed a friend in your pathway lately! Treasure them! Friendship = A strong cord in our lives.