06/21/2026
The Messy, Beautiful Work of Showing Up
Sunday, June 21, 2026
Psalm 103:8-14
Father's Day is one of those Sundays that carries a heavy, mixed bag of emotions into the sanctuary. For some of us, today is an easy joy. We’re firing up the grill later, calling our dads, and feeling deeply grateful for the men who shaped us.
But for others, this morning is just hard. It’s a day that highlights an empty chair at the table. It brings up the ache of a relationship that never was what it should have been, or the quiet, ongoing grief of longing to be a father when that door hasn't opened. Sometimes, the church hasn't been great at holding all of that at once. We tend to prefer our holidays simple.
But human life isn't simple, and neither is the love we are called to.
When the Psalmist wrote, "As a father has compassion for his children, so the Lord has compassion for those who fear him," he wasn't picturing a perfect, flawless human parent. Honestly, there aren't any. Being a parent—or a mentor, an uncle, or just a deeply invested friend—is mostly a long exercise in realizing your own limits. It’s losing your patience, apologizing, trying to build a treehouse and failing, and just deciding to show up again the next day anyway.
The good news of the gospel is that God’s love doesn’t look like our fragile, inconsistent attempts at caring for one another. It’s the other way around. Our best, clumsiest moments of showing up for the people we love are just faint echoes of the God who decided to show up for us first.
In the Reformed tradition, we talk a lot about grace. But sometimes we can accidentally make grace sound like a cold, legal courtroom transaction. Psalm 103 reminds us that grace is fiercely relational. It’s a parent looking at a child who has messed up for the tenth time today, letting out a long breath, and pulling them into a hug anyway. The very next verse in the psalm says, "For he knows how we were made; he remembers that we are dust."
God isn't surprised by your weakness. God doesn't love a future, idealized version of you who finally gets it together. God loves you right now, in the middle of whatever mess you're carrying this morning.
If you are celebrating a father today, give thanks for the ways his love has pointed you toward the relentless grace of God. If you are serving as a father figure to someone else, take a deep breath and know that you don't have to be perfect; you just have to rely on the Spirit to help you be present.
And if today is just a day to endure, please know you aren't alone. You belong to a God whose compassion never fails, whose arms are wide open, and who holds you securely, completely, and forever.
Psalm 103:13 — "As a father has compassion for his children, so the Lord has compassion for those who fear him."
Gracious God, we thank you that before we ever knew how to call on you, you claimed us as your own. In a world of fragile relationships, we rest in your sovereign, unshakeable love. Comfort those who grieve today, strengthen those who lead and nurture, and guide us by your Spirit to reflect your deep compassion to everyone we meet. Amen.
© 2026 Kenly Presbyterian Church
Father's Day brings a mix of joy, grief, and everything in between. Today we look at messy, real-life love and the relentless compassion of God.