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10/30/2026

Making Room to Experience God
Following Jesus from the Edges —
Devotionals on Holiness
October 30,2026
Pastor Calvin Cook

Who may ascend the mountain of the Lord? Who may stand in his holy place? The one who has clean hands and a pure heart, who does not trust in an idol or swear by a false god— Psalm 24:3–4, NIV

I never realized until last night’s Bible study how deeply the words of David in Psalm 24 speak to our desire to experience God more fully and pursue a life of holiness.

Sometimes we read a familiar Scripture, but then something causes us to pause. We hear it differently. We begin to recognize that God’s Word is speaking directly into our own lives.

David asks who may stand in God’s holy place. His answer brings our attention to clean hands and a pure heart.

As I consider those words, I find myself asking: Am I allowing God to shape both what I do and what I carry within me?

Our hands represent our work, what we do, our actions, and how we treat others. Our hearts hold desires, motives, attitudes, and thoughts that other people may never see. Here is my revelation —God cares about all of it.
I can appear to be doing the right things while carrying resentment. I can speak about trusting God while quietly insisting on having my own way. I can desire a deeper experience of His presence while hesitating to surrender something He has brought to my attention.

That is a humbling thought.

Yet this passage invites me to come honestly before God. Through Jesus Christ, we receive forgiveness and cleansing. By the Holy Spirit, we receive grace to turn from sin and grow in love. Our pursuit of holiness begins with our need for Him and continues through our willingness to let Him work within us and through us. God’s agenda not mine!

Another Scripture came to mind as I reflected on this:
“In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct my paths.” — Proverbs 3:6

Those words have been key words, life words and breath prayers all my life. They are written on my heart. Until this morning, I never realized how these words help me respond to the words in Psalm 24.

In all thy ways.

That reaches into more of my life than the time I set aside for prayer or worship. It includes my conversations, my business decisions, my relationships, my private thoughts, and how I respond when things do not go as I hoped.

To acknowledge God in all my ways means bringing those parts of my life before Him with a willingness to listen and obey.

Lord, how would You have me respond? What needs to change within me?

Where am I holding back?

Experiencing God more fully involves opening our lives to His searching, cleansing love. As we receive His grace, we learn to walk more closely with Him.

Today, I want to carry this simple prayer: Lord, give me clean hands, a pure heart, and a willingness to acknowledge You in every part of my life.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, thank You for speaking through Your Word. Through Jesus, forgive and cleanse me. Examine my actions and the motives of my heart. By Your Holy Spirit, help me surrender what keeps me from walking closely with You. Teach me to acknowledge You in all my ways and trust You to direct my path. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Praying with you and for you as we pursue holiness together.

10/29/2026

Whose Opinion Matters?

Following Jesus from the Edges — Devotionals on Holiness

Pastor Calvin Cook | October 29, 2026

“Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God?” — Galatians 1:10, NIV

Opinions are all around us. We hear them in conversations, on television, in our churches, and through social media. In the political and religious climate around us, people express strong convictions about what is right, who is wrong, and how everyone else should live.

And, of course, we have opinions of our own. I recently came in contact with a person in the community who I respect and I assume respects me. They asked my opinion on something and though they didn’t say it, I could tell by the way their expression changed that we were not in agreeance. The conversation ended amicably and a bit quickly as they suddenly had something to attend to and departed. I felt as if the conversation ended before I could state the reason for my opinion and where I was drawing it from.

This morning, I find myself asking: Whose opinion am I following? How is it shaping my decisions, my relationships, and the person I am becoming?

I can listen to something so often that it begins to influence my thinking without my recognizing it. I can become more concerned with someone’s approval than with whether my response reflects Jesus. I can even search for voices that agree with me while avoiding Scripture that might challenge me.

Perhaps you recognize that struggle, too.

Paul’s question in Galatians brings me back to my own heart: Am I seeking human approval, or am I seeking to please God?

Listening to others can help us grow. God often uses wise counsel, Christian fellowship, and people with different experiences to reveal something we have overlooked. Humility makes us willing to listen and willing to admit we may be wrong.

Yet every voice, including my own, needs to be examined in the light of God’s Word.

Romans 12:2 calls us to be transformed through the renewing of our minds so that we can discern God’s will. That renewal requires more than adding a Bible verse to an opinion we already hold. We must allow Scripture to question us, examine our motives, and change our direction.

This is where our pursuit of scriptural holiness becomes deeply personal.

Through the grace of Jesus Christ and the work of the Holy Spirit, God cleanses our hearts and teaches us to love as He loves. That work reaches into what we believe, how we speak, and how we treat people who disagree with us.

James 3:17 describes it best: “But the wisdom from above is first pure [morally and spiritually undefiled], then peace-loving [courteous, considerate], gentle, reasonable [and willing to listen], full of compassion and good fruits. It is unwavering, without [self-righteous] hypocrisy [and self-serving guile]. wisdom from above as pure, peaceable, gentle, receptive, merciful, and sincere.” (Amplified Bible) Those qualities give me something to consider before I repeat an argument or defend my position.

Is this voice helping me become more truthful, humble, and compassionate? Is my response bearing the Spirit’s fruit of love, patience, kindness, and self-control? Am I willing to obey God when His Word challenges something I want to believe?

A strongly held opinion still needs a surrendered heart.

Today, before asking God to correct everyone else, I need to pray: Lord, show me where my own thinking needs to change.

Whose opinion matters most in the way I actually live? Is it social media? A politician? A friend? Family member? A religion? Or is it the Holy Spirit arriving and wielding the sword of the Spirit which is the word of God. (Ephesians 6:17)

May my choices reveal a growing desire to please the One who loves me, saves me, and calls me to holiness.

Prayer: Lord, help me recognize the voices shaping my life. Give me humility to listen, wisdom to discern, and courage to receive correction. Examine my opinions through Your Word. By Your Holy Spirit, cleanse my heart and shape my words and decisions in the love of Jesus. Let pleasing, You become my deepest desire. In Jesus’ name, amen.

10/28/2026

Fighting a Battle Already Won

Following Jesus from the Edges
Pastor Calvin Cook
October 28, 2026

“Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might. Put on the whole armour of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.” — Ephesians 6:10–11

There are days when the battle feels very real. It may begin before our feet touch the floor as we think about a difficult conversation, a decision we have to make, a situation in a relationship, or a burden we have carried too long.

Some struggles are visible and noticeable to others. Others take place quietly within our hearts and minds. We wrestle with fear, discouragement, temptation, resentment, or the desire to take matters into our own hands.

One of the songs I listen to regularly is “You’ve Already Won,” by Shane & Shane. Its words speak of fighting a battle that God has already won.

But if Jesus has already won the victory, why does the battle still feel so difficult?

Through His death and resurrection, Jesus has overcome sin and death. Our hope rests in what He has done, even though we still live in a world where evil, temptation, and suffering are real. Christ’s victory gives us a place to stand while the struggle continues.

We are reminded in Ephesians that our struggle is not against flesh and blood. How easily we forget this and begin to see those who disagree with us as the enemy. Yet Paul describes a battle that reaches beyond what we can see or fully understand. This is a spiritual battle, and we need the strength and provision of God to stand.

As we consider holiness, we recognize that the fight becomes more difficult when we stop seeking God and resist the Spirit’s leading. Neglecting prayer, avoiding Scripture, or excusing an attitude we know needs to change leaves us less prepared to stand. So does allowing distractions to keep us from worship, prayer, and fellowship with other believers.

This does not mean every hardship comes because we have failed God. Faithful people face painful battles, too. It does remind us, however, that we need to draw close to Him in every circumstance.

The Apostle Paul instructed the believers in Ephesus to put on the whole armor of God: truth, righteousness, readiness that comes from the gospel of peace, faith, salvation, and the Word of God. He also called them—and calls us—to pray in the Spirit on every occasion.

The belt of truth helps us remain grounded in what God says when other voices are loud. The shield of faith helps us trust Him when we cannot see the outcome. The sword of the Spirit calls us back to His Word when our thoughts wander. Prayer continually turns our attention toward the One who is with us in the fight.

Holiness is part of this daily surrender. We can ask God to examine our hearts, cleanse what needs cleansing, and lead us away from whatever pulls us from Him. We can follow the Spirit when He calls us to forgive, speak truth, resist temptation, or be still and trust.

We may not know how today’s struggle will unfold. We may not receive the answer we hope for as quickly as we would like. But we can trust the One who has faced sin and death and risen victorious.

We do not have to stand in our own strength. We can put on the armor of God, pray, listen, and take the next faithful step.

What battle are you fighting today?

Are you bringing it honestly before Jesus? Are you asking the Holy Spirit to help you stand and give you direction? Or are you trying to face the battle without receiving and putting to use what God has already provided?

God’s armor is available to you. Will you put it on today?

Prayer: Lord Jesus, thank You for the victory You have won through Your death and resurrection. When the battle feels overwhelming, remind me that my hope is in You. Forgive me for the times I have tried to stand in my own strength or ignored the leading of Your Spirit. Make my heart willing to pursue holiness. Clothe me in Your armor, ground me in Your truth, and help me stand faithfully in Your strength. Amen.

Today’s response: Read Ephesians 6:10–18. Name one struggle you are facing, bring it to God in prayer, and ask the Holy Spirit to show you one faithful step you can take today.

10/27/2026

Who’s at the Door?

Following Jesus from the Edges
Pastor Calvin Cook
October 27, 2026

“Behold, I stand at the door and continually knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him (restore him), and he with Me.” — Revelation 3:20, AMP

Where we live, it can be hard to tell when someone is at the door. We have installed cameras and a doorbell so that we can recognize who is there.

Here is a bit of honesty: The camera gives us the advantage of deciding whom we want to open the door to. Most everyone who comes to our door is welcomed and received. But there have been a few, though not many, whom we have ignored.

Unfortunately, there are also times when we are in a part of the apartment where we don’t know, see, or hear that someone is at the door. We may miss someone we really want to receive. Usually, at that point, the visitor calls to say they are here. The visit is rescued, the door is opened, and there is much celebration.

Lately, I have been praying for those who have opened the door of their hearts and lives to things that seek to harm them. In John 10:10, Jesus speaks of a thief who comes “to steal and kill and destroy.” But He also tells us that He came so that we might have life and have it abundantly.

What a difference it makes when we recognize who is at the door.

Think about this: Jesus is standing at the door, knocking and inviting us to receive Him. He desires more than a passing visit. He invites us into a relationship with Him—a life shaped by His presence, His love, and His saving grace.

I appreciate the way the Amplified Bible describes Jesus as continually knocking. When I have been distracted or have failed to listen, that image reminds me of His patience. He continues to call His people toward fellowship with Him.

In Revelation, Jesus speaks these words to the church in Laodicea. They are an invitation to hear His voice and open the door. As I read them, I also hear a question for my own life: Am I paying attention when Jesus calls?

Have I become so busy that I cannot hear Him? Have I welcomed things into my heart that are pulling me away from Him? Am I willing to open the door and receive what He wants to do within me?

When we receive Jesus, we receive His promise of forgiveness, restoration, and eternal life. We were made in God’s image and created for relationship with Him. What an awesome privilege it is to spend time with Him each day, knowing that He desires to be with us.

Jesus also gives us the Holy Spirit, our Advocate and guide. The Spirit helps us recognize what draws us away from God and gives us strength to resist evil and walk in the life Jesus offers.

Today, I am praying—and I encourage you to pray with me—that we will be willing to receive Jesus and welcome His presence in every part of our lives. May we surrender to the will of God and receive the guidance and strength of the Holy Spirit.

Who is at the door of your life today? And are you ready to open it to Jesus?

Prayer: Lord Jesus, thank You for continuing to call us into fellowship with You. Help us hear Your voice above the distractions around us. Give us willing hearts to receive You, surrender to the Father’s will, and follow the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Restore what has been broken and lead us into the abundant life You offer. Amen.

10/26/2026

DO I LOOK LIKE MY DAD? Who do I resemble?

Looking Like My Father

A Five-Part Devotional Series on Holiness — Part 5
Pastor Calvin Cook

October 26, 2026

Scripture: “For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, ‘Abba, Father.’ The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.” — Romans 8:14–17, NIV

As we come to the final devotional in this series, we have considered our desire for God’s presence, a clean heart, His will, and His truth. Today, we bring those desires into the way we live as His children.

Recently, I ran into someone who knew my dad. It felt like a little celebration, since Dad has been gone for several years. I always love hearing stories about him.

Dad lived a rather simple, out-of-the-way life. He never sought the spotlight. He appreciated the fellowship of friends, a morning in the woods hunting, or time along the creek fishing. I admire those things, yet I often find myself so bogged down with responsibilities that I leave little room for the simple things that cost nothing.

Anyhow, this person said, “You are really starting to look like your dad.”

I chuckled because, honestly, I don’t see it. For one thing, I still have hair! Maybe not for long, but I don’t see much physical resemblance.

That conversation has stayed with me over the last few weeks. As today’s devotional brought me to Romans 8, I paused to ask: How much do I look like my heavenly Father?

Do I resemble Jesus? Do His teachings shape the way I respond to others? Do I love as Jesus loved? And here is a difficult one: Am I willing to share in His sufferings—to remain faithful when following Him becomes costly?

Does the way I live reflect the Father to whom I belong?

That gives me something to think about. I can speak about holiness, write about following Jesus, and encourage others to listen to the Holy Spirit. But what happens when the day becomes difficult? When someone disagrees with me, interrupts my plans, or needs more patience than I feel prepared to give?

Those ordinary moments reveal places where I still need God’s grace.

I truly desire to live a life that reflects Jesus. Yet sometimes my first response reveals how much I still want my own way. I may begin the morning in prayer, asking the Holy Spirit to guide me, and then try to take control before the day has barely started.

Perhaps you understand that struggle, too.

Paul reminds us in Romans that those who are led by the Spirit are God’s children. He speaks of adoption, of calling upon God as “Abba, Father,” and of the Spirit assuring us that we belong to Him.

There is comfort in that belonging—in that relationship. Through Jesus Christ, we have been welcomed into God’s family. We can bring Him our struggles, receive His correction, and trust His love as He teaches us how to live.

Thinking back to my dad, I remember so many lessons he taught me: how to fish, how to hunt—although I never really learned the quiet part—how to grow a garden, how to work, and how to provide.

Yet I don’t always make time to practice what he taught me. Those lessons remain in my memory, but I want them to find expression in my life.

That brings me back to Jesus. How many of His teachings do I carry in my memory without allowing them to shape my daily living?

This is where holiness becomes personal again. Am I willing for the Holy Spirit to shape my responses? Will I allow Him to guide what I say, how I listen, and what I do when no one else is watching?

Sometimes His leading calls me to speak. Sometimes it calls me to be quiet long enough to understand. Sometimes it means admitting I was wrong and asking someone to forgive me.

And sometimes it means doing the good I already know to do: making the phone call, offering the visit, speaking encouragement, or showing the kindness I have been putting off.

I wonder how often I ask God to show me the next step while hesitating over the step He has already made clear.

As His children, we are learning to recognize His voice and respond with obedience. His grace enables us to grow. The Holy Spirit works within us so that the Father’s love becomes visible through our lives.

That love reaches the people closest to us. It shapes how we treat our families, how we work, how we serve our churches, and how we respond to someone whose life is very different from our own.

As this series comes to a close, I want to keep praying the desires we have considered:

Lord, help me seek Your presence. Create in me a clean heart. Teach me to desire Your will and receive Your truth. Lead me as Your child.

Today, will my choices help someone see the love of the Father to whom I belong?

Prayer: Heavenly Father, thank You for welcoming me as Your child through Jesus Christ. Help me trust Your love and follow the leading of Your Holy Spirit. Shape my words, attitudes, and choices so that they reflect You. Where I resist, make me willing. Where I have hurt others, help me seek forgiveness. Let Your holy love become visible in the ordinary moments of my life. Amen.

10/23/2026

Desiring to Know God's Truth

A Five-Part Devotional Series on Holiness — Part 4

Pastor Calvin Cook | October 23, 2026

But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come. John 16:13 NIV

As I continue reflecting on what it means to pursue holiness, I am discovering that one of the most important desires we can have is to know God's truth. Not simply to know more about God, but to allow His truth to change the way we think, live, and respond to the world around us.

There is a difference between knowing what the Bible says and allowing God's Word to speak directly into our hearts.

I can read a familiar passage of Scripture, one I have preached from or read many times, and then suddenly something different jumps out at me and changes my view. I have to believe this is the Holy Spirit revealing something I had not considered. Sometimes it brings encouragement. Sometimes conviction. And sometimes it makes me uncomfortable because I recognize something within myself that needs to change.

Last night in our Bible Study we paused on Psalm 46:1 it reads: “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble” (KJV). It was one word that paused us: VERY. Some translations instead of using VERY the word EVER is used. Both with similar meaning. I was led to consider how we relate to God. Do we relate only when we need God – or is or relationship ever, eternal, without hesitation. Is God’s presence always realized or just when we are very much in need of it. Which is ever, all the time!

We live in a world where everyone seems to have an opinion about what is right, wrong, and acceptable. If we are not careful, we can become so accustomed to the voices around us that we confuse popular opinion with God's truth.

And sometimes I wonder if we want God to agree with what we already believe rather than allowing His Word to correct us.

In John 16, Jesus was preparing His disciples for the challenges they would face after His departure. He promised they would not be alone. The Holy Spirit would come to guide them into all truth.

Jesus explained that the Spirit would convict the world concerning three things: sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8–11).

These are not always comfortable subjects, yet they are essential to holiness.

The Holy Spirit reveals sin so that we recognize our need for forgiveness and turn toward Jesus. He reveals righteousness, pointing us to Christ and teaching us to live in obedience. He reveals judgment, reminding us that evil will not have the final word.

But there is a question I cannot escape.

Am I willing to allow the Holy Spirit to reveal the truth about me? It is easy to recognize what needs to change in someone else's life, our churches, or our communities. But what needs to change in me?

What happens when the Holy Spirit reveals the areas and ideas I have in my heart that need to change? Will I listen? Will I surrender? Will I allow His truth to transform me?

The pursuit of holiness requires a willingness to be corrected by the One who loves us enough not to leave us as we are.

Perhaps what our communities need most is not simply people who know how to explain their beliefs, but people whose lives demonstrate the transforming power of Jesus Christ.

People who speak truth with kindness, extend grace, admit when they are wrong, and love as Jesus loved.

This morning, I want to know God's truth, even when it challenges me, changes my plans, or reveals something I would rather ignore.

Because the closer I walk with Jesus, the more willing I must become to allow His truth to change my heart.

A Prayer for Today

Heavenly Father, thank You for loving me enough to reveal Your truth. Holy Spirit, search my heart. Reveal what needs to change, give me humility to receive correction, and courage to obey. Help me recognize Your voice above the noise of this world. May Your truth shape my thoughts, guide my decisions, and make me more like Jesus. Amen.

A Thought to Carry Today: Am I seeking God's truth to affirm what I believe, or am I willing to let His truth change who I am?

Following Jesus From the Edges

Pastor Calvin Cook www.pastorcalvincook.com

10/21/2026

A New Morning, A Deeper Desire to Be Like Jesus

Devotionals on Holiness — Part Three
Pastor Calvin Cook | October 21, 2026

Scripture:
“This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.” — Galatians 5:16 (KJV)

There is something wonderful about the beginning of a new morning. Before the demands of the day begin to press upon us, before the conversations, decisions, and responsibilities begin to fill our thoughts, there is an opportunity to come quietly into the presence of God.

This morning, my prayer is a simple one: Lord, I want to be more like Jesus today than I was yesterday.

I don’t want this to be just another day of going through the motions, completing responsibilities, and reaching the evening exhausted from everything that needed my attention. I want this day to be different because I have intentionally invited the Holy Spirit to lead me.

I want to recognize His presence, experience His power, and be sensitive to His direction in every step I take.

But I am discovering that becoming more like Jesus requires more than simply wanting to be a better person. It requires surrendering myself to the transforming work of the Holy Spirit.

There are things within my heart that still need to change. There are attitudes that need to become more Christlike, words that need to be spoken with greater love, and decisions that need to be made with greater dependence upon God.

And perhaps that is where the real desire for holiness begins.

Not with the assumption that I have arrived, but with the realization that God is not finished with me yet.

When Jesus called His disciples, He did not simply invite them to believe certain truths about Him. He invited them to follow Him. To walk where He walked. To learn His ways. To develop His compassion. To trust His Father. To surrender their own desires and become more like Him.

That same invitation comes to us this morning.

I find myself asking: What would happen if I truly allowed the Holy Spirit to direct every step of my day?

Would I be more patient with someone who tests my patience? Would I be quicker to forgive? Would I recognize someone who needs encouragement? Would I stop long enough to pray before making a difficult decision?

Would I be willing to change my plans if the Holy Spirit was leading me in another direction?

These are not always easy questions, because being led by the Spirit means surrendering the control we so often want to maintain.

Yet there is something deeply comforting about knowing that God has not asked us to walk this journey alone.

Jesus promised His disciples that the Holy Spirit would come to guide them into truth. The same Spirit who strengthened the early Church, gave boldness to frightened disciples, and empowered ordinary people to accomplish extraordinary things is still at work today.

And He is at work within us.

“If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.” — Galatians 5:25 (KJV)

I love that word walk. It reminds me that holiness is not simply about a moment of spiritual excitement or an experience at the altar. It is about the steps we take after we leave that place of prayer.

It is how we live when no one is watching. How we respond when life becomes difficult. How we love when loving is costly. How we remain faithful when the road ahead is uncertain.

This morning, I do not know everything this day will bring. There may be unexpected challenges, difficult conversations, disappointments, or opportunities I have not anticipated.

But I know what I desire.

I want to walk so closely with Jesus that His presence becomes more important than my plans. I want the Holy Spirit to make me aware of the things that need to change within me and give me the grace to respond.

I want the people I encounter today to experience something of the love, compassion, patience, and holiness of Jesus through my life.

And when this day comes to an end, my greatest desire is not simply to have accomplished everything on my schedule.

It is to know that I have walked with Jesus, listened to the Holy Spirit, and become a little more like Him.

A Prayer for This Morning

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of another morning. Thank You for Your mercy that meets me as I begin this day.

Lord Jesus, create within me a deeper desire to be like You. Cleanse my heart of anything that hinders my walk with You.

Holy Spirit, fill me afresh with Your presence and power. Direct my thoughts, guide my conversations, order my steps, and make me sensitive to Your voice.

When I am tempted to rush ahead, teach me to wait. When I am uncertain, give me wisdom. When I become weary, renew my strength. When You reveal something that needs to change, give me the courage and willingness to surrender it.

Let this day be more than another day lived. Let it be another day of becoming more like Jesus.

In His holy name I pray. Amen.

A Thought to Carry Today:

What if, before every decision, every conversation, and every step, I quietly prayed: “Holy Spirit, lead me. Make me more like Jesus”?

10/20/2026

Desiring a Clean Heart

A Five-Part Devotional Series on Holiness
Pastor Calvin Cook
Part 2 — October 20, 2026

This week, we are reflecting on thoughts from the preaching and teaching shared by the pastors of our ARCC charge last weekend. Our focus is on experiencing holiness and being led by the Holy Spirit. Each day, we are taking one foundational belief and making room to meditate, pray, and respond to God.

“Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.” — Psalm 51:10

I never thought the prayer “Create in me a clean heart” would be as difficult to pray as it is.

I can pray those words sincerely and then become uncomfortable when God begins showing me what needs cleansing. I may welcome the thought of renewal while hesitating over a particular attitude, habit, or conversation.

As the Holy Spirit brings those things into the light, I begin to understand how deeply I need God’s redeeming grace. Our struggles are real. Brokenness can shape our thoughts and responses while we convince ourselves that we are okay—or perhaps doing better than most.

Then God helps us see what we have been overlooking. This is convicting grace at work.

Until recently, I had not realized how resentment can settle into our thoughts until it seems natural. I begin to recognize places where only my feelings mattered or where I acted as though my way was the only way. At other times, I have been so concerned with satisfying others that I have neglected to follow God’s leading.

Sometimes a sharp response comes more easily than facing the truth about what is happening within me. We can hold so tightly to our views, desires, and familiar patterns that we fail to notice how they are weakening our relationship with God.

Then a Scripture, a quiet moment of prayer, or an honest conversation brings something into the light.

As I sit with Psalm 51:10, I am reminded that David was facing his own sin. His prayer leads me to examine my own heart: Who have I become? Where have I allowed distance to grow between God and me? How does my response need to change?

That examination includes how I respond to others.

Am I responding as God would have me respond? Am I speaking with honesty, humility, and love? Or am I choosing whatever seems easiest for the other person to receive because I want to avoid discomfort?

There are times when listening carefully and changing our approach is an expression of love. But I also need to ask whether my desire to keep someone satisfied is keeping me from obedience. Am I willing to follow the Holy Spirit when doing so may disappoint someone?

The request in David’s prayer is personal: “Create in me.”

Before I begin judging or assuming what needs to change in someone else, what needs to change in me?

That is where our pursuit of holiness must become honest. We bring our own hearts before God. We ask Him to reveal what we have excused and cleanse what we cannot repair ourselves.

Grace makes that honesty possible. We can confess because we trust His mercy. Through Jesus Christ, we can receive forgiveness and experience His redeeming work as He restores His likeness within us.

A clean heart grows in its capacity to love. As God frees us from bitterness, we become more able to forgive. As He addresses pride, we become more willing to listen. As He renews our desires, obedience becomes an expression of our love for Him.

We do not have to hide from the God who invites us to be made new.

Today, I am asking: What have I become comfortable keeping that I need to surrender to God?

Prayer: Merciful God, create in me a clean heart. Reveal what needs to change, and give me courage to confess it honestly. Through Jesus Christ, forgive me and renew me. Help me respond to others with truth, humility, and love. Make Your holy love visible in the way I live. Amen.

Today’s response: Begin with one specific attitude or habit. Bring it honestly before God, and write down the next faithful step His Word calls you to take.