09/16/2025
This is a further excerpt from the questions and answers of talk 8 of the 1971 Abhidharma Seminar, "Auspicious Coincidence". This abhidharma seminar happened soon before the first *Tibetan Book of the Dead* seminar, which we studied previously. The discussion here is related to the meaning of the tathagatas in that subsequent seminar and connects awareness practice to the vision of the tathagatas and to the process of making choices in everyday life. The connection between "acknowledging and letting go" and "making a choice" may not seem obvious at first, following the train of thought of the first questioner, but Trungpa Rinpoche brings these together towards the end of this. This is remarkably true and useful postmeditation instruction for life and death.
Q7 (F): Rinpoche, when you were talking about acknowledging and letting go, was that instruction only related to sitting meditation or does that include practice in everyday life?
CTR: Well, I would say it's both, both situations.
Q7: Sometimes, when conflict arises, I feel that I have a choice in that situation and that I can *decide* things. But now I wonder whether I can actually make a choice or not.
CTR: There is nothing wrong with the idea of making a choice. However, the choice is there already, within the situation. Because two aspects of a situation are happening at the same time, it is possible for you to make a relationship with either of those alternatives. The way to work with this situation of choice is to not proceed based on what seems comfortable to you, but to go ahead according to straightforwardness. In other words, if there are two choices, one will be straight ahead, right in front of you, and the other one will be slightly off-center. Or there may be ten or twelve hundred choices, but one of these will be straight ahead, waiting for you on the road. The rest of them are waiting on the side, as sidetracks. Because this journey of going straight ahead is more scary, more frightening, therefore the other choices seem more attractive, like being attracted to restaurants when you're driving on the road, or like drive-in movies. [laughs.]
Q8 (F) : I think that there is usually an appropriate or an inappropriate response to a particular situation, and I think, as you said earlier, the inappropriate choice is based on some *misunderstanding* within the person about themselves. I think that it's a matter of recognition, to *recognize* this, what actually *is* in the situation.
CTR: Exactly, yes. It has to be straightforward, sort of common sense based on basic sanity, transcendental common sense.
Q8: Since I was a musician, I think of this in terms of pitch, that one almost learns to recognize a wrong resonance in one's hearing or response. [CTR laughs] Something without words.
CTR: There could be a misunderstanding here. Generally, I've been saying that if you go along with the present situation, then the future will be quite clear. That could be misunderstood by thinking that everything is marked out for you ahead of time, like when people talk about divine guidance. The notion is that everything is prepared for you ahead of time, so you could immediately find your place that way, as in the saying "The swan is in the lake and the vulture is in the graveyard." They each have their own place. But that doesn't happen. Relating with the present moment is quite painful much of the time. Although there is a straightforward road, a straight road, it could be quite a painful one, not in accord with what feels good at all.
It is like the bardo experience presented in *The Tibetan Book of the Dead*. You have the glaring bright light coming at you along with the images of a collection of tathagatas peering at you, and off to the side there is a less glaring, less irritating, light. The less glaring light seems more beautiful because it's less glaring, only a reflection of the tathagatas. Or, maybe it's not a collection of tathagatas, but your parents sitting straight ahead of you, or your friends, along with particular things that you want inviting you and being presented to you.
So, there are two choices. Should we go with the irritating one or should we just turn off onto a sidetrack? This is very very profound symbolism that applies to everyday life as well. This doesn't have to be the after-death experience alone. Which choices are the most enlightening or *stimulating*, rather, life situations that we might open to and investigate, look into and make a commitment. Without such a choice, there would be no *leap*. There would be no letting go at all. Because of choice, therefore, there is leap, and letting go happens.
It seems that nothing is going to be particularly comforting or blissful or easy. But on the other hand, it *could* be inspiring. That much could be said.