06/01/2026
One of our families had an adult son, who spent his entire life at home because of a debilitating genetic flaw. He couldn’t walk or talk, didn’t develop emotionally and physically as most do, and needed help with every daily need. Before he was born his parents were told how difficult their lives would be, which was true as we saw their pain of losing him to an earthly death. Many assumed their son was unaware of his world around him. His parents would beg to differ. Their interaction was special and an inspiration to all who know them. When he was younger, dad would carry him into church. As he got older, he came in a wheelchair. The phrase “special needs” was his birth blessing, and “special love” was the miracle gift from God his parents offered in response.
One church member related a Sunday when she heard loud screeching noises behind her during worship. She wondered why parents weren’t taking better control of their child. She turned to see an imperfect young man, trapped in the body of a child, being held in his father’s arms. She saw the child’s smile and the love of his parents as they hugged and held him close. She shared how embarrassed she was of her first reaction but thankful for the moment as from that day on, this family was a reminder for her of the love that only comes from God. This was faith in action, in their body language, their eyes, and their peace as they sat and loved their son. She said from then on, every noise from this young man was for her like a message from an angel. Such is the miracle of faith.
In his earthly birth and death Jesus embraced our greatest moments of weakness to connect our special needs with heavenly love. He continues to touch our lives with his presence and power which allows us to live with faith, hope, and love despite our personal limitations or weakness. I am humbled by families such as this one when I realize how easily I can get distracted by what I feel is unfair or I have no means to control. God is alive and well on Planet Earth. Each of us has seen such moments of glory and should never fail to thank God for the special ways he surprises us with his presence. More than we often realize we are surrounded by such miracles that can remind us of our own call to wash feet, love the broken, and allow faith to free us for the special need of servant love. Faith understands that God has stooped to our level to lift us to his, embracing and healing every one of our special needs with a love that is greater, never-ending, and contagious for all whom it touches. There are so many daily ways the Christmas angels continue to sing!