06/22/2026
On my morning walk with Bosco, I noticed a robin, a cardinal, and a bluejay. Each was standing in the street, facing in my direction. They were perfectly spaced about 20 feet from each other. There were no other birds, only those three. They don’t flock, mate, or eat with each other and yet there they were, standing in the same place at the same time. It reminded me of a joke about a rabbi, a priest, and a pastor …
A friend sent a link to a commencement speech by a senior from Harvard. He began his speech by saying, “My life begins with something that could be the start of a joke, and it goes like this. A Christian, a Muslim, and a Jew walk into a bar.” But this time was a little bit different. The Christian married the Muslim, and they had a daughter. That daughter grew up Christian until she met the Jew, converted to Judaism, married the Jew, and had a son. 22 years later, that son is standing here with all of you, graduating from Harvard University.” (Noah Eckstein, 2026)
Why a robin, a cardinal, and a bluejay reminded me of that speech, I don’t know, but it was a fantastic appeal to his graduating class to respect differences. This Jewish young man had a Christian grandfather, a Muslim grandfather, and a Jewish mother. He shared how they each maintained their approach to God, but still found ways to be family. His concern was how our world spends so much time dividing us by differences rather than taking time to understand why others believe what they believe, and how such understanding can bring about conversation. His family is different in many ways but still a family, which is a miracle in and of itself. His appeal was not to surrender beliefs but to understand others so that conversation rather than conflict might keep all relationships more productive.
You have heard that birds of a feather flock together, right? Well, not always! Robins, cardinals, and bluejays don’t flock together but they are still birds and have more in common than what makes them different. I wonder why that is such a tough concept for each of us. If God created us, we are all his children; whether we appreciate that or understand how that can be. We should stand up for what we believe but that shouldn’t prevent us from understanding what others believe and finding ways to keep close. That is not an easy endeavor, and yet if God loves the whole world and everything in it, it seems to behoove us to start with that tenant of faith and work forward from there.
Today a robin, a cardinal, and a blue jay were standing in the street. Was that a fluke? A prophetic message? Or simply a chance occurrence? What a neat visual image that created for me to understand how the love of God can do the impossible, and what might seem impossible to comprehend might indeed be possible. If only we would love as God does … well, you know the rest!