08/31/2026
Most of us want relationships to be fixed or reassembled with friends and family. We don’t like the tension, living with the guilt, or pretending. And as it turns out, we’re really only as happy as our core relationships are healthy.
As we talked about before, the goal with relationships is not reconciliation, because we don’t control the other person. The goal is no regrets. The goal is to know we did everything we could.
Reconciliation requires four decisions. The first decision we talked about over the weekend is: I will get back TO, not back AT.
If we are to have the same mindset as Jesus in everything we do, including our relationships, we can’t seek revenge, be happy when bad things happen to them, or simply ignore them. We put aside our pride, and make a move towards them. Because that’s what God did for us.
Repairing a broken relationship always begins with us, regardless of who created the fuss.
If you have a hard time doing this, start with this prayer, inserting the name(s) of whoever comes to mind:
“Heavenly Father, help me to see ____ the way you do. Help me to feel toward ____ what you feel.”
If you missed Part 2 of the message series “Re-Assembly Required” this past weekend, have questions, or want to learn more, let us know!