01/13/2019
Trust Is The Heart of Intimacy
Psalm 62:8 New International Version (NIV)
8 Trust in him at all times, you people;
pour out your hearts to him,
for God is our refuge.
What if I asked you to describe your relationship with God. Would you say He is like a friend whom you meet occasionally for dinner? Or, is He a valued member of your family who is included in every part of your daily life?
Whatever the state of your relationship with the Lord, please understand that He wants something closer and more meaningful. God desires a connection so deep, so connected, so loyal, so desired, so rich, so fruitful, and so strong that the word “friend” cannot even describe it. He created us for intimacy.
Out of all His creations on earth, human beings are the only ones made in God’s image. So God created human beings in His own image. In the image of God He created them; male and female He created them (Genesis 1:27) Like Him, we can think, reason, feel, and make choices, though we do none of these things as fully, wholeheartedly, or perfectly as He does. The qualities that sets us apart from the rest of creation gears us to relate to the Lord in a unique way.
Jesus called His followers “friends” (John 15:15), and Paul wrote that believers are sons of God (Gal. 4:7). Those are not distant or impersonal relationships! When we spend time with the Lord, we grow as close to Him as a beloved child to a father. He is our first love, best friend, confidant, way maker, counselor, miracle worker, mentor, everlasting love, promise keeper, light in the darkness, blessing provider, hear, mind regulator, family, guide, creator and so much more. He is our Father.
Intimacy with God is available to you. It is as accessible to you as God’s promises. And God’s invitation to you to enjoy intimate fellowship with Him is that thing that is putting your faith to the test more than anything else (James 1:2–4).
Intimacy is what we call the experience of really knowing and being known by another person. An intimate friend is someone we feel very close too. They know and understand us deeply. If something happens that damages the intimacy with our friend, they feel distant from us.
We all know what it’s like to be sitting right next to a person with whom we feel distant and we can feel close to a person who is many miles away.
What makes us feel intimate with another person? While there are many ingredients to intimacy and each intimate relationship we have has a different recipe, a common factor is trust. We cannot be intimate with a person if we do not trust them.
Trust is at the heart of intimacy. The more we trust someone, the closer we let them get to us. When trust is compromised, intimacy leaves.
This is true in our relationship with God. Our experience of God’s nearness or distance is not a description how physically far or near He is to us. Scripture shows us that God is intimate with those who trust Him. The more we trust God, the more intimately we come to know Him. A felt distance from God is often due to some type disturbance in trust, such as a guilt or sorrow.
The secret to drawing near to God and having him draw near to us is revealed clearly in the Bible, we draw near to God through faith in Christ who alone gives us access to him (Hebrews 4:14–16; 7:25; Philippians 3:9), and we put our trust in all of “his precious and very great promises” which find their Yes to us in Christ (2 Peter 1:4; 2 Corinthians 1:20).
God is excited about our faith, not our feats. Where faith is lacking, he is not pleased with the quantity of our knowledge or the quality of our attractive events.
And without faith it is impossible to please Him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him. (Hebrews 11:6)
When God sees someone whose heart fully trusts his promises and lives by them, God comes to strongly support that saint (2 Chronicles 16:9) and manifests himself to him:
“Whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me. And he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him.” (John 14:21)
When we truly get to a place where we desire God and our hearts can’t take being without Him, we are in a intimate relationship with God like King David described in Psalm 63 verses 1-8:
O God, You are my God;
Early will I seek You;
My soul thirsts for You;
My flesh longs for You
In a dry and thirsty land
Where there is no water.
2 So I have looked for You in the sanctuary,
To see Your power and Your glory.
3 Because Your lovingkindness is better than life,
My lips shall praise You.
4 Thus I will bless You while I live;
I will lift up my hands in Your name.
5 My soul shall be satisfied as with [a]marrow and [b]fatness,
And my mouth shall praise You with joyful lips.
6 When I remember You on my bed,
I meditate on You in the night watches.
7 Because You have been my help,
Therefore in the shadow of Your wings I will rejoice.
8 My soul follows close behind You;
Your right hand upholds me.
Here are some other witnesses to having great faith that shared an intimate relationship with God. As I was was reading the other night, I ran across an article titled, “Ten Bible Characters of Great Faith written by Walter Bright 6 years ago but the perfect end for today’s message.
Noah was a man who took God seriously.
Noah did this; he did all that God commanded him. Genesis 6:22
Nehemiah was a man who silenced the Nay Sayers and did what they said he couldn’t do.
Then I replied to them, “The God of heaven will make us prosper, and we his servants will arise and build, but you have no portion or right or claim in Jerusalem.” Nehemiah 2:20
Job was a man whose life and resolve was tested beyond imagination, yet did not curse God.
“In all this Job did not sin or charge God with wrong.” Job 1:22
Joseph was a man who was wholly devoted to the Lord even in times of injustice, betrayal, and temptation.
“As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today.” Genesis 50:20
Ruth was a woman who left everything she had for something far more significant than anything she’d ever imagined.
But Ruth said, “Do not urge me to leave you or to return from following you. For where you go I will go, and where you lodge, I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there will I be buried. May the LORD do so to me and more also if anything but death parts me from you.” And when Naomi saw that she was determined to go with her, she said no more.” Ruth 1:16-18
Esther was a woman who understood her times and seized the day not only for her people but also for God.
“For if you keep silent at this time, relief and deliverance will rise for the Jews from another place, but you and your father’s house will perish. And who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this?” Esther 4:14
Daniel was a man whose integrity and prayer life Helped him to see incredible miracles and prophetic mysteries.
“He went to his house where he had windows in his upper chamber open toward Jerusalem. He got down on his knees three times a day and prayed and gave thanks before his God, as he had done.” Daniel 6:10
Elijah was a man who availed himself in such a way to God. As a result, Gods used him mightily.
“Then the angel of the LORD said to Elijah, “Go down with him; do not be afraid of him.” So he arose and went down with him to the king.” 2 Kings 1:15
Paul was a man so passionate for the lost, that he literally would have walked upon broken glass just to reach the next person.
“A prophet named Agabus came down from Judea… took Paul’s belt and bound his own feet and hands and said, Thus says the Holy Spirit, ‘This is how the Jews at Jerusalem will bind the man who owns this belt and deliver him into the hands of the Gentiles… For I am ready not only to be imprisoned but even to die in Jerusalem for the name of the Lord Jesus.” Acts 21:10-14
Phillip was a man who chose to live by the spirit; follow His promptings, and be used by the Spirit.
“Rise and go toward the south to the road that goes down from Jerusalem to Gaza.” This is a desert place… And there was an Ethiopian.” Acts 8:25-40