06/02/2026
Are you so focused on what you don’t have that you’re missing the blessings of what you do have?
Yesterday, I was washing my SUV, and something hit me while I was cleaning the wheels.
I remembered being in my early 20s and thinking how nice it would be to own a vehicle with actual wheels instead of hubcaps. And now? My SUV has wheels AND leather seats…and a lot of miles and memories. (Twenty-one-year-old me would be so proud 🥹)
But if I’m not careful, what I once dreamed about, worked for, or even prayed for can slowly become something that no longer feels "good enough."
I know that sounds insignificant. And honestly, compared to the beauty and blessings of my life, it is. But it made me stop and look around at everything else I don't want to take for granted.
I don’t want to take for granted a husband who prays over me, loves me sacrificially, and feels like home.
I don’t want to take for granted these four amazing, healthy kids God has entrusted to us. Parenting can be so hard, but I cannot imagine life without our crew.
I don’t want to take for granted the love of a Savior and the gift of salvation. What amazing grace. 🙌🏼
And when I start making a list of everything I’m grateful for, material things don’t even crack the top ten.
If my years working in hospice taught me anything, it’s this: no one reaches the end of life wishing they had accumulated more stuff. They want more time. More memories. More conversations. More forgiveness. More moments with the people they love. Just... more.
So don’t let the longing for what’s next rob you of gratitude for what God is doing right now.
Stop letting a world fueled by discontentment convince you that your life isn't already full of reasons to give thanks.
Sometimes the life you're asking God for is the life you’re already living—you've just forgotten to see it.
“…for I have learned, in whatever situation I am, to be content.”
Philippians 4:11 ESV