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09/15/2021

Meditation for 15 September
by Pastor Dan

Batter my heart, three-person'd God, for you
As yet but knocke, breathe, shine, and seeke to mend;
That I may rise, and stand, o'erthrow mee, and bend
Your force to breake, blowe, burn, and make mee new.
I, like an usurp'd towne, to another due,
Labour to admit you, but Oh, to no end.
Reason, your viceroy in mee, mee should defend,
But is captiv'd, and proves weake or untrue.
Yet dearely I love you, and would be loved faine,
But am betroth'd unto your enemie:
Divorce mee, untie or breake that knot againe,
Take mee to you, imprison mee, for I,
Except you enthrall mee, never shall be free,
Nor ever chast, except you ravish mee.

John Donne

I did my doctoral dissertation on the seventeenth-century British poet and clergyman John Donne. This is one of his most famous poems, and one I often go back to, for I find it articulates the feelings I have and I have found many others share.

It is true for many Christians that they want an overwhelming experience of God working in their life. We want to know the power and presence of God to be real and immediate.

Paul felt something similar, I believe, when he wrote to the Philippians, “I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the sharing of his sufferings by becoming like him in his death, if somehow I may attain the resurrection from the dead.” (Phil. 3:10-11) We have so domesticated and tamed our Christianity, our following of Jesus Christ, that it has no real fervor left. It has become comfortable for us.

The good news is that what I often can’t seem to do God can and does. God comes to me in the presence of his Son through the power of the Holy Spirit and engages me, us, fully.

Thanks be to God.

09/08/2021

Midweek Meditation for 8 September 2021
by Pastor Dan

The same night he got up and took his two wives, his two maids, and his eleven children, and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. He took them and sent them across the stream, and likewise everything that he had. Jacob was left alone; and a man wrestled with him until daybreak. When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he struck him on the hip socket; and Jacob’s hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. Then he said, ‘Let me go, for the day is breaking.’ But Jacob said, ‘I will not let you go, unless you bless me.’ So he said to him, ‘What is your name?’ And he said, ‘Jacob.’ Then the man said, ‘You shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, for you have striven with God and with humans, and have prevailed.’ Then Jacob asked him, ‘Please tell me your name.’ But he said, ‘Why is it that you ask my name?’ And there he blessed him. So Jacob called the place Peniel, saying, ‘For I have seen God face to face, and yet my life is preserved.’
Genesis 32:22-30

It is amazing who God chooses to do God’s work. Jacob is a wonderful example of that. He cheated his brother Esau out of his birthright and blessing. He deceived his father. He tricked his uncle Laban. No, Jacob was no angel. And when it came time to finally go back home and face his brother, no doubt he was afraid. Mighty afraid.

The night before the meeting with Esau, Jacob has a memorable meeting with a powerful figure, one that many commentators say was God (Jacob himself suggests that) or at least an emissary of God’s. All night they struggle, Jacob getting a dislocated hip but also receiving a blessing after the struggle.

What gives me great hope in this incident is that it affirms for us the practice of struggling with God. I know I struggle with the Lord; do you? There are questions I have that I can’t seem to answer – why did God choose me? Why did Jesus weep? What about those who don’t believe in Jesus? Yes these are theological problems that I keep thinking about at night.

But there are other matters that are much more pressing for many of us, or at least for me. What about the complexities of the Covid situation? What is the Christian response to it? Is there a Christian, a biblical way to approach politics? Is it ok to avoid someone who always makes my blood boil?

I struggle with God about these questions, and many others. I fight with God when I think I find God giving me a response I don’t like. I struggle with God’s thinking and arguments. I feel like Jacob.

As with Jacob, God always finally wins. But also I am finally blessed in the end.

Of course faith is blessed, and simple trust is often wonderful, but the story of Jacob here reminds us that the struggle we have with God is also a way God uses to help us through the stormy, thorny, troublesome times in our lives. That might be worth a lame hip, right?

09/01/2021

Weekly Meditation for 1 September 2021
by Pastor Dan

Matthew 18:2-4
He called a child, whom he put among them, and said, ‘Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever becomes humble like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

I have been doing a great deal of reading recently about children in relation to church life. Consequently, these verses were tumbling around in the recesses of my mind all week. I have heard countless sermons on this passage3, sermons that stressed how children were trusting and non-judgmental and innocent. And that is how we are supposed to be.

But the more I looked at the whole passage I began to see how all those sermons, no matter how good they were, really missed the point of the passage.

In Jesus’s day, children were not seen as the center of family life as we are prone to see them today. Parents didn’t cater to their whims, schedule around them, let them have their way in all things. No. Children were the lowliest members of the household, with few rights and with the responsibility to be quiet and obey. They were above slaves, but just barely.

So Jesus adds that clarifying sentence – we are to be humble. We are to choose to see ourselves as not worthy of an exalted position but rather as the lowest person in the household, willing to obey happily and to do the most menial task.

Jesus turns everything upside-down here. The child, who is the lowest-ranking member of the household, is now made great in God’s kingdom. It is the paradox of Christ’s scheme.

The child is the example here. But in the end Christ is the example. An early Christian hymn lets us see this:

Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus,
who, though he was in the form of God,
did not regard equality with God
as something to be exploited,
but emptied himself,
taking the form of a slave,
being born in human likeness.
And being found in human form,
he humbled himself
and became obedient to the point of death—
even death on a cross.

Therefore God also highly exalted him
and gave him the name
that is above every name,
so that at the name of Jesus
every knee should bend,
in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue should confess
that Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of God the Father.
(Philippians 2:5-11)

08/25/2021

Weekly Meditation for 25 August 2021
by Pastor Dan

For all of us make many mistakes. Anyone who makes no mistakes in speaking is perfect, able to keep the whole body in check with a bridle. If we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we guide their whole bodies. Or look at ships: though they are so large that it takes strong winds to drive them, yet they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great exploits.
How great a forest is set ablaze by a small fire! And the tongue is a fire. The tongue is placed among our members as a world of iniquity; it stains the whole body, sets on fire the cycle of nature, and is itself set on fire by hell. For every species of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by the human species, but no one can tame the tongue—a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless the Lord and Father, and with it we curse those who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this ought not to be so. Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and brackish water? Can a fig tree, my brothers and sisters, yield olives, or a grapevine figs? No more can salt water yield fresh.
(James 3:2-12)

This morning we received a message from our daughter. She and her family are heading up to northern Minnesota where they have a cabin and where a wildfire is raging within nine miles of them. They are well aware of the power and danger of a forest fire. The message concerned me, of course – our three-year-old granddaughter was with them. But it also made me change the focus of my meditation for today.

James is one of those books we don’t often talk about – it is demanding and difficult. Martin Luther didn’t even want to include it in the canon. Most preachers want to deal with the gospels or Paul’s epistles. But James still stands as God’s word, and as such we need to look at what it says to us.

And what it says convicts me and many of us. Here in this portion it deals with a troubling member of our bodies – the tongue (actually, metonymy for our speech, our language, how we talk with, and about, one another).

Two things struck me as I meditated on this passage.

First, the tongue is like a small fire, but how soon it flames into a great conflagration: It burns out of control. A little bit of gossip. A snide comment. a critical word. A “white lie.” a malicious charge. It doesn’t really matter, does it. Once said, the word gets out and takes a life of its own. People get hurt. Lives are destroyed. Reputations are obliterated. It happens as quickly as a fire spreads.

The second thing I noticed is the doubleness of any action. Our language can both bless and curse. We are given tools of all kinds. Knives. Guns. Axes. Words. Invitations. Accusations. All can do wonderful, constructive, heavenly things. They can bless; they can build up; they can enhance life; they can strengthen the church. Yes, there is so much positive our tools can do. But those same things can bring destruction. They can kill. They can diminish individuals. They can ruin the work of God in a church. They can tear people apart.

God has given us choice. How we use our tongues is up to us. Let us use them for God’s kingdom and God’s glory.

P.S.

As I was searching for this meditation, I came upon a piece by Vernon McGee, a wonderful preacher. I leave you with his postscript:

Proverbs Ancient and Modern

Anyone who thinks by the inch and talks by the yard ought to be moved by the foot.

I always watch the words I say,
To keep them soft and sweet,
For I don’t know from day to day,
Which ones I’ll have to eat.

Speak as if Jesus was hearing you. He is.

It is well to remember that mansions in the sky cannot be built out of the mud thrown at others.

People with sharp tongues often end up cutting their own throats.

God in His wisdom has made the mouth to close and the ear to remain open.

“The boneless tongue, so small and weak
Can crush and kill,” declares the Greek.
“The tongue destroys a greater hoard,”
Asserts the Turk, “than does the sword.”

A Persian proverb wisely saith,
“A lengthy tongue—an early death”—
Or, sometimes takes this form instead,
“Don’t let your tongue cut off your head.”

“A tongue can speak a word whose speed,”
The Chinese say, “outstrips the steed,”
While Arab sages this impart:
“The tongue’s great storehouse is the heart.”

From Hebrew with this maxim sprung,
“Tho’ feet should slip, ne’er let the tongue.”
The sacred writer crowns the whole:
“Who keeps his tongue doth keep his soul.

08/18/2021

Weekly Meditation
by Pastor Dan

I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies, and whoever lives and believes in me will never die.
John 11:25

I am officiating Martha Robbins’s funeral today.

Funerals for some are entirely sad occasions, and even for Christians there is a sense of loss and sadness, but there is also an awareness that death is not an end but is a transition, much as a caterpillar becomes a butterfly.

When Jesus spoke about “eternal life,” he wasn’t so much talking about time but rather about quality. For those who follow Jesus, eternal life doesn’t happen in the future; it is in the here and now, the glorious present. To have eternal life is to participate in God’s kingdom right now!

I admit, I like funerals. Not that I like death and sadness and separation, but that I am glad that at funerals people are open to talking about more serious matters. Meaningful conversations are possible, and people share there inner beings more freely and honestly. God seems to be at work in those situations.

So today while I pray for comfort for the family and hope for their future, I look forward to seeing God at work in this time.

08/11/2021

Meditation for 11 August 2021
by Pastor Dan

My brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of any kind, consider it nothing but joy, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance; and let endurance have its full effect, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking in nothing.
(James 1:2-4)

…knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us.
(Romans 5:3-5)

Many a frazzled parent has prayed the same prayer: “Lord, give me patience, and I want it now!!!”

Most of us don’t like to wait for things. Alvin and the Chipmunks once sang, “I can hardly stand the wait, please Christmas don’t be late!” As a teacher I was aware that my students wanted the answers without going through the process of reading the poem. As I taught our daughter how to make traditional French bread, she balked at the point when I told her that the three rises would take fifteen hours at least. It is all about process.

Scripture reminds us that God is at work in us through the Holy Spirit, making us more and more Christlike, more whole. The problem for many of us is that we can’t wait for the end of the process. We would like to be zapped with holiness and maturity.

This past year or two we have all been tested with the corona virus. People have died. Businesses, churches, gatherings have been closed. We have learned to Zoom instead of meet. We all want it to be over, but it is a process. We need patience and endurance.

Many of my students at Western came back to me later telling me that when they actually went through the process of careful reading and thinking, they were astonished and glad to see the richness of the poem or story. Those who have gone through difficult times and have relied on God say something similar: because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us.

As you face trials, tests, difficult times, ask God for the ability to see God at work and to be with you through the process of making you the person God created you to be.

07/21/2021

Weekly Meditation for 21 July 2021
by Pastor Dan

Remember the sabbath day, and keep it holy. For six days you shall labour and do all your work. But the seventh day is a sabbath to the Lord your God; you shall not do any work—you, your son or your daughter, your male or female slave, your livestock, or the alien resident in your towns. For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but rested the seventh day; therefore the Lord blessed the sabbath day and consecrated it.
Exodus 20:8-11

The Sabbath is a significant part of biblical teaching that is a problem for most of us. I am meditating on it today because starting Friday we are going on vacation. I am leaving my regular pastoral duties, leaving Macomb, and enjoying a week on a lake with our daughter and her family. A long rest, yet part of God’s design for human living.

Rest is indeed part of our need to model our behavior after God. Of course, God didn’t need to rest after six days of creating everything. In fact, God doesn’t ever have to act out of need. Rather, the model was being set for our behavior. The Sabbath in several ways is a gift from God for our good.

The Sabbath is good for our relationship to God. By focusing on spiritual matters, we renew our inner lives; we focus on our relationship with God. Certainly a daily devotion or meditation is a good practice, but a longer, more intentional spiritual discipline is a more significant and productive means for helping us develop our inner world. Don’t get me wrong here: I am not suggesting that we spend a whole day in prayer and fasting (though for some that would indeed be possible). The point is that we focus on choosing to do what would honor God and help us grow as we make our decisions. For example, choosing to clean the basement rather than to take a walk with our spouse would not be a helpful decision. Even better might be to read a good book to our grandchildren. The principle is to focus our thinking and our acting on ways in which we are keenly aware of God’s presence in our lives.

The Sabbath is also good for our relationship with others. Choosing to free ourselves from our regular jobs gives us more time to develop our friendships with others. God created us to be in communion with others, to enjoy each other, to learn from each other. Shared meals, shared activities shared time. All these develop the bond God designed for us.

Finally, the Sabbath is good for us individually. We need a break. A change in activity. A change in rhythm. A change in perspective. The Sabbath pulls us away from the regular and helps us see life from a different perspective. Most of us know people who have burnt themselves out by working all the time. They may have accomplished a great deal, but finally they find themselves of little use to themselves or to others because they have exhausted all their inner resources.

God has given us a wonderful gift. Let’s accept it with gratitude. Let’s enjoy the Sabbath.

07/14/2021

Weekly Meditation for 14 July 2021
by Pastor Dan

And after [Jesus] had dismissed the crowds, he went up the mountain by himself to pray. When evening came, he was there alone …
Matthew 14:23

Every day, in every way, we are bombarded by noise, interruptions, demands, voices. It isn’t new, of course; that kind of frenetic activity has always existed to some extent. The English Romantic poet William Wordsworth started one of his sonnets,
“The world is too much with us; late and soon,
Getting and spending, we lay waste our powers;—
Jesus suffered the same problem. He often was surrounded by the crowds, clamoring after him, asking him for healing and pressing to hear his message.

Matthew tells us that Jesus had a way to deal with the pressures, the demands, the needs of the others He spent time alone with his Father. In God there was renewal and rest. Look at what this verse tells us.

First, Jesus separated himself. The things that get to us and wear us down are very present with us. Jesus knew he had to get away from them. Sometimes this is easy. We can take a walk. We can go to the park. We can have a “prayer room” somewhere in the house. The idea is to have a place where we can remove most of the distractions and demands that call us. And by all means don’t have your cell phone with you!!!

Jesus went by himself. There are times it is good to be with God in a prayer group – one or more people who share our desire to be with God. But in being alone we are able to do both things that are involved with prayer: we can pour out ourselves before our God as well as listen to what God has to say to us. In being alone, we are being intimate with our Lord.

Third, Jesus was intentional. He went to pray. As I just said, prayer is both speaking and listening. Prayer opens us to God’s working in our lives. C. S. Lewis wrote, ““I pray because I can't help myself. I pray because I'm helpless. I pray because the need flows out of me all the time, waking and sleeping. It doesn't change God. It changes me.” Too often we run to God to get what we want – peace in our family, stability in our world, healing for family and friends. Now all these are good, but God will do them without our asking if it is for our good. What prayer is all about is our being changed into the people God designed us to be.

May we all decide to get away regularly to commune with God so that God will continue to work in us.

07/07/2021

Weekly Meditation for 7 July 2021
by Pastor Dan

James 5:7
Be patient, therefore, beloved, until the coming of the Lord. The farmer waits for the precious crop from the earth, being patient with it until it receives the early and the late rains.

Ambrose Bierce, in his whimsical book, The Devil's Dictionary, said this of patience: "Patience, n. A minor form of despair, disguised as a virtue." Paul says something different about patience in Galatians: “By contrast, the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against such things.” But in some ways the two go together – we often get so tired of waiting for the Spirit to finish his work that we begin to despair.

The story is told of a little 4-year-old boy who is traveling with his mother. Like most kids his age, he is constantly badgering his mother with the same question: "When are we going to get there? When are we going to get there?" Like many mothers of 4-year-olds, she gets irritated and says, "We still have 90 more miles to go. So don't ask me again when we're going to get there. "The boy is silent for a long time. Then he asks, "Mom, will I still be 4 when we get there?"

Sometimes I must admit I think and act like that little boy. I want to have God finish the work of spiritual maturity in me more quickly as I pray, “Lord, make me more patient, and make it happen NOW!”

Growth, learning, change. All take time. Richard Rohr notes that issue in “When things fall apart”:

The word “change” normally refers to new beginnings. But transformation more often happens not when something new begins but when something old falls apart. The pain of something old falling apart — disruption and chaos — invites the soul to listen at a deeper level. It invites and sometimes forces the soul to go to a new place because the old place is not working anymore. The mystics use many words to describe this chaos: fire, darkness, death, emptiness, abandonment, trial, the Evil One. Whatever it is, it does not feel good and it does not feel like God. We will do anything to keep the old thing from falling apart.
This is when we need patience, guidance and the freedom to let go instead of tightening our controls and certitudes. Perhaps Jesus is describing this phenomenon when he says, “It is a narrow gate and a hard road that leads to life, and only a few find it” (Matthew 7:14).
Transformation usually includes a disconcerting reorientation. Change can either help people to find a new meaning, or it can cause people to close down and turn bitter. The difference is determined by the quality of our inner life, or what we call “spirituality.” Change of itself just happens; spiritual transformation is an active process of letting go, living in the confusing dark space for a while, and allowing yourself to be spit up on a new and unexpected shore. You can see why Jonah in the belly of the whale is such an important symbol for many Jews and Christians.

We all know that change is inevitable. Nevertheless, we do have a choice about how we deal with change and growth. Let’s pray for grace to develop patience so that in all things we can become the people God intends us to be.

06/30/2021

Weekly Meditation for 30 June 2021
by Pastor Dan

For you were called to freedom, brothers and sisters; only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for self-indulgence, but through love become slaves to one another. For the whole law is summed up in a single commandment, ‘You shall love your neighbour as yourself.’ If, however, you bite and devour one another, take care that you are not consumed by one another. (Galatians 5:13-15)

“Free at last, Free at last, Thank God almighty we are free at last.” (Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr.)

Sunday is July 4, our celebration of our declaring ourselves free from the rule of Great Britain. In a variety of ways – our parades, our picnics, our speeches, our fireworks – we proclaim ourselves a free people. Yet we recognize that our freedom is not absolute; we must always strive to maintain it and to ensure that all those living here have the same freedoms we so cherish.

We also recognize what Paul told the Christians in Galatians: Freedom does not mean license or privilege; it entails responsibility and accountability.

When Christ frees us, he doesn’t give us the unlimited power to do as we please, for we are held within a social contract – we are not individuals but exist in relationship to our fellow human beings. That balance between real freedom from constraints and demands must be balanced by our consideration of and for our neighbors.

And who, we might ask is our neighbor, we might ask? As it turns out, an expert in the law asked Jesus the same question (see the Parable of the Good Samaritan in Luke 10:25-37). In our context, we need to see the parable telling us that whoever is involved in the issue is our neighbor. In writing to the Christians in Corinth Paul also said that if we are to use our freedom responsibly, we should not run roughshod over others.

I find this a difficult idea in Scripture, I just admit, for it doesn’t allow me to enjoy the freedoms I know I have. But when I think about it, I realize that what I am really saying at that point is that I matter more than my brother or sister. I can do what I want to do, regardless of what that other person thinks or feels. Even if I am right and he is wrong. Even if I have the right or privilege to do something or have something the other person wants or thinks I shouldn’t have.

So what I need to do is ask myself, “Am I putting my rights, my desires, my feelings above my relationships to my brothers and sisters? Or as Paul wrote: “For the whole law is summed up in a single commandment, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ If, however, you bite and devour one another, take care that you are not consumed by one another.”

Maybe freedom isn’t all it is cracked up to be. Maybe love is.

06/23/2021

Midweek Meditation for 23 June
by Pastor Dan

The heavens are telling the glory of God;
and the firmament proclaims his handiwork.
Day to day pours forth speech,
and night to night declares knowledge.
There is no speech, nor are there words;
their voice is not heard;
yet their voice goes out through all the earth,
and their words to the end of the world.
Psalm 19:1-4

Pied Beauty

Glory be to God for dappled things –
For skies of couple-colour as a brinded cow;
For rose-moles all in stipple upon trout that swim;
Fresh-firecoal chestnut-falls; finches’ wings;
Landscape plotted and pieced – fold, fallow, and plough;
And áll trádes, their gear and tackle and trim.

All things counter, original, spare, strange;
Whatever is fickle, freckled (who knows how?)
With swift, slow; sweet, sour; adazzle, dim;
He fathers-forth whose beauty is past change:
Praise him.
Gerard Manley Hopkins

One of the benefits of the pandemic for many people is that it forced them outdoors and forced them to slow down. In so doing, many of us took a new look at God’s creation and the beauty we find there, the wonder of the seasons, the magnificence of renewal, the smells we don’t always notice, the sounds that catch our ears.

The poet in Psalm 19 gets the point. Nature sounds all around us how glorious God is, what a creator of beauty the Almighty is. The poet notes that even though human language is not used, all nature speaks to us incessantly.

Gerard Manley Hopkins Sets us ablaze with sensuous, vibrant, rich language as he also praises God for the magnificent variety in the natural world. But most importantly, he points to God’s centrality in all this sensuous beauty-making, God the eternal poet-ppainter whose ‘beauty is past change.

How could we not praise our Loving, imaginative Creator!

This Is My Father’s World
Maltbie D. Babcock

This is my Father's world,
And to my listening ears
All nature sings, and round me rings
The music of the spheres.
This is my Father's world:
I rest me in the thought
Of rocks and trees, of skies and seas--
His hand the wonders wrought.

This is my Father's world:
The birds their carols raise,
The morning light, the lily white,
Declare their Maker's praise.
This is my Father's world:
He shines in all that's fair;
In the rustling grass I hear Him pass,
He speaks to me everywhere.

This is my Father's world:
O let me ne'er forget
That though the wrong seems oft so strong,
God is the Ruler yet.
This is my Father's world:
Why should my heart be sad?
The Lord is King: let the heavens ring!
God reigns; let earth be glad!

06/16/2021

Weekly Meditation for 16 June 2021
by Pastor Dan

For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:
a time to be born, and a time to die;
a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
a time to kill, and a time to heal;
a time to break down, and a time to build up;
a time to weep, and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
a time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
a time to seek, and a time to lose;
a time to keep, and a time to throw away;
a time to tear, and a time to sew;
a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
a time to love, and a time to hate;
a time for war, and a time for peace.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

It is said that timing is everything. That is what the writer of Ecclesiastes seems to have had on his mind. It is a trick to know not only what to do or say as well as when to do it or say it.

Many of us are impetuous. We blurt out whatever is on our minds regardless of what the outcomes might be. We do whatever we feel like doing, without regard to others. The results sometime are good, but at times they are calamitous. We hurt people; we cause rifts in relationships; we damage things or people, sometimes irreparably. Yes, timing is everything.

I recently talked with a farmer friend about planting crops. Now I know little about horticulture, but he is an expert. He told me that there is a perfect time to plant, and a foolish time to plant, a time when the harvest will probably be as good as it can be and a time when it will probably be a failure. The wise farmer will know these things, and will act accordingly.

Oh that we could be that wise in all things. To know when to disagree with someone and when to remain silent. To know when to visit someone and when to stay away. To know when to correct someone’s unruly child and when to leave the matter to the parent. To know when to tell someone you know a better way and to refrain silent. A time to win the game of checkers and a time to lose to your five-year-old grandson.

Knowing when is important. Yet I would question one of the Preacher’s statements. I think it is always a good time to love. It is always right to love someone, to act in love, to be the communicator of love. Yet even that is hard, for we often think we are doing the loving thing when we are really acting out of selfish motives. So even love needs discernment. True love is giving up control of another and acting as if you really had that person’s good at heart and knew what that person’s good was.

Again, discernment and wisdom are necessary. Love is necessary. Timing is necessary.

Thank God that in all this God gives us the Holy Spirit to work in us to discern the right time and the right thing to do or say. And God also gives us the power to apologize and repent when our timing wasn’t right after all.

Thanks be to God.

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