06/02/2026
An Affirming PRIDE Reading List
Dear friends,
I read a lot of books. The primary reason I read so much is that books offer me the best way to learn about cultures and ways of life different from my own. I grew up in a very specific, privileged way, and there is so much about the world and all its people that I don’t know. So I read about them and learn and expand my understanding, which then makes it a whole lot more difficult to judge.
As we begin Pride Month, I thought I would share a list of books and articles to help our church better understand what it means to be q***r and specifically q***r in the church. I initially put this list together a few years ago, but made some edits to share newer titles with you today. Do you have other suggestions? Let me know and I’ll add them. Do you have experiences of being q***r in the church that you’d like to share? Let me know so we can find time to talk.
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Articles
Building Faith article: "Church Participation in Pride Events: Why and How to Show Up"
https://buildfaith.org/church-participation-in-pride-events/
Illustrated Ministry article: Trans Inclusion in the Church: What Christians Need to Know
https://www.illustratedministry.com/2025/trans-inclusion-in-the-church/
Illustrated Ministry three-part series Welcoming and Affirming Q***r Youth (this is a really important, informative series.)
Part One
https://www.illustratedministry.com/2025/welcoming-and-affirming-q***r-youth/
Part Two
https://www.illustratedministry.com/2025/welcoming-and-affirming-q***r-youth-part-two/
Part Three
https://www.illustratedministry.com/2025/welcoming-and-affirming-q***r-youth-part-three/
Wondering what all those letters mean? Check out the Human Rights Campaign glossary of LGBTQIA+ terms
https://www.hrc.org/resources/glossary-of-terms
Books
Transforming: The Bible and the Lives of Transgender Christians by Austen Hartke - Offers an exploration of transgender inclusion and faith from a Biblical perspective and includes the voices and perspectives of a variety of different transgender people.
Unclobber: Rethinking our misuse of the Bible on Homosexuality by Colby Martin - Oriented from and towards an evangelical/exvangelical perspective, and provides a really helpful entry-point for discussions around the “clobber passages.”
God Gets Everything God Wants by Katie Hays - Katie is the pastor of Galileo Church in Fort Worth and this book describes what she calls “the theological rehabilitation” they are doing at Galileo. Truthfully, I recommend all of Katie’s books: https://www.katiehays.net/books
Outlove: A Q***r Christian Survival Story by Julie Rodgers - A memoir from a Dallas native about surviving and recovering the evangelical "ex-gay" movement and conversion therapy. Happy Ending: she marries her wife and possesses a radical self-acceptance.
We Have Always Been Here: A Q***r Muslim Memoir by Samra Habib - a memoir of coming of age and growing up q***r and Muslim in Pakistan and Canada.
Rainbow Theology: Bridging Race, Sexuality, and Spirit by the Rev. Dr. Patrick Cheng - to my knowledge, this was the first book in the Episcopal Church to really look at the intersections of race and q***r sexuality across multiple ethnic and cultural groups.
Choosing Love: What LGBTQ+ Can Teach Us All About Relationships, Inclusion, and Justice by Dawne Moon and Theresa W. Tobin - this book brings together LGBTQIA+ conservative Christians; they aren’t always mutually exclusive.
What am I missing? I also have novels, picture books, and middle grade suggestions as well. Just email me or comment below and I’ll happily share!
Faithfully,
Allison+