12/16/2025
My nephew was shot in the Bondi attack. We’re still celebrating Hanukkah | Opinion | Houston Chronicle
Even though we are still in shock, and even though we are still mourning, we know that the only response is to expand our light.
https://www.houstonchronicle.com/opinion/outlook/article/nephew-bondi-attack-we-re-still-celebrating-21245065.php
By Rabbi Chaim Lazaroff
This week, Jews across the globe celebrate Hanukkah. The central message of the holiday is that light will always overcome darkness, that good will prevail over evil. For the past 23 years, I’ve shared this message at Hanukkah celebrations, menorah lightings, and holiday parties across Houston. This year, I realized just how potent that message truly is.
On Sunday, the world heard news about the horrific terror attack in Sydney, Australia, where fifteen people were murdered and dozens more were injured. For many in the Jewish community and in Houston generally, the news was devastating. But for my family, the news was personal. My nephew, Leibel Lazaroff, attended the event and was critically injured. A 20-year old who had just received his rabbinical ordination, my nephew had arrived in Sydney less than six weeks ago for a year of community outreach and practical rabbinical training. We are reciting chapters of Psalms hourly as a way to pray for him to make a full recovery.
Since the news broke, people have been asking if Chabad will be cancelling our menorah lightings and events this year. There is a temptation, after violence like this, to retreat, to cancel events and to lower our profiles. While this is understandable, our answer to the people is a resolute: No. We will not be cancelling our events this year.
The Chabad centers across Texas are of course taking every security measure necessary to ensure our events are safe, and we are working closely with law enforcement and professional security teams. Of course, we are still processing Sunday’s events and we are still in a state of shock. However, our response can’t be limited to just mourning or grieving.
In response to terror and hate, the response — since the days of the Maccabees — has been to stand taller, spread more light, and not back down. In the face of oppression and tyranny, our ancestors in ancient times didn’t accept the status quo or make themselves smaller, they stuck to the truth and with G-d’s help, defeated a much larger force of negativity and oppression.
One of the victims of the attack was Rabbi Eli Schlanger, the director of Chabad-Lubavitch of Bondi and a leader in Australia’s Jewish community overall. Last Hanukkah, as antisemitism surged, Rabbi Schlanger answered the question that many were asking: How should we respond to all the hate? In a message sent to his community he stated: In the face of darkness, the way forward is the same. Be more Jewish, act more Jewish, and appear more Jewish.
What he meant is that when our identity is threatened, we can’t let the forces of darkness win. We must continue to shine our light.
But we take this one step further. The order in which the menorah is lit shares an important lesson. On the first night of Hanukkah, we light just one candle, adding an additional one until all eight are lit on the final night. We learn from this that it’s never enough to just spread light — we must always be growing the light, too.
So to the Jewish community who are still reeling, the best way I know of to react to this awful act of senseless violence is to rely on the deep and beautiful traditions that have been passed down to us. Light a menorah this Hanukkah. Attend a menorah lighting. Show your Jewish pride. And if you know someone who has nobody to spend Hanukkah with, invite them to your house and brighten their day.
To our allies and friends in Houston, we have the same message. When darkness rears its ugly head, be a force of light. Too many in the sphere of public discourse are downplaying the attack or even celebrating. I encourage each of you to be a voice of kindness and moral clarity — values that have sadly become all too uncommon in our modern society. Whether on social media or in the course of day to day life, be the shining example of the values upon which our society is built.
The lesson of the holiday — that darkness in all its manifestations can be overcome by just a little light – is ultimately what the menorah symbolizes. This year in Houston, we will light menorahs publicly, proudly and even more visibly. Even though we are still in shock, and even though we are still mourning, we know that the only response is to expand our light. Not because it is necessarily the safe or easy option. But because shrinking, hiding or turning inward is antithetical to what the holiday we are celebrating stands for.
Hanukkah teaches that darkness is real. It also teaches that light is a responsibility. May the light prevail this Hanukkah.
Chaim Lazaroff is rabbi and director at Chabad of Houston.
Chabad Jewish Student Center at Texas A&M University