05/25/2026
Memorial Day Musing
“Lord, send down your Spirit and renew the face of the earth.”
On Saturday, I presided over a graveside service at Waasa Cemetery near Embarrass, Minnesota. The sky was overcast, the wind was a bit chilly, and low-lying bogs and ditches were rejoicing from the previous evening's rain. As we entered the small cemetery, surrounded by birch, aspen, tamarack, and pine, we quickly found the grave site where the service was to take place. However, instead of finding one hole in the ground, there were five. Knowing there would be a graveside service and burial for a beloved family member, other family members, mostly cousins, brought the ashes of parents and siblings to be interred simultaneously so they could all rest together—a family reunion of sorts.
So, just prior to the planned service, each of the other four urns was placed into a pre-dug hole. Family members shared the name of the person, their family connection, and then a memory. After each person was named, I said these familiar words, “Almighty God, into your hands we commend your servant, in sure and certain hope of resurrection to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
All responded, “Amen.”
I continued, “These ashes we now commit to the ground: earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust… Yes, says the Spirit, they will rest from their labors.”
We then commenced the service for a much-beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend. At the conclusion of her service, family members began placing dirt over her ashes and then spontaneously took handfuls of dirt and dropped them into the graves of the family members we had remembered earlier. With great love and reverence, everyone took their turn, gently releasing dirt on top of the urns until each had been properly attended to.
As I left the cemetery, I was deeply moved. These acts of remembering loved ones, placing their remains in the earth, and then embracing and reconnecting with family were Pentecost and Memorial Day wrapped into one beautiful liturgy, not in a church but in a small open field near a bog. It was a recognition that each of us is connected not only to the Creator but also to each other and to Creation herself.
“Lord send down your Spirit and renew the face of the earth.”
Image: Sr. Renata Liegey, OSB